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WELLBEING RESET DAY: THE FOOD

Sun, 26 Apr 2026 19:07:03 GMT

We love healthy and tasty food!

We plan our food seriously for our wellbeing reset sessions. All of our food is fresh, gluten free and full of protein. I have been refining some of the snacks so ready to share the recipes.

I promise to keep adding more upon request!

Healthy dark chocolate

These are great little treats. Dark chocolate is a great source of magnesium (good for muscle recovery and sleep!). I'm just going to wing it with this recipe so you might want to experiment as well.

Makes 12 chocolates

MAIN BITS

1 large bar of dark choc (70% or higher)

10 dates pitted, chopped roughly

Handful of unsalted pistachios, chopped roughly

Pinches of sea salt

Silicon mold for chocolates (like a small ice cube tray)

STEPS

Place the chopped dates into all the cubes of the mold
Break chocolate into bits
Melt chocolate. I boiled a pan of water and melted it in a steel bowl, scooping out with a small spatula
Cover the melted chocolate with the chopped pistachios
Crumble a bit of sea salt on each chocolate
Put in the fridge for an hour (it forms quickly)
When ready, pop out the chocs out of the mold and enjoy! The dates make it taste quite caramelly)

Sweet Potato Quiche

This is one of my desert island meals. My friends request it, mainly because of the cheesy sweet potato base. You can add any veggie combo. I am just putting my preferred players in here: Broccoli, sun dried tomatoes, black olives. But the original recipe from my friend Helen was spinach.

Sweet potato provides complex carbohydrates for sustained energy, fiber, and high levels of Vitamin A. Eggs/cheese, protein. Broccoli is a cruciferous veg (nutritional powerhouse so you get a lot of bang for your buck with this particular choice).

QUICHE CRUST

400g sweet potato

50g cheddar cheese grated

1 egg

Salt and pepper

QUICHE FILLING

150g broccoli (or any vegetable)

Chopped sundried tomatoes (optional)

Chopped black olives (optional)

6 medium eggs

100g cheddar cheese grated

STEPS

Preheat your oven to 170c (180c if not fan assisted)
Grate sweet potato on top of a clean tea towel (you can leave skin on or not). Use the tea towel to squeeze the juice out of the sweet potato
Grate 50g of cheese and mix it together in a mixing bowl with the squeezed sweet potato and 1 egg
Next grease your quiche/cake tin and then use your hands to push the sweet potato mix into it until there are no gaps (save a little of the mix to patch up any holes that appear after it’s been baked)
Pop in the oven for 20 minutes.
Chop broccoli into small bits
Whisk the eggs and milk in a mixing bowl. Add veggies/sun dried tomatoes/olives in, along with the 100ml of grated cheese
Pour your filling into the sweet potato crust and bake for 30-40 minutes (until golden on top).

Protein brownies with sweet potato and black beans

These ar e delicious brownies but it can be a bit of trial and error getting the consistency right. I cook them the night before and gently reheat them to make them gooey. These are so full of protein and nutrients, it could almost count as your "five a day".

Makes 8 hearty servings but you can cut them smaller and serve more people, especially before going into a yin yoga class. But you can have as many brownies as you'd like...

INGREDIENTS

2 cups sweet potatoes peeled, cooked and cooled
2 cups black beans soaked/cooked (or a tin can will do)
3 medium eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/2 cup cacao powder
1/2 cup brown sugar
1 teaspoon cinnamon
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 half of a large DARK 70% chocolate bar broken into bits
A bit of flaky sea salt for topping

STEPS

In advance, you can prep the sweet potatoes and black beans.
When ready, preheat oven 175 C
Then blend the sweet potatoes and black beans
Whip the eggs
Mix the other ingredients with the aforementioned ingredients
Bake for 30 mins, check with toothpick. It should come out clean but I kept baking it and it still was a little gooey. But after refrigerating it overnight, it seemed fine when I gently warmed it up.

Cranberry pecan kale quinoa salad

We have run 4 wellbeing reset days and this salad is everyone's favourite. It's gluten free, vegetarian and vegan, which ticks A LOT of boxes. Please note: We only serve this salad on full day retreats :)

Rich in fiber, Vitamin C, Vitamin K, and anti-inflammatory deliciousness

8 servings

MAIN BITS

1 cup dry quinoa

1.5 cup water

1 bunch of kale, 3 cups-ish, I prefer cavolo nero, as you can easily remove stalks

1 cup dried cranberries

LIGHT LEMON DRESSING

3 lemons, juiced

6 TBSP avocado oil or light olive oil

2 tsp cider vinegar to taste

1 small clove garlic, peeled and minced

Salt and pepper

CANDIED PECANS

2 cup chopped pecans (the smaller the better)

2 TBSP unsalted butter

4 TBSP brown sugar

salt

STEPS

I try to make parts of this salad in advance. There are 5 components to this salad:

Quinoa, kale, cranberries, dressing, candied pecans (the best bit)

I do 3 things in advance:

Cook the quinoa with the quinoa and water, let it cook down
Make the dressing, put it all in a jar and shake it
Candy the pecans: Sautee the unsalted butter, add the brown sugar, then pecans. Cook for 5 minutes on medium heat, constantly stirring until the brown sugar melts and the nuts are smelling roasty. Cool on a baking sheet on parchment paper. Make sure they are separated as much as poss.

An hour before serving the salad:

Put the cold quinoa in the main salad serving bowl
Rinse the kale in very warm water, leave for a few minutes to soften the leaves. Put over the quinoa
Add the cranberries
Add the pecans
Pour the dressing on. Put half on first, mix the salad bits. Taste it. See if you need more. Some people don't like overly saturated salads so just ensure the leaves are well coated without drenching.
Prepare to receive compliments; don't let it go to your head, but it's hard not to feel proud of this creation. It's great in both winter and summer.

Seedy protein crackers

Finally, I am providing the seedy almond crackers! These are packed with protein, omegas and flavour.

Enough crackers for snacks for 8 people

MAIN BITS

200 g almonds (chopped into fine bits)

100 g mixed seeds (chopped into fine bits

Dried herbs (such as Herbs de Province or Italian seasoning)

1 egg

1 tbsp coconut oil

1 tbsp water

1/2 tsp salt

1/4 tsp bicarb of soda

STEPS

Preheat oven to 180c
Make sure that all the dry ingredients are chopped finely
Add in salt, bicarb, water and coconut oil
Mix well
Roll mixture into 2 different balls
Use 2 different baking trays
Line baking tray with parchment paper
Roll out the mixture with parchment paper on top (use rolling pin or bottle of wine if you don't have a rolling pin)
Roll the mixture to a 10 mm thickness (needs to be thick enough for dipping)
"Score" (i.e., make little lines with a knife) the mixture so you can break them into rectangles
Bake at 180c for 20 minutes
Let cool and then break apart into pieces

Beetroot feta dip

I have finally found a recipe that tastes delish! I'm sure you will love it too! Just wear black clothes when you are prepping this as beetroot turns everything purple.

Beetroot and garlic are rich in antioxidants and known for lowering blood pressure, by dilating the vessels, just like the sauna!

INGREDIENTS

2 medium cooked beetroots (not the kind soaked in vinegar)

200 g feta cheese (or a whole packet)

2 tbsp cream cheese

2 medium garlic cloves, chopped (TIP: rest the garlic for 10 mins to release "allicin" to maximise antioxidant and antibacterial compound)

1 tbsp lemon juice

1 tbsp olive oil (good quality extra virgin)

1/2 tsp salt

STEPS

Bring a pot of water to boil with some salt
Place the beetroot into the boiling water for 10 minutes
Allow beetroot to cool and pull off the skins
Throw it in a blender along with all the other ingredients
Blend until smooth

JOY OF MISSING OUT

Mon, 20 Apr 2026 05:30:00 GMT

Finding Wellbeing in Less

The Joy of Missing Out

In a world that constantly encourages us to do more, see more, and be more, it can feel uncomfortable to step back.

Social media feeds are full of events, achievements, and opportunities, all subtly suggesting that we should be participating too.

Yet, quietly growing in response to this pressure is a different idea: JOMO — the Joy of Missing Out.

I came across the term and thought it would be worth exploring a bit more as I really do believe it ties nicely into my ongoing interest in supporting our ongoing wellbeing.

JOMO is the gentle opposite of FOMO (the Fear of Missing Out).

Instead of worrying about what we’re not doing, JOMO invites us to appreciate where we are and what we already have. It’s about choosing presence over pressure and contentment over comparison.

When viewed through a wellbeing lens, JOMO becomes more than just a trendy phrase — it becomes a powerful way to protect our mental and emotional health.

Closely connected to JOMO is the idea of Unwanting — the practice of loosening our grip on the constant desire for more; something I've written about previously. Together, JOMO and Unwanting offer a path toward calm, clarity, and deeper satisfaction with life as it is.

The Pressure to Keep Up

Modern life offers more opportunities than ever before, but it also brings an unspoken expectation to stay busy and engaged. Invitations, notifications, and endless choices can create a sense that we should always be doing something more meaningful, productive, or exciting.

This constant striving can take a toll on our wellbeing. Overcommitment often leads to stress, fatigue, and a feeling of being stretched too thin. Even when we choose to rest, we might feel guilty — as though we should be somewhere else or doing something more worthwhile.

JOMO challenges this mindset. It reassures us that it’s okay not to attend every event, respond to every message immediately, or say yes to every opportunity. Sometimes, the healthiest choice is to opt out.

Missing out, in this sense, is not a loss — it’s a conscious decision to protect our energy and attention.

What Is the Joy of Missing Out?

JOMO is the ability to take pleasure in doing less. It’s enjoying a quiet evening instead of a busy one, choosing rest instead of rushing, and feeling content with the present moment rather than longing to be elsewhere.

At its heart, JOMO is about intention. It’s not about withdrawing from life, but about choosing experiences that genuinely nourish us rather than simply filling our time.

When we embrace JOMO, we give ourselves permission to:

Slow down without guilt
Prioritise rest and recovery
Be selective with our time
Enjoy simple moments
Focus on what truly matters

This shift in perspective can have a powerful effect on wellbeing. Many people find that when they do less, they actually experience more — more calm, more clarity, and more connection to the present moment.

For us, we aim to prioritize time as a family, either travelling to new places or going to local exhibitions.

Re-Introducing Unwanting

If JOMO is about enjoying what we choose not to do, Unwanting is about easing the constant desire for more.

Much of our stress comes not from what we have, but from what we think we’re missing. We might want more success, more experiences, more possessions, or even more time. While ambition and goals can be healthy, endless wanting often leaves us feeling dissatisfied.

Unwanting doesn’t mean giving up on growth or aspiration. Instead, it’s about learning to be content without constantly seeking the next thing. It’s the quiet recognition that, in this moment, we already have enough.

When we practise Unwanting, we begin to notice how often our thoughts drift toward “what’s next” instead of “what’s here.” By gently letting go of some of those wants, we create space for appreciation and ease.

How JOMO and Unwanting Work Together

JOMO and Unwanting complement each other beautifully. JOMO helps us step back from constant activity, while Unwanting helps us step back from constant desire.

Together, they shift our focus from chasing to choosing.

For example:

Instead of wanting to attend every social event, we enjoy the one we choose.
Instead of wanting a more exciting weekend, we appreciate a restful one.
Instead of wanting more recognition, we take satisfaction in what we’ve already done.

This combination can be deeply freeing. When we no longer feel compelled to do everything or have everything, life becomes lighter and more manageable.

The Wellbeing Benefits

Embracing JOMO and Unwanting can support wellbeing in several meaningful ways:

Reduced stress:
Saying no more often helps prevent overwhelm and burnout.
Improved focus:
Doing fewer things allows us to be more present with what we do choose.
Greater contentment:
Letting go of constant wanting helps us appreciate what we already have.
Better balance:
Choosing rest and simplicity creates space for recovery and reflection.
Stronger boundaries:
JOMO encourages us to protect our time and energy.

Over time, these small shifts can lead to a calmer and more sustainable way of living.

Practising JOMO and Unwanting

Like any mindset, JOMO and Unwanting take practice. They begin with small, intentional choices.

You might start by:

Saying no to something that doesn’t truly matter to you
Scheduling time to rest without filling it
Turning off notifications for a while
Noticing when you’re wanting something unnecessary
Appreciating a simple, ordinary moment

Even small acts of opting out can feel surprisingly powerful.

Finding Joy in Enough

JOMO reminds us that missing out isn’t always a bad thing. Sometimes, it’s exactly what we need. Unwanting reminds us that we don’t always need more to feel satisfied.

Together, they invite us into a quieter kind of happiness — one based not on constant activity or achievement, but on presence and contentment.

In a culture that celebrates more, choosing less can feel radical. Yet often, it’s in these quieter moments — when we stop striving and start simply being — that we find the greatest sense of wellbeing.

Sometimes, the real joy isn’t in what we do.

It’s in what we choose to leave out.

WELLBEING - HOW DO YOU FEEL?

Sun, 05 Apr 2026 16:30:01 GMT

Wellbeing - A Change in Approch

Why Feeling Better Matters More Than Optimising Everything

For years, wellbeing has been framed around 'performance' - or improvement.

I know as part of challenges, I've counted steps, tracked sleep cycles, measured heart rates, focused on optimising morning routines and pushed myself towards reaching various goals (particularly if I have an event I'm training for).

The underlying principle was simple: if you could measure it, you could improve it. And if you improved it, you would feel better.

Don't get me wrong - I think measurement has it's purpose, but maybe it need not be the driving factor. (For example, we are pretty active and by measuring our levels of activity it enables us to reduce our healthcare insurance. I guess we are using measurement to our advantage, rather than being 'driven' by it).

The 'Peformance Pressure' of Wellbeing

But somewhere along the way, wellbeing became another form of pressure- if indeed it becomes 'another thing you have to find time to do each day.' Should maintaining your wellbeing become a source of angst then surely we've lost our way and it's potentially failing in it's essence.

Perhaps in 2026, we are seeing a shift away from performance-driven wellness and towards something more human.

Instead of asking, “How can I optimise my life?”, I think that more people are asking, “How can I feel well?”

This shift represents one of the most important changes in modern wellbeing culture.

Performance-based wellbeing focuses on outputs. It asks how fast you can run, how many hours you sleep, how productive you are, or how consistent your habits have become.

While these things can be useful indicators, they don’t always reflect how we actually feel.

We can hit 10,000 steps a day and still feel exhausted. Similarly - not hitting 10,000 steps a day can make us feel demotivated and despondent. We can follow the perfect morning routine and still feel anxious or not productive. We can track every calorie and still feel disconnected from our body.

Wellbeing, in its truest sense, is more subjective.

It includes energy levels, emotional balance, meaning, connection and enjoyment. It’s less about achieving perfect scores and more about creating a life that feels sustainable and supportive.

One reason for this shift is burnout.

Wellbeing - From Pressure To Presence

This change is also reflected in the growing popularity of gentler wellbeing practices.

Activities like walking in nature, stretching (dare I say Yoga ?), breathwork , meditation and mindful movement are gaining attention not because they burn the most calories or produce the fastest results, but because they help people feel better in the moment.

The focus is shifting from intensity to consistency and from pressure to presence.

Another important aspect of this trend is self-compassion.

Performance-based wellbeing often comes with an unspoken rule: if you are not improving, you are failing.

This is why I love the Dutch concept of ' Niksen ' - and the acceptance of doing nothing can also be good for you.

A wellbeing-focused approach replaces this with a more supportive mindset. It recognises that energy levels change, motivation fluctuates and life circumstances evolve. Instead of pushing through at all costs, people are learning to respond to their needs with flexibility.

This doesn’t mean goals disappear.

Goals can still be motivating and meaningful. But instead of being driven by comparison or perfection, they are guided by personal values. We might exercise because it helps them manage stress, not because they want to hit a certain number. We might prioritise sleep because they want to feel energised, not because their app tells them to. Sometimes we need a lie in and need to listen to our body.

Perhaps the biggest difference between performance and wellbeing is enjoyment.

When people focus only on outcomes, we can lose sight of the experience itself.

A run becomes about pace rather than fresh air.
A meal becomes about nutrients rather than taste.
A routine becomes about discipline rather than support.

Wellbeing invites us back into the experience. It asks us to notice how things feel and to choose habits that support us not just physically, but emotionally too.

As we move further into 2026, this more balanced approach to wellbeing is likely to continue growing.

People are recognising that health is not just about living longer, but about living well.

It is not just about achievement, but about enjoyment.

And it is not just about performance, but about listening to our body.

In the end, the question is no longer “How well am I performing?” but “How well am I living?”

That small shift in perspective has the potential to change everything.

Wellbeing Should Help Prevent Feeling Burnt Out - Not Contribute To It

I'm sure many of us have at somepoint discovered that constantly trying to improve themselves was exhausting.

The pressure to always be progressing – physically, mentally, or professionally – left little room for rest or contentment.

When wellbeing becomes another task on the to-do list, it can stop feeling supportive and start feeling stressful.

Technology has played a role in this shift too. Wearable devices and apps have made it easier than ever to monitor health metrics, but they have also highlighted the limits of data. Numbers can tell you how long you slept, but not whether you woke up feeling restored. They can track your heart rate, but not your sense of calm. They can measure movement, but not joy.

As a result, many people are beginning to rebalance their approach.

Tracking still has a place, but it is no longer the main goal. Instead, it becomes a tool that supports awareness rather than a target that must be achieved.

UNLOCKING YOUR POTENTIAL

Mon, 30 Mar 2026 18:15:00 GMT

The Only Thing That Can Stop You is You

External challenges are inevitable, but the true limits often come from within.

Beliefs about what we can or cannot do shape our choices, actions, and outcomes.

Who'd have thought we'd be running classes at a festival over the summer combing our passions of yoga, sauna and cold water.

Aligning with a previous post, being receptive to new opportunities is key, as is the mindset of also saying 'Yes ' to new opportunities. Who knows where the future will take us.

On Reflection...

Why not take a moment to reflect on areas where self-imposed limits may be holding you back.

How might you reframe these thoughts to enable progress?

Small, consistent action builds self-belief and demonstrates your true potential. Remember to celebrate even the small victories.

Focusing On Your Wellbeing

Focusing on mindset and self-awareness strengthens mental and emotional wellbeing -one of the sections identified in our Wellbeing Scorecard.

When you challenge limiting beliefs, you reduce stress, improve resilience, and increase motivation.

The My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard helps you assess your overall wellbeing and offer practical ways with which to maintain and improve your overall wellbeing.

REMEMBER WHY

Mon, 16 Mar 2026 17:30:00 GMT

Remember Why You Started: Finding Purpose in the Journey

Purpose gives life direction and clarity.

When we align our actions with the reasons we started, even small steps gain meaning and momentum.

It's easy to loose our focus as to what our 'Why' is....I know I need to remind myself of the 'Why'.

If finding your 'why' or your purpose - you may find the blog on Ikigai of interest too.

And this is why I've chosen the image above. The 'Why' for me is to enable Shannon and I to spend more time with each other doing things we enjoy. In this case, heading into London, getting some food and going to the theatre. (We still don't do this enough - it has to be said).

Whether for personal growth, career goals, or wellbeing, remembering why you began can transform challenges into opportunities.

On Reflection

To help with understanding you why, perhaps the following questions can help...

What was my initial motivation?

What is most important to me?

Journaling or visualizing your goals can help reconnect with your intentions.

Keeping your purpose in mind fosters focus, energy, and resilience, even in difficult moments.

Linking Back To Our Wellbeing Link

Maintaining awareness of your purpose strengthens mental and emotional wellbeing. It reduces stress by clarifying priorities, increases motivation, and supports sustained engagement in work and life.

The My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard helps you reflect on your journey, reconnect with your “why,” and identify steps that align with your purpose:

NEW IDEAS EVERYDAY

Mon, 02 Mar 2026 17:45:00 GMT

With Every Day Comes New Ideas: Cultivating Curiosity and Creativity

Curiosity drives learning, innovation, and personal growth. When we approach each day with an open mind, we notice opportunities that might otherwise pass by.

I love an early start to help set the tone for the day and to take in the sunrise.

Trying new things or taking yourself out of your comfort zone are just 2 ways that you open yourself up to new opportunities or perspectives.

It needn't be grand gestures or big changes - it can be as simple as reading a different perspective than you usually do to challenge your existing thoughts.

Who knows, but starting small, it could well be the start of a new habit ...and all the benefits that can bring.

On Reflection

What new ideas can I explore today?

How can I approach challenges differently?

Journaling (and the benefits of) , brainstorming, or even casual conversations can spark insights that influence work, life, and wellbeing.

How Can This Help Our Wellbeing?

Engaging with fresh ideas strengthens mental and emotional wellbeing.

Curiosity reduces stress, fosters adaptability, and increases confidence in problem-solving.

It encourages growth in both personal and professional life.

We've created the My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard to reflect on your overall wellbeing. It maybe that it will help you notice areas of growth, and identify opportunities for learning and innovation leading to improvements on your overall wellbeing.

WIN OR LEARN

Mon, 16 Feb 2026 19:00:00 GMT

Sometimes You Win and Sometimes You Learn: Embracing Growth

Life is a continuous cycle of successes and lessons.

The most resilient individuals know that winning is just one part of the journey; learning is equally important.

Not that we ever 'won' events but we considered ourselves competitive. Recently, having got back into the groove of entering 'races' we are clearly not going to trouble the leaders.

But our perspective has changed - the focus is more about enjoying the experience together; both the event but also the time away and the chance to explore a different part of the country.

Consider the times you’ve faced setbacks- in our case, a change in perspective.

Each “failure” (we crossed the line when the awards were being handed out!), has likely taught you something valuable — how to handle pressure, communicate better, or make smarter decisions.

These lessons are the building blocks of personal and professional growth.

On Reflection...

Instead of dwelling on mistakes, ask:

What did I learn?
How can this experience shape my next step?

This mindset reduces fear, encourages experimentation, and fosters continuous improvement.

Even small reflections have compounding effects over time.

How This Links To Our Wellbeing?

Acknowledging lessons strengthens emotional wellbeing.

By accepting mistakes as part of growth, you build resilience, self-awareness, and confidence — reducing stress and self-criticism.

My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard

Use the My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard to identify areas where growth is emerging and where learning can transform your next steps.

Embrace every win, and every lesson as a victory. If having taken the scorecard you are surprised by a particular score, then you now have the understanding and perspective to address it.....

Don't worry - it's free and here to help you...

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RISE BY LIFTING OTHERS

Mon, 02 Feb 2026 06:00:14 GMT

We Rise by Lifting Others: The Power of Support and Connection

Helping others benefits both the giver and the recipient.

Simple acts — encouragement, recognition, or support — strengthen relationships, foster trust, and create a sense of shared purpose.

As you may know if you've read some of our previous posts - we love open water swimming for soooo many reasons - exercise, meeting up with friends and how invigorated we feel afterwards.

Shannon has loved introducing various friends to open water swimming and sharing the benefits we experience...

On Reflection...

Maybe have a think, Who can I support this week?

How can my actions positively impact someone else?

Even small gestures create ripples of change. Leadership, friendship, and community thrive when we lift one another.

In previous blogs I've shared my volunteering as a coach for our son's rugby team. Giving or Volunteering is one of the Pillars of Wellbeing. I've certainly appreciated the benefits of giving to my overall wellbeing...

Wellbeing, Gifting and Community

Supporting others enhances your own mental and emotional wellbeing.

It fosters empathy, reduces stress, and increases satisfaction and meaning in life.

Connection is a key pillar of wellbeing.

Use the My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard to explore how you engage with others, notice the impact you create, and find ways to lift those around you:

YOU INSPIRE OTHERS

Mon, 26 Jan 2026 07:15:00 GMT

You Can Inspire Others: The Ripple Effect of Everyday Actions

Inspiration doesn’t always come from grand gestures.

More often, it’s found in the small, consistent actions we take every day — how we handle challenges, how we treat people, and how we care for ourselves.

Think about the people who have influenced you the most.

Chances are, it wasn’t their titles or achievements that moved you, but their presence, integrity, or quiet resilience.

You have that same potential to impact others — simply by living authentically.

On Reflection...

When we’re intentional about our behaviour and mindset, we create a ripple effect. In workplaces, this might look like checking in on a colleague.

At home, it might be choosing patience instead of frustration.

Inspiration spreads through example, not instruction.

Linking back to Wellbeing

When you nurture your own mental and emotional wellbeing, you amplify your ability to inspire others.

People notice calm energy, self-awareness, and kindness — and they often mirror it back.

Why not take a moment to work out where you are?

Take a moment to explore your wellbeing baseline.

The FREE My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard helps you identify where you’re thriving and where you can strengthen your balance — so you can lead by example, every day.

CREATE YOUR OWN CLUB

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 00:00:04 GMT

If it doesn't exist - create it!

Clubs have long been part of human life.

From book circles in cosy living rooms to sports teams on village greens, from choirs that fill the air with song to crafting groups gathered around tables — clubs give us a space to come together around shared interests.

At their heart, they’re about far more than the activity itself.

They’re about connection.

Why Clubs Matter for Wellbeing

Being part of a club provides more than just structure to our week. It gives us a sense of identity and belonging. When you join a group, you’re saying: this is something I value, and here are others who value it too.

That shared purpose is powerful.

Regularly showing up to a club means we see the same faces again and again. Over time, these familiar interactions turn into friendships. There’s comfort in walking into a room and being recognised, in knowing you’ll be missed if you don’t attend.

Clubs create a rhythm — a steady beat of connection that we can count on.

The Activity Is Just the Beginning

The activity may draw us in, but it’s often the relationships that keep us coming back.

Book clubs aren’t just about books, running groups aren’t just about running, and choirs aren’t just about singing. They’re about the laughter before and after, the encouragement in difficult moments, and the shared joy of being together.

Even if you’re not deeply skilled in the activity, your willingness to participate is enough.

That shared vulnerability — learning, improving, sometimes failing together — builds trust and camaraderie.

Starting Your Own Club

Sometimes the right club doesn’t exist yet. In that case, why not start one? It doesn’t need to be big or complicated. A weekly walk, a monthly dinner, or a casual meet-up in a café can quickly grow into something meaningful.

Hosting a club doesn’t mean you need to be an expert — just someone willing to gather people around a shared interest. Often, others are waiting for exactly that kind of invitation.

The Ripple Effect

Clubs often spark unexpected benefits: friendships, collaborations, and a sense of being “part of something.” They’re also a reminder that belonging doesn’t happen by chance — it’s cultivated through regular, shared experiences.

If you’ve been craving more connection, look for a local club or gather a few people to start your own. You may be surprised at how life-enhancing it becomes.

A Small Step with Big Rewards

This week, think about what you enjoy and where you’d like to connect more. Is there a club in your local area you could join? Or could you invite a few people to gather around a shared interest?

Clubs remind us that connection doesn’t happen by accident. It grows when people come together with open hearts, shared curiosity, and the willingness to show up.

Belonging is not about fitting in — it’s about finding (or creating) spaces where you can be yourself. And often, a club is just the place.

THE BEST VIEWS

Mon, 12 Jan 2026 07:00:00 GMT

The Best Views Come After the Hardest Climb

Finding Reward in Effort

Life often tests us before it rewards us.

The most fulfilling moments come after consistent effort and determination.

Whether it’s completing a personal goal, advancing at work, or improving wellbeing, the climb shapes who we are.

No pun intended with regards to the 'climb' - but Max and I spent day doing Via Ferrata in the French Alps a few summers ago. I was certainly out of my comfort zone - as I'm not very good with heights....

On Reflection...

Not just when you are climbing mountains...but when we all face obstacles, it's useful to consider the value in persistence.

How does overcoming difficulties strengthen resilience, confidence, and perspective?

The process itself is as important as the outcome.

Each challenge equips you with skills and insights for the next climb whilst also strengthening the bonds we have with those that we go through the challenge with.

Linking this back to our Wellbeing

Mental and emotional wellbeing is strengthened through challenge and reflection.

Recognising progress during difficult moments builds self-esteem and resilience, which are essential for long-term wellbeing; and is unsurprising one of the categories that underpins our ongoing wellbeing.

Learn More About Your Wellbeing

Use the My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard to track where you are on your journey, celebrate your efforts, and prepare for the climbs ahead:

A GOOD WEEK

Mon, 15 Dec 2025 07:15:02 GMT

It’s a Good Week to Have a Good Week: Choosing Intention and Positivity

Mondays may feel like a natural time to hit the reset button — a chance to start fresh.

It needn't be though - in fact you can choose to reset at any point.

But the quality of your day, or week, doesn’t just happen; it’s created through intentional choices.

Every action you take — from how you respond to emails to whether you take time to breathe and reset — shapes the week ahead.

Small, purposeful choices accumulate into momentum, setting the tone for both personal and professional life.

Not always, but often, getting up early allows me to appreciate a gorgeous sunrise- giving me the chance to appreciate the start of a new day.

On Reflection...

Ask yourself: How do I want to feel by Friday? What steps, even tiny, can I take today to get closer to that feeling?

The answers are often simple: connect with someone, take a mindful pause, complete a task that’s been lingering, or express gratitude.

These acts build confidence, focus, and positivity.

The Wellbeing Link

Intentional living strengthens mental and emotional wellbeing. When you create space for mindful action and self-reflection, you reduce stress, build clarity, and enhance resilience.

You'll be unsurprised to learn that our mental and emotional health is just one of the categories that an influence our overall wellbeing.

Scorecard Invitation

Start by checking in with yourself to understand your own wellbeing.

Use the My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard to understand your current state, identify opportunities for growth, and set meaningful intentions.

Make this a week that counts.

EVERYDAY INTERACTION

Sun, 14 Dec 2025 00:00:01 GMT

Never Underestimate a Smile

When we picture connection, many of us think of close friendships or family bonds. But some of the most powerful forms of connection come not from big relationships, but from the everyday interactions that weave through our lives.

The smile from a passer by, the quick chat with a neighbour, or the friendly word from a barista — these moments might seem small, but they play an essential role in our wellbeing.

The Science Behind Small Moments

Research into wellbeing has found that these casual, low-stakes connections — sometimes called “weak ties” — can boost mood, reduce loneliness, and create a sense of belonging. They remind us that we are seen, acknowledged, and part of the world around us.

It’s often these tiny exchanges that give us a surprising lift in energy. A warm greeting or brief conversation can create a ripple of positivity that carries us through the rest of the day.

Fleeting contacts with a people at a festival is just one example of how we often have short, yet positive interactions that can leave a positive feeling with those around us.

Why They Matter So Much

When life feels busy or overwhelming, it’s tempting to retreat into ourselves. But by engaging with the people around us, even in passing, we open ourselves up to connection.

These micro-moments tell us: I’m not alone. I’m part of something larger.

They also strengthen communities. When neighbours wave, when commuters chat, when small businesses get to know their regulars — a web of trust and familiarity forms.

This, in turn, makes communities more resilient, caring, and enjoyable to live in.

How to Invite More Small Connections

The beauty of everyday interactions is that they don’t take extra time. They simply require awareness and willingness.

A smile, a greeting, or a moment of eye contact can be enough to spark connection.

This week, try pausing in your daily routines. Look up from your phone, make eye contact with someone, or strike up a brief conversation in the shop queue. Notice how it changes not only your mood but also theirs.

The Takeaway

Connection doesn’t always require deep conversations or lifelong friendships. Sometimes, it’s built one small smile, one brief chat, one kind word at a time. These micro-moments matter — and when added together, they create a strong sense of belonging and wellbeing.

So the next time you’re tempted to rush past, pause. Say hello. Share a smile. You may be surprised at just how much those everyday interactions mean. ��

MENTAL HEALTH AND CHRISTMAS

Wed, 03 Dec 2025 11:45:00 GMT

Christmas is a time when many of us feel blessed; surrounding ourselves with frie nds and family. Not everyone is as fortunate. In this post, I'd like to share some thoughts on how to make the most of Christmas, if perhaps you are spending time alone (or even if you are not) or if you are aware of someone that is.

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If Christmas gives you a sense of anxiety or stress; then you are not alone. Almost 25% of people have said that Christmas can have a negative impact on their mental health, whilst 54% of people surveyed have said they are concerned for the mental health of someone they know. What is meant to be a wonderfully happy time, can in fact be a time of anxiety and unhappiness.

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Loneliness, stress and debt are the main triggers for people struggling over Christmas. (Perhaps this is a conversation for another time - but doesn't it seem that we may have lost sight of what Christmas is about). Personally, married to an American, I find Thanksgiving a lot easier in that there is no gifting at all and it's about spending time with people - friends and/or family.

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Loneliness can be a big cause of people's poor mental health, so finding ways to get out and about, to interact with others can be a way to make the most of the time. Similarly, spending time with family may be a cause of anxiety.

BE KIND TO YOURSELF

At home

Allow yourself to feel how you feel without judgement
Use this time to listen to what you want or need
Give yourself some downtime if you need it
Switch off your social media - a bit of a digital detox can be good for you!
Don't compare yourself to others; most people have their own challenges that we don't know about
Remember - there is no such thing as a 'perfect' Christmas

Going out

If there are 'things' you don't feel like doing, feel free to say 'no' to time
Be open to invitations to do things - even if they are last minute
Do something new or different - last summer, we broke a cycle by doing (an organised) moonlight swim
Say 'no' to things if you don't feel like it - this is your holiday. If you need some downtime that's absolutely fine
Set realistic expectations about any gatherings you may be going to
Maybe put a few things in the diary to provide a bit of structure over the holiday period

THINGS TO TRY

Getting out

Spend some time in the fresh air (note I didn't say sunshine as in the UK this is unlikely). Wrap up warm. Even if the sun isn't out, and it may be raining, snowing or blowing a gale; fresh air certainly helps. Get out and feel the elements or take in the environment around you- be it a local park, woods or an open space.
Why not volunteer somewhere locally - unfortunately this year, with the cost-of-living crisis, the support offered by local charities has never been so important. Volunteering can have several benefits from encouraging interaction with others, getting out of the house and helping to provide a focus or purpose.
Visit a Warm Space locally - there will be others doing the same thing and will provide an opportunity for interaction (and getting warm).
If you have more time that you normally do - why not try something new or explore your local area on foot (safely of course).

Interacting with people

Speak to someone - try to find a time that is convenient with them (if possible) just to say hi or wish them happy Christmas. Whether it's face to face or online, connecting with a friend or member of the family can help your mental health and make you feel better.
Check in with someone that may be alone over the holiday period - perhaps you both would like someone to chat to.
Anticipate any awkward conversations that may arise; either how you approach them or even shut them down to avoid unnecessary stress, arguments or anxiety.
If you are spending time with people, you could try telling them how you are feeling in advance, as to avoid any awkward conversations or so they are at least sensitive to how you are feeling.
Surround yourself with positive people (you generally know who they are) or in a positive space / place to give you that uplift. Having relatively recently stopped drinking I know how important it is to have support from my friends in supporting my decision. If people aren't supportive, then it's OK not to prioritise time with them.

Do what you enjoy and may be make time for yourself

Time on your own

Get enough sleep! Don't wear yourself out - this is supposed to be a time to rest, recharge and rejuvenate!
Try to fit in some exercise, particularly if it's part of your regular routine; walk, run, stretch - do what makes you feel good.
Do what makes you happy - if you have time, indulge in that hobby - even if you've not had the chance to do it for a while or take a long bath.
Sometimes what we eat can affect how we feel. Christmas can be a time when we over indulge. Try to make sure you still get enough fresh fruit and vegetables.
Be mindful how much you drink; if you know that certain drinks (or amounts) affect how you feel at the time (or the day after), try not to overdo it. Drinking and hangovers can exacerbate any underlying emotions.
Don't look back on the previous year; rather look forward to the year ahead and the possibilities that may present themselves
Try writing a gratitude list to acknowledge all the good things in your life. (Keeping a regular journal is a great way to maintain a positive outlook).
If Christmas creates financial worries, try to plan or budget what you can and want to do. Taking control can be the first step in helping to alleviate a sense of anxiety

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If you've read this, and can think of someone that maybe struggling or indeed by themselves this winter - why not reach out to them, check in and see how they are. Even a small act can make all the difference and show them they are not alone.

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EXPERTS WERE BEGINNERS TOO

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 06:15:00 GMT

Embracing the Courage to Start

We often look at successful people and see only their achievements — not the countless times they started again, made mistakes, and learned along the way. But the truth is, every expert began as a beginner.

To link in with the image above - for those that follow us will know that we are enthusiastic skiers.

Never would the sentiment be more true....

Every skill, mindset, and habit we admire in others began with a single step (or fall in the case of skiing).

Think of the first time someone put on their ski boots, stood in front of an audience, or learned to manage stress differently.

None of those beginnings felt easy, yet each one mattered.

On Reflection...

Starting something new can bring fear of failure or comparison — especially in workplaces or personal goals where we expect instant results.

But growth takes time. The willingness to be a beginner again builds resilience, curiosity, and confidence.

Linking the theme to Wellbeing

Mental and emotional wellbeing flourish when we let go of perfection and embrace progress.

By being kind to yourself in the process of learning, you strengthen your self-belief and make space for authentic growth.

Let's get started

Use the My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard to check in with where you are right now. It’s your opportunity to begin again — with insight, intention, and renewed energy.

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DARE TO LIVE

Mon, 17 Nov 2025 07:00:00 GMT

Dare to Live the Life You Imagined

Courage in Action

Imagining the life you want is the first step.

Living it requires courage, persistence, and intentionality. Every small action toward your vision compounds over time, creating momentum and fulfilment.

For me, I've always wanted to spend time on the Appalachian Trail. Finally timings, logistics and plans aligned so we could start walking the trail. It's going to be a slow burn to complete - after all - it's over 3000km long.

But we've made a start. Having a sense of things you want to do is the first step in 'Daring to Live' - be it in our personal or professional lives.

On Reflection...

What one thing can I do this week to move closer to my ideal life?

It might be challenging or uncomfortable, but growth rarely happens in comfort zones.

Embrace curiosity, take measured risks, and celebrate progress, not perfection.

Linking to the Wellbeing

Pursuing meaningful goals enhances mental and emotional wellbeing.

Courageous action builds confidence, resilience, and a sense of purpose — all vital elements of long-term happiness.

Why not take our FREE My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard to identify areas for growth, align actions with your vision, and track progress toward the life you imagine and the ongoing maintenance of your wellbeing.

THE JOY OF GIVING

Thu, 13 Nov 2025 18:15:00 GMT

Volunteering as a Path to Connection

When we think about wellbeing, it’s easy to focus on diet, exercise, or mindfulness.

But one of the most overlooked and deeply fulfilling aspects of wellbeing is the sense of connection we experience through volunteering .

Volunteering is not just about giving time or skills — it’s about forming meaningful bonds, finding purpose, and realising that we’re part of something larger than ourselves.

Whether it’s helping at a local food bank, supporting a charity event, or even spending an hour cleaning up a green space, these small actions can create a ripple of positivity that touches both the giver and the receiver.

If you are wondering about the photo - it's because I am a coach for our son's rugby team.

Why Volunteering Boosts Wellbeing

Studies have shown that volunteering reduces stress, lowers blood pressure, and even contributes to longer life expectancy.

How?

Because giving triggers feelings of purpose and connection. It shifts our attention away from our own worries and opens our hearts to the needs of others.

Volunteering also builds social ties.

Working alongside others, sharing challenges, and celebrating small wins create a unique sense of belonging. For many, these experiences lead to lasting friendships and stronger community networks.

The Reciprocity of Giving

It’s easy to see volunteering as a one-way act — giving without expecting anything in return.

In truth, it’s an exchange.

When we offer our time or skills, we receive something equally valuable: a sense of fulfilment, gratitude, and perspective. It reminds us of what we can contribute and the power we have to make a difference.

Finding Opportunities That Fit

Volunteering doesn’t have to be a big, life-changing commitment.

It could be one afternoon a month, an hour each week, or a short-term project.

The key is to choose something that resonates with you.

Love being outdoors? Try a local conservation project. Enjoy cooking? Volunteer at a community kitchen. Good with people? Support a befriending service.

Take the First Step

This week, consider one way you could give your time. It doesn’t have to be grand or perfect — even the smallest contribution matters.

And while you may start volunteering to help others, you’ll quickly discover that it’s just as nourishing for you.

Volunteering is a reminder that we’re all connected. In giving, we belong. ��

Shannon loves a bit of 'high vis' action - be it community litter picking or volunteering at the scout fair....

JOINING A GROUP ACTIVITY

Thu, 23 Oct 2025 12:45:00 GMT

It's Easier With Others

When it comes to wellbeing, we often think of the things we do alone — meditation, exercise, journaling, or taking a quiet walk (all things we advocate as well by the way!).

But just as important are the things we do together . One of the simplest, most effective ways to nurture a sense of belonging is by joining a group activity.

It doesn’t matter what the activity is — a book club, a yoga class, a local choir, or a weekly running group.

What matters is the connection that comes from being part of something bigger than ourselves.

Why Group Activities Matter

Being part of a group gives us more than just structure. It creates accountability, encouragement, and a sense of shared purpose. There’s something deeply motivating about knowing that others are showing up alongside you, whether it’s to stretch, sing, sweat, or simply talk.

Studies show that people who engage in regular group activities report higher levels of happiness and lower levels of stress . This is because connection itself is protective — it buffers against loneliness, provides emotional support, and builds resilience.

Beyond the Activity Itself

The activity is often just the doorway.

What really matters are the conversations before and after, the inside jokes, the recognition of familiar faces, and the gradual building of trust. Over time, these connections can grow into friendships and support networks that extend far beyond the activity itself.

Starting Small

If the thought of joining a group feels daunting, start small. (This also relates back to my resent post on the Importance of Human Connection - start small when you begin with intentional acts of connecting with others). Look for something that interests you, even if you’re not yet confident. Most groups welcome beginners warmly — remember, everyone was new once.

Another tip is to commit to just one or two sessions to begin with. This takes the pressure off and allows you to simply experience it. Often, you’ll find yourself looking forward to going back.

An Invitation to Belong

This week, consider joining a group activity — or returning to one you used to enjoy. Think about what lights you up: moving your body, being creative, learning, or connecting with others. Then, take one step towards it.

Because belonging doesn’t always happen by chance — sometimes, it’s created by showing up, again and again, alongside others.

WELLBEING RESET DAY

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 11:30:00 GMT

Highlights from Our First Wellbeing Reset Day in Cookham

On Sunday, we welcomed a wonderful group to Cookham for our very first Wellbeing Reset Day — a full day dedicated to slowing down, tuning in, and giving wellbeing the attention it deserves.

The day combined yoga, cold water therapy, sauna, nourishing food, and space to simply pause.

It was inspiring to see both familiar faces and new friends embracing the experience with such enthusiasm.

The Highlights

Yoga on the deck – thanks to the autumn sunshine, both yoga sessions were held outdoors, adding an extra sense of calm and connection.

Community spirit – an enthusiastic group, ready to try new things and support one another.

Contrast therapy – three full rounds of sauna (15 minutes) and cold tub (5 minutes).

Overcoming the cold – everyone found their breath, moving from the initial shock to a steady calm in the cold water.

Cosy sauna tent – warmed by a log-burning stove, the perfect recovery space.

Nourishment – homemade snacks (protein balls, turmeric & ginger shots) and a healthy vegetarian lunch.

Beyond the Day

At My Life Tonic, we believe that wellbeing doesn’t end when a Reset Day finishes.

Instead, it can be the start of a more conscious focus on everyday choices that help us feel balanced and energised.

That’s why we’ve encouraged participants to complete our free Wellbeing Scorecard .

In just 3 minutes, it provides a personalised wellbeing score and tailored weekly tips — plus the chance to track progress over time.

(It’s open to everyone, whether you attended the Reset Day or not.)

Looking Ahead...

Our next Wellbeing Reset Day on 5th October has already sold out , but more dates will be announced soon. If you’d like to be the first to know, be sure to get in touch.

Thank you again to everyone who joined us and made this first Reset Day so special — here’s to many more moments of reset, reflection, and growth.

HUMAN CONNECTION

Wed, 24 Sep 2025 15:13:58 GMT

Disconnection in an Increasingly Connected World

It’s easy to forget just how important human connection is for our wellbeing.

We can spend entire days glued to screens — working, scrolling, or messaging — without truly engaging with the people around us. Yet at the heart of wellbeing lies something simple and timeless: our relationships with others.

Human connection is not just a “nice to have.”

It’s essential.

It shapes how we see ourselves, how we cope with challenges, and how we find joy in everyday life. When we feel connected, we feel supported, grounded, and alive. When we don’t, life can feel isolating, no matter how busy or full it may appear on the surface.

Why Connection Matters

Research consistently shows that connection is one of the strongest predictors of happiness and longevity. People with strong social bonds are not only healthier but also more resilient in the face of stress.

Connection lowers anxiety, boosts self-esteem, and even supports physical health by strengthening the immune system and lowering blood pressure.

But beyond the science, connection matters because it’s deeply human. We’re wired to belong. From early human history, our survival depended on being part of a tribe. Today, while our basic needs may be more secure, our emotional need for belonging is just as strong.

The Different Forms of Connection

Connection doesn’t always mean being surrounded by people or having a wide social circle.

Sometimes it’s about the depth of just one or two close relationships.

Other times, it’s the warmth of community — sharing space, rituals, or traditions with others.

It can also be found in small, everyday interactions: a smile from a stranger, a quick chat with a neighbour, or a kind word at the checkout. These seemingly minor exchanges remind us that we are seen, acknowledged, and part of something larger.

Barriers to Connection

Modern life, for all its convenience, can make connection harder. We move frequently, work remotely, and often live far from family and friends. Social media gives the illusion of being connected, but digital exchanges rarely offer the same depth as face-to-face interactions.

Sometimes, the biggest barrier is simply business.

We tell ourselves we’ll call a friend “when things settle down” or meet up “when we have more time.”

But weeks and months slip by, leaving us feeling distant and disconnected.

Nurturing Connection

The good news is that connection doesn’t require grand gestures. It starts with small, intentional acts: sending a message, arranging a coffee, joining a class, or even just making eye contact and saying hello.

If you’re feeling disconnected, take a moment to reflect: who in your life brings you joy, ease, or comfort?

When was the last time you reached out?

Connection thrives when it’s nurtured regularly — a little and often, rather than all at once.

The Takeaway

The power of human connection lies in its simplicity.

It doesn’t demand perfection or constant availability, just the willingness to show up — to listen, to share, to be present.

This week, make one small effort to connect. Call a friend, smile at a stranger, or spend time with someone you love. Notice how it lifts your energy and grounds you.

Because in the end, connection isn’t just about others — it’s about nourishing your own wellbeing too.

ROAD TRIP - GEORGIA + TENNESSE

Thu, 18 Sep 2025 10:15:57 GMT

Exploring Northern Georgia & Tennessee: Trails, Lakes, and Adventures

This trip was a wonderful mix of adventure, family time, and bucket-list moments.

From hiking in the dense woodlands of Northern Georgia to relaxing lake days in Tennessee, we experienced both the wild and the laidback sides of the American South.

Hiking Highlights in Northern Georgia

One of the big draws for me was finally ticking off a bucket-list activity: walking a section of the Appalachian Trail .

Woody’s Gap to Preachers Point

A 3-hour stretch of the famous trail, finishing at a stunning clearing with panoramic views of the Blue Mountains (which later become the Smoky Mountains as you cross into Tennessee). Hiking the whole trail is a huge undertaking, but this taste of it definitely whetted my appetite for doing longer sections in the future.

Yonah Mountain Trailhead (near Cleveland)

A quieter alternative, not part of the AT, but no less rewarding. We climbed through dense forest before emerging at the summit to sweeping views. The area is used by the U.S. military for training, though our only company was deer keeping a close eye on us.

Raven's Cliff Trailhead (near Helen)

A winding trail through the woods leading up to twin waterfalls. Beautiful, though spotting a snake at the water’s edge was enough to keep us from cooling off in the stream!

Hardman Farm Heritage Trail (Helen)

A gentler option along a tarmac and wooden walkway by the river, ending at a historic farm. Accessible for most people and a nice contrast to the more rugged hikes.

What struck me most about these hikes was the density of the woodland — despite being close to towns, the forests felt remarkably untouched.

Tennessee: University Town Knoxville

Knoxville may not be high on the list of places to go for Brits in the US - but if you're in the area it's a really interesting place.

I've used the term vibe a few times but it had the charm of a southern city with some great bars and restaurants coupled with a vibrant University. We've hoped to go to see the 'Vols' (Volunteers) Football team at some point but timings haven't quite worked out. Felt like a fun place for sure though...

Local people really showed a lot of pride showing us around their town...it certainly felt different from the places we've visited previously on the west coast.

Worth the trip and good to do something different

Needless to say - we had a great trip; time with just Shannon and I, time with friends and family whilst also keeping active in a multitude of different ways. Whilst not a regular destination for Brits - certainly an interesting one to get off the beaten track.

I may need to work on Shannon to do the Appalachian Trail....I think it may need to be done in shorter chunks rather than in one go (after all it would take over 3 months to do!).

Tennessee: Lakeside Leisure

From there, it was on to Tennessee for a change of pace. Instead of hiking boots, it was swimsuits and BBQs.

Our few days can be summarised as

Enjoying a wide selection of water based fun including - jet skiing, rope swinging, rowing, and cruising around Tellico Lake
Yoga on the deck overlooking the lake (view below)
Fresh pastries and a nostalgic vibe at Tellico Plains Bakery and surrounding area
A not-so-fun encounter with local law enforcement (another international speeding ticket to add to the collection!).

Helen; A Bavarian Town in Georgia

Helen is a Bavarian-themed town tucked into the mountains. With its timber-clad shops, themed restaurants, and famous Oktoberfest celebrations, it’s a magnet for tourists- year round so I could gather.

You can tube down the river on a hot day — though we didn’t have time, it looked like fun.

For us, Helen was more of a stopover to access the hiking trails. As a European, I'm not sure I'd feel the need to go to German themed town in the heart of the US.

Where We Stayed: Lucille’s Mountain Top Inn & Spa

Just a short drive from Helen, Lucille’s Mountain Top Inn & Spa was a beautiful base. (The view is the main picture of the blog).

Relaxing, welcoming, and with stunning views, it was the perfect place to unwind after long hikes. The spa treatments were excellent (deep tissue massage highly recommended!) and the staff shared great insider tips on lesser-known local trails.

A Taste of Local Georgia

We stopped in Clarkesville for dinner at The Attic , which gave us a more authentic, small-town feel, with local musician playing and friendly staff.

Later, a brief stop in Atlanta allowed for family time and a bike ride along the Silver Comet Trail — a converted rail trail stretching from the city almost to the Alabama border.

IBIZA WEEKEND

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 11:18:35 GMT

Ibiza in a Weekend

Ibiza - Celebrating, Exploring, and Unwinding

Wow — what a weekend!

We headed to Ibiza to celebrate a friend’s 50th birthday, and the island didn’t disappoint.

Even with just a long weekend, we managed to experience a wonderful mix of nightlife, dining, relaxation, and adventure. Here are some of the highlights:

Beach Bars & Restaurants

Ibiza is dotted with incredible spots to eat, drink, and soak in the views. Some of our favourites included:

Cala Gracioneta – A beautiful restaurant overlooking a small cove, perfect for a dip between courses.
Beach House Ibiza – A stylish beachside venue, just a short walk from Ushuaia.
Tapa Ibiza – A great choice for a relaxed dinner before a late night at Pikes.
Cala Olivera – A smaller, quieter cove with a chilled atmosphere with a small cafe
Amante Ibiza – A bar and restaurant perched dramatically on the cliffs — the kind of place that feels like “the place to be seen.”

Nightlife & Evening Activities

Ushuaia with Calvin Harris – The perfect choice for a big night out. His set ended at midnight, which suited us perfectly (though the night can easily continue elsewhere).

Pikes – A legendary Ibiza institution. With DJs scattered across a converted finca, there’s a vibe for everyone, from Freddie’s room to the infamous “bathroom club.” We even stayed until the end — 4am — before being greeted by the crowing hotel cockerel.

Activities & Exploration

E-Bike Adventure with hashaibiza – We explored the coastline around Cala Llonga on e-bikes, following pink-marked trails through hidden beaches and quiet bars, carefully avoiding the busier main roads. It was the perfect way to see the island.
Yoga on the Veranda – A gentle practice was the perfect antidote to late nights, helping to shake off any lingering tiredness.

Where We Stayed

We based ourselves at Finca Legado Ibiza (main photo) , and it couldn’t have been more perfect. Think rustic buildings blended with modern, stylish rooms, plenty of hidden nooks to relax in, and a pool that invites you to linger all day. The atmosphere was warm, welcoming, and personal — after just a few days, it felt like saying goodbye to friends.

As I sit and home to recover...

Our weekend in Ibiza was a wonderful reminder that the island is more than just nightlife. It’s a place where you can celebrate, explore, recharge, and savour some truly magical moments. Whether you’re looking for music, food, adventure, or calm — Ibiza really does have it all.

FOOD & MOOD

Wed, 30 Jul 2025 15:30:00 GMT

What you eat can help your mental health

It may feel like a small thing, but being aware of what you eat can have a positive impact on your mental health as it can;

Improve your mood
Increased energy
Help you think more clearly

Ultimately, watching what you eat will have a positive impact physically, but it also is the first step in the direction of feeling in control of the situation. You are controlling what you are able to control, which can ease the sense of being out of control or unable to affect the situation.

At My Life Tonic, we aim to provide a broad range of 'Life Tonics' that can be integrated with your daily routine and that can make a difference to how you feel, without bring extra costs into your life.

10 tips for improving your mood by watching what you eat

Eat regularly to maintain stable sugar levels- low sugar levels can make you feel tired, irritable and depressed
Have breakfast - get your day off to a positive, healthy start
Avoid 'junk' food (processed food and snacks such as sweets, biscuits and sugary drinks)
Eat every 3-4 hours - with smaller portion sizes per meal
Make sure you get your 5-a-day of fruit and vegetables- try to eat the colour of the rainbow to mix up the nutrients you take
Stay hydrated - drink lots of water (about 2 litres per day)
Include protein in your diet - amino acids help regulate thoughts and feelings are found in meat, fish, cheese, eggs, legumes, seeds and nuts
Include Omega-3 fatty acids into your diet (walnuts, salmon, flaxseeds or fish oil supplements)
Reduce your caffeine in take - limit yourself to a few cups per day
Drink sensibly - alcohol can cause feelings of depression, anxiety and being out of control

You needn't follow all of the suggestions above; it maybe that a few are easier to bring into your daily routine. Give it a go and see if you notice a difference.

In previous blogs we've outlined both the benefits of staying hydrated and also journaling . It maybe that by noting down any changes your make, and when, you will be able to see if your food intake has helped you feel more positive and helped your mental health.

HEALTHY EATING TIPS

Thu, 24 Jul 2025 16:15:00 GMT

Healthy Eating - Start Young!

Establishing good eating habits can start early in our, and are children’s lives. In alignment with the Atomic Habits principle; good habits are like compound interest – start early and feel the accumulated benefits in the future.

Similarly, establishing good habits early will help them to become an automatic response, rather than a daily decision.

With this in mind, Helen Burgess has shared her insights into ‘Healthy Eating Top Tips.’

Her perspective changed when she had her son back in 2013. The question she asked herself was, “What was the best food for him”. This became her purpose. Advice was conflicting and sometimes contradictory, therefore her quest took her to the College of Naturopathic Medicine, where she enrolled on their three year nutrition course.

During the course Helen learned, among many other things, the importance of child nutrition. During this time of phenomenal growth and development a child needs the best building blocks for a good start- as an example, 90% of our brain capacity develops before the age of 5 years so ensuring a diet rich in choline (found in eggs) and essential fatty acids (found in oily fish) is crucial.

Yet there are so many things in life that make it difficult for kids to eat well - intense junk food marketing, "kids 'menus" (why should the best food be reserved for adults), conflicting advice, confusing marketing of so-called 'healthy' food, fussy eating, money, time . . . . the list goes on. However the worryingly rapid rise in childhood obesity and childhood diabetes shows that we are facing some very serious problems.

Encouraging healthy eating habits from an early age is so important. To incorporate as much natural food as possible and as little processed, refined food whilst still keeping food prep quick and manageable for busy parents. I apply the 80/20 principle. Life is about balance. We blame ourselves enough as parents without punishing ourselves everytime our kids enjoy some cake or sweets!

Here are a few of my top tips:

Incorporate smoothies into your week - a cup of strawberries, a chunk of cucumber (skin removed if preferred), half a banana, and a sprig of mint whizzed up in a blender with a cup of milk tastes like strawberry milk shake.
Replace breakfast cereals with porridge and mashed banana, cinnamon and honey if your kids like a sweeter taste. This stabilises blood sugar and provides slow release energy.
Gradually ease away from fizzy drinks and sweetened juices and replace with water or diluted juice. Some fruit teas (sweetened with a touch of honey if preferred)can be drunk warm or cold and appeal to some kids.
Slowly move away from refined grains replacing them with whole grain bread, pasta, brown rice etc.
Eat a rainbow. Let the kids decide how to create this - tomatoes, orange pepper, sweet corn, cucumber, beetroot followed bygrapes. Actually there are hardly any blue foods but plants absorb the bluerays of the spectrum so you could say blue is hidden in green!
Cook as a family- this not only teaches younger ones a life skill that will sustain them for the rest of their lives, it helps overcome fussy eating.
Swap spreads and margarines for grass-fed butter. Good fats are essential for a healthy brain and nervous system, and to absorb fat soluble vitamins. Serving veggies with melted butter transforms even the humble cabbage!
Eat organic and seasonal where possible. This is especially true of animal products where there is a higher exposure to hormones, antibiotics and other chemicals which find there way into the food. For guidance google ‘the dirty dozen and the clean fifteen’.
Finally sleep! While we sleep our stress and socortisol levels drop; our immune systems get stronger; our brains process complex information, consolidate memories and clear out toxins; and we release important hormones such as growth hormones - essential for kids!

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Whatever age you are, it' s not too late to start making positive changes to your diet and nutrition.

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Small changes will, and can, make a difference. Remember that the changes have an cumulative impact and you will feel the difference. Key is to ingrain these changes into your daily habit so that they become and automatic part of your daily routine.

About the author

Helen Burgess, Dip CNM, mBANT

Contact details - helpyburgess@icloud.com

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GRATITUDE - SOME REFLECTIONS

Mon, 21 Jul 2025 11:00:02 GMT

Gratitude - A Change of Mindset

'Focusing on what's good in our lives and being thankful for the things we have. Gratitude is pausing to notice and appreciate the things that we often take for granted.

'Is gratitude a term that is overused but under appreciated?

On reflection, I think it could well be.

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Over the weekend I had several reminders of the need to appreciate what is indeed good in my life and how fortunate we are living in UK (despite the many things that we may think could be better at the moment.

Our health

A friends family member receiving emergency support after experiencing severe pain and lack of mobility
The minor injuries clinic that addressed my 'wound' caused by careless work in the kitchen
Starting off the weekend with friends doing a regular HIIT session followed up a coffee and catch up afterwards

Our community

From being surrounded with like minded people that share the same values
Having the opportunity discuss ideas and thoughts freely
To live in a country where we are safe to take our kids out to enjoy being outside and doing what they enjoyI

It is easy to get caught up with life and the day to day responsibilities we all have.

Stopping and taking some time to reflect, can be a great way to realise what we have.

Reflections

Reflecting on my observations above, they tie in nicely to previous posts.

The Benefits of Journaling

If you've read my blogs or posts, I encourage people to regularly journal. Whilst it's a really positive way to check in with your thoughts and maintaining a good perspective on what's going on around you. Sometimes our every day lives give us the opportunity to stop and realise the things we can be grateful for.

5 Pillars of Wellbeing

Although, being physically active is one of the pillars - being fit, healthy and injury free are elements to this. Following my minor injury, I'll just have to change the exercise to keep the bandage from getting wet.

MENTAL HEALTH - DO WHAT YOU ENJOY

Thu, 03 Jul 2025 10:45:00 GMT

Decompress doing something you enjoy

It may sound obvious - but doing what you enjoy can be a great way to help with your mental health. It maybe that you have lost the habit of doing 'that thing.'

Release some of the tension you maybe experiencing by doing something you enjoy. It doesn't matter what it is - the main thing is that you are switching off from the things that are causing you the stress or anxiety.

Research shows that by doing what you enjoy can have the following impact

Reduce your stress levels
Lowering your heart rate
Improve your mood
Get you interacting with others

In summary, doing what you enjoy takes your mind off things and may give you a different perspective.

In this instance, we had a long weekend away in Wales as a family keeping active- in this case Gorge Walking with a guide. We had a great time and created some lovely shared experiences.

Do what you enjoy

Pick up an old hobby you haven't done for a while
Spend time with a furry friend
Get some exercise - yoga, running, dancing
Meet up with friends that make you feel good
Read a book - any book!
Try some Ecotherapy - getting out in nature and the fresh air
Take time to laugh - watch / listen to something funny or go to a comedy club
Work on your strengths - it will be good for building your confidence
Take time to be grateful- try keeping a journal of gratitude
Allow yourself to relax - run a bath, read a book or pick up that hobby again

The above are only suggestions, but may act as prompt to think of something you haven't done for a while and used to get a lot of pleasure doing.

Personally, a few summer ago, for whatever reason I felt in a bit of a funk. I found that by doing something different helped to break the routine and had a huge impact in the way I felt. Shannon and I went on a moonlight open water swim at a local lake. It was a wonderful experience combing some exercise (not much to be honest), doing something different, doing something we enjoy whilst surrounding with like minded, positive people.

It was just the tonic for me.

The key take out from this blog, is to find what works for you and hopefully you will experience a similar uplift in your mental health.

JOURNALING - GETTING STARTED

Mon, 30 Jun 2025 10:30:00 GMT

Journaling - Tips to Start

The process of writing our thoughts, feelings and emotions down can help us understand them more. Having an awareness of our feelings and emotions is one way to help manage stress, anxiety or depression.

I like to think of journaling as a way of prompting some self reflection, being aware of my emotions and feelings within the environment I am in. It's also a way to remind myself what I am grateful for.

13 Tips for Journaling

Take the first step - give yourself a few minutes a day to write your journal
Get into a routine - try to find a regular time to write your journal. I find writing at the end of day works for me (it also helps me get to sleep, in a positive mindset). Other people like journaling in the morning - do what works for you
Use what works for your - a notebook, your phone or laptop; ultimately something you are going to use and is accessible to you
Try journaling in different environments - it may give you a different perspective
Allow yourself to write anything that comes to mind - don't put an constraints on what you want to write about - after all they are your thoughts and emotions. Don't hold back!
Provide some context to explain your feelings - what happened and what are your thoughts and feelings about it
What have you learned and how can you apply this going forward
Try to empathise - think about what another person is going through that may explain their actions, feelings or emotions
Use the journal to set goals, that you can track your progress to
Write a journal that works for you- using lists or sketches
Journal what you want to - food, fitness, experiences, gratitudes, feelings or emotions
Don't wallow or self blame - it's good to vent but the positivity of journaling comes from brainstorming solutions or noting down what you are grateful for.
It's your safe place - your journal is a place for your thoughts

Having started journaling you may start to identify triggers to certain emotions whilst also give you the opportunity to start finding ways to manage both emotions but also the triggers that have caused them. Similarly, you can use journaling to provide focus or prioritization to areas that may need addressing.

WELLBEING AND MICRO LEARNING

Thu, 12 Jun 2025 10:15:00 GMT

Micro-Learning - Keep Learning

Do you feel there's often too much going on to get everything done? Personally, if taking the first step can feel daunting, or over whelming, then it can lead to procrastination.

A sense of being stuck in one place.

With this in mind, I find the concept of micro learning so helpful - providing ways to learn in bite sized chunks that can be intergrated into our daily routines -without it feeling overwhelming.

In some ways, the concept or application of micro learning isn't too dissimilar to what we are aiming to achieve, or offer, with My Life Tonic; providing a wide selection of small changes that can help improve how you feel - emotionally, physically and from a mental health perspective.

Key to the essence of a Life Tonic is that any of the suggestions can be intergrated into your daily routine.

It doesn't however mean that any changes or learning you choose, will be without it's challenges. Any of the Life Tonics or learning will still need dedication and a degree of discipline.

However, by offering the opportunity in a variety of ways and platforms in small chunks can support you in the ongoing process.

What is Microlearning?

Microlearning refers to a the way can support the learning process by focusing on delivering short, focused bit sized chunks of information; typically lasting between 3 to 20 minutes, these learning modules are designed to be consumed quickly and easily, often via digital platforms. The content can take various forms, such as videos, emails or short articles, and is usually tailored to address specific areas.

In My Life Tonic's instance - the introduction of different ways to support our own wellbeing on an ongoing basis.

Unlike traditional methods that require extended periods of focus and commitment, microlearning leverages brevity to make learning more efficient and less intimidating.

Why Choose Microlearning?

Microlearning has gained popularity due to its adaptability and effectiveness. Here are some compelling reasons why individuals and organizations are turning to this innovative approach:

Fits Busy Lifestyles: Time is precious! Learners can engage with content during short breaks, on their commute, or in between tasks.
Enhances Focus: By delivering information in small chunks, microlearning minimizes cognitive overload, allowing learners to concentrate fully on a single concept or skill.
Supports On-the-Go Learning: Mobiles are such an integral part of our lives; rather than mindlessly scrolling we can use the phone to help us learn!
Promotes Lifelong Learning: The simplicity and accessibility of microlearning make it easier to cultivate a habit of continuous education, regardless of age or career stage.

The Benefits of Microlearning

Some reasons why we should give microlearning a try.

1. Improved Knowledge Retention

Microlearning’s focus on delivering targeted content helps reinforce knowledge effectively. By concentrating on one topic at a time, as learners we are more likely to absorb and retain information.

2. Enhanced Engagement

Traditional, long-form training sessions often struggle to hold learners’ attention. Microlearning, with its concise and interactive format, keeps learners engaged from start to finish.

3. Increased Accessibility

Taking advantage of the digital platforms available to us enables individuals, wherever they are based, to access the content available. We've certainly found that with people working from home or remotely that our online capabilities offers both individuals and organisations the support they want.

4. Encourages Continuous Learning

At My Life Tonic we are real believers of ongoing learning. From a wellbeing perspective, what may be of interest or relevance is highly likely to change for an individual over time. By offering a wide selection of suggestions, our aim is to enable people to find what works for them at this point in time. As an individuals circumstance changes, our hope is that they are able to adjust the wellbeing practice that works them.

5. Just-in-Time Learning

Offering a wide range of suggestions in ways to make small changes when someone needs it. I'd like to think the My Life Tonic as a menu for people to explore and choose the right option for them.

6. Scalability for Organizations

We support organisations in a way that is scaleable and cost effective for business that may have colleagues based across multiple locations or remotely as to support everyone in the organization.

Microlearning and Wellbeing in the Work Place

Versatility is key so that the broad cross range of colleagues are catered for both in terms how we support individuals and what we offer.

The How...

Unlimited access to weekly live online classes
Unlimited access to on demand library of classes and Life Tonics
Weekly email prompts to help maintain the interest, awareness and importance of our ongoing wellbeing
Monthly online desk yoga sessions for colleagues

The What

A range of online classes including - yoga, desk yoga, breathwork, meditation to HIIT workouts
Flexibility to integrate the microlearning into peoples daily routine with on demand classes ranging from 2 to 60 minutes.
Lunch and learns for colleagues

The Why

Increased productivity
Increased staff retention
Reduced absenteeism
Reduce presenteeism
Reduced recruitment costs

I'd also like to think that we are 'real' people having worked in the corporate world for over 40 years between us so understand that looking our wellbeing is sometimes easier said than done.

Our approach of offering Life Tonics resonate with organsiations in supporting the wider range of employees that exist with most places of work.

In Conclusion

By offering short, focused, and accessible learning experiences, our intention is to support an individuals ongoing wellbeing that will benefit both the employee and the organisation they work for.

WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU LEMONS...

Thu, 05 Jun 2025 10:27:20 GMT

Or in this case - Rain in the UK Summer

"When life gives you lemons, make lemonade."

It’s one of those phrases we’ve all heard—probably too often and may feel overly positive (if you are going to be cynic - but more about that later).

Hopefully you'll agree with the sentiment that, "Things rarely go 100% to plan."

And today - when I wrote this post? It rained - as classes resumed and I'd hoped we'd have a good run of having our classes on the deck, in the open air, a fresh breeze, surrounded by nature and some sun.

Despite it being June in the UK with the cricket season is well under way, the skies opened again.

"Why not move the houseplants outside?"

Because while this wasn’t the weather I wanted, it was the water they needed. In our blogs I often share the importance of spending time outside in the fresh air, being in the elements. Whilst not having the science to back it up - surely if it's not too cold the plants should benefit from the rain water.

I obviously can't change the weather—I changed how I used it.

What “Making Lemonade” Really Means To Me

Firstly, to be clear: “Make lemonade” doesn’t mean pretending everything is fine. It doesn’t mean bypassing real emotions of frustration, sadness, or discomfort that we will all experience in our daily lives.

For me, I understand it as:

Noticing what’s happening
Accepting that it’s not what you planned
Asking what you can still make from it

To put it in another way; reframing the “why me?" into a “what now?”.

Reframing

In the context of wellbeing (something that I my understanding is constantly evolving), there is the concept of reframing— a conscious decision to view things from a different perspective.

It’s not just positive thinking. It’s intentional thinking.

You don’t have to like the lemons.

But you can choose what you do with them.

That rain has stopped my having my classes outside; but at least it's watering my plants.

Making Lemonade as a Life Tonic

Here are three small ways to use this mindset in real-time:

Notice the Unexpected Good

Rained-off plans = extra time indoors
Cancelled meeting = chance to breathe
Delayed train = moment to journal or listen to a podcast

Use What’s Already There

Don’t wait for perfect conditions. Use the rain.
Literally or metaphorically.
Sometimes what feels inconvenient… is actually useful in disguise.

Shift from “Why me?” to “What now?”

We all have moments where things don’t go to plan.
The reframe isn’t about denying the frustration—it’s about what comes next.
What can you do with what you’ve got?

A My Life Tonic in Disguise

This moment was small: just houseplants in the rain. But it was also a wellbeing practice.

It was a moment of mindfulness, of adaptability, of gentle problem-solving.

And that’s exactly what the My Life Tonic Wellbeing Scorecard helps uncover - The tiny tweaks that create everyday resilience.

Having put a positive spin on the rain - I'm now worried that the plants will be overwatered! The joys of a UK summer.

LEARNING FROM BLUE ZONES

Thu, 29 May 2025 15:15:00 GMT

What Can We Learn From Blue Zones?

Can Understanding Blue Zones Help Us to a Live a Longer, Healthier Life?

Chronic diseases and lifestyle-related health issues are on the rise around the world. Interestingly, a handful of communities have seemed to buck this trend by consistently achieving comparatively increased longevity and good health.

These regions, known as the Blue Zones.

But what exactly sets them apart? Through years of research, National Geographic explorer Dan Buettner and his team identified five Blue Zones—Okinawa (Japan), Sardinia (Italy), Nicoya (Costa Rica), Icaria (Greece), and Loma Linda (California, USA).

Despite their geographical and cultural differences, these areas share key lifestyle characteristics that have contributed to their remarkable life expectancy.

We first came across the concept of Blue Zones in a TV documentary which was enough to peak our interest and find out more.

1. A Plant-Based Diet with Whole Foods

One of the most significant commonalities across all Blue Zones is their emphasis on a plant-based diet. While none of these communities are strictly vegetarian, the majority of their daily intake consists of vegetables, legumes, whole grains, nuts, and fruits. Meat is consumed sparingly, usually only a few times a month, and in small portions. Beans, such as lentils, chickpeas, and black beans, are a dietary staple, providing essential protein and fiber. This diet, rich in antioxidants and low in processed foods, helps reduce inflammation and prevents chronic diseases like heart disease and diabetes.

2. Regular, Low-Intensity Physical Activity

Unlike the modern gym culture that emphasizes high-intensity workouts, people in Blue Zones engage in natural, consistent movement throughout the day. Activities such as gardening, walking, farming, and manual household tasks keep them active without structured exercise routines. In Sardinia, for example, many men work as shepherds, walking several miles daily in hilly terrain. This moderate but sustained physical activity contributes to their cardiovascular health and overall longevity.

3. Strong Social Connections

Loneliness and isolation have been linked to shorter lifespans, but in Blue Zones, strong social ties and a sense of community play a crucial role in well-being. People in these regions maintain close-knit families and friendships, often spending time together daily. In Okinawa, the concept of moai—a lifelong group of friends who support each other emotionally and financially—helps reduce stress and create a strong sense of belonging. Similarly, Sardinians have a tradition of gathering daily with friends and family, fostering emotional resilience and reducing feelings of isolation.

4. A Sense of Purpose (Ikigai and Plan de Vida)

Having a strong sense of purpose is another shared trait among Blue Zone inhabitants. In Okinawa, this concept is called ikigai (why not read our blog ), which translates to "reason for being." In Nicoya, Costa Rica, it's known as plan de vida, or "life plan." Both philosophies emphasize the importance of having a clear reason to wake up every morning, whether it's caring for family, contributing to the community, or pursuing personal passions. Studies suggest that having a strong sense of purpose can add up to seven years to life expectancy.

5. Stress Reduction and Mindfulness

While stress is an inevitable part of life, how people in Blue Zones manage it plays a significant role in their longevity. Many of these communities incorporate daily rituals that promote relaxation and mindfulness. Okinawans practice hara hachi bu, a Confucian teaching that encourages eating until they are 80% full, preventing overeating and promoting digestive health. In Icaria, afternoon naps are a common practice, reducing stress and promoting heart health. Loma Linda’s Seventh-day Adventists dedicate a full day each week to rest and spiritual reflection, which helps alleviate daily stress and fosters inner peace.

6. Moderate Alcohol Consumption (or None at All)

While excessive alcohol consumption is detrimental to health, moderate drinking—particularly red wine—has been associated with longevity in some Blue Zones. Sardinians, for example, drink Cannonau wine, a red wine rich in antioxidants, in moderation with meals. However, the key is not just the wine itself but the social nature of drinking, which fosters connection and relaxation. In contrast, the Seventh-day Adventists in Loma Linda abstain from alcohol entirely, relying instead on a diet rich in nuts, fruits, and vegetables for their health benefits.

7. Faith and Spirituality

Religious or spiritual practices are prevalent in all Blue Zones. Whether through organized religion, meditation, or a deep sense of spirituality, these practices offer a source of comfort and community. Loma Linda's Adventists engage in weekly worship, which has been linked to lower stress levels and increased longevity. Similarly, in Nicoya and Sardinia, faith-based traditions provide a framework for strong social bonds and emotional support.

Bringing Blue Zone Habits into Your Life

The remarkable longevity and health of Blue Zone populations provide valuable lessons for everyone. While genetics play a role, lifestyle choices have a profound impact on life expectancy.

By incorporating Blue Zone principles into daily life—eating more whole, plant-based foods, staying physically active, fostering deep social connections, and cultivating a sense of purpose—you can improve your overall well-being and potentially add years to your life.

Whether you start by adding more plant-based meals, taking regular walks, or prioritizing meaningful relationships, small changes can lead to significant improvements in your long-term health.

The Blue Zones are not just locations on a map; they represent a lifestyle that anyone, anywhere, can adopt for a longer, healthier, and more fulfilling life.

Blue zones seem to capture the essence of our Life Tonics of integrating healthy habits into our daily routine; as you may know I personally find the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing a helpful framework that include Community , Mindfulness , Being Active , Learning , Gifting - all of which are elements found in Blue Zones.

JUST SAY YES

Mon, 19 May 2025 09:45:21 GMT

Start By Saying 'Yes' - Where Will It Take You?

8 Reasons To Say 'Yes' More

Life is full of choices, and often, we find ourselves hesitating to step outside our comfort zones. While setting boundaries and saying no is important, there is also immense power in saying yes.

When we open ourselves up to new experiences, connections, and challenges, we create opportunities for growth, joy, and overall wellbeing.

Learning to say yes more often can lead to a more fulfilling and enriched life.

1. Expanding Your Comfort Zone

Saying yes allows us to step beyond our routine and explore new possibilities. When we push past fear and hesitation, we discover that we are capable of more than we imagined. This expansion builds confidence and resilience, making us more adaptable to change and uncertainty.

2. Enhancing Personal Growth

Every time we say yes to a challenge or an unfamiliar experience, we learn something new about ourselves. Whether it’s taking on a new hobby, accepting a work opportunity, or traveling to an unknown destination, each experience contributes to our personal development and enriches our perspectives.

3. Building Stronger Relationships

Saying yes to social invitations and connections strengthens relationships. Whether it’s meeting new people, attending events, or simply agreeing to spend quality time with loved ones, embracing these moments fosters deeper connections and a greater sense of belonging.

4. Creating More Opportunities

The more we say yes, the more doors open for us. Opportunities often arise in unexpected ways, and by being open to them, we invite possibilities for success, adventure, and happiness. A single yes can lead to a chain of positive experiences that shape our lives in incredible ways.

5. Cultivating a Positive Mindset

Saying yes encourages optimism and an open-minded approach to life. Instead of dwelling on limitations, we begin to focus on potential and opportunity. This shift in mindset reduces stress and anxiety, making us more hopeful and proactive in achieving our goals.

6. Boosting Mental and Emotional Wellbeing

Engaging in new activities and experiences can improve mental health by reducing monotony and adding excitement to our daily lives. Whether it’s trying a creative pursuit, joining a new fitness class, or saying yes to spontaneous adventures, these experiences can bring joy, motivation, and a renewed sense of purpose.

7. Overcoming Fear and Self-Doubt

Fear often holds us back from living life fully. Saying yes despite fear helps us build courage and self-trust. The more we take risks and face challenges, the stronger we become in handling uncertainties and setbacks.

8. Living Life with No Regrets

At the end of the day, many of our regrets stem from missed opportunities rather than failed attempts. Saying yes allows us to experience more, learn from our mistakes, and embrace life with fewer “what-ifs.”

Are you ready to start saying 'Yes' to more things?

While balance is important and there are times when saying no is necessary, choosing to say yes to more experiences, opportunities, and connections can significantly enhance our wellbeing.

By being open to life’s possibilities, we experience more joy, growth, and fulfillment.

So, the next time you hesitate, consider the power of saying yes—it just might lead to something extraordinary.

HABITS - START SMALL

Mon, 05 May 2025 11:00:03 GMT

Life Tonic's....it's a thing

But don't just take our word for it - establishing a routine of small habits can really make a difference.

We started My Life Tonic back in 2016 and have suggested a number ways that small changes can help make you feel better, either with improved physical health or enhanced mental health.

In a recent chat with friends, they mentioned a book that they were reading.

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Atomic Habits - Tiny Changes, Remarkable Results

Whilst not focusing solely on physical and mental health, the book uses many examples from sport, business and more generally life, and provides a fantastic framework on how to set up these 'Atonic Habits' so that they can be sustained over a longer period of time.

Ultimately the accumulation of these small habits make a significant difference in the long run.

Probably the key take out is that to make changes or new habits last, we need to make them so they become an automatic response to a given cue.

This certainly isn't a quick fix methodology, but a framework that will have longer lasting impact, as you are able to sustain the habits over a period of time.

Why 'Atomic Habits'

a-tom-ic

An extremely small amount of a thing; the single irreducible unit of a larger system
The source of immense energy or power
hab.it
A routine or practice performed regularly; an automatic response to a specific situation

Establishing the Atomic Habits are underpinned by 4 crucial principles to make them

Obvious
Attractive
Easy
Satisfying

if you are able to do this, then you are giving yourself the best chance to create and sustain a long lasting habit - and after all, isn't that we are hoping to do when we are trying to make changes.

Personally, I'd highly recommeNd reading the book if your interested in making changes in your life.

Just a word of warning - atomic changes, in their nature take time for the difference to be 'felt.'

This certainly isn't a way to make changes quickly, but to make changes that are sustainable in the long term - whatever they may be in your own situation.

If you do you choose to learn more about creating Atomic Habits - enjoy the ready and I hope you find it helpful.

Why is this important?

We usually want to make changes to our live to help make us feel 'better,' happier, healthier or more content.

This may mean doing more exercise or taking time out for yourself.

Similarly introducing new habits at home or at work can help change your perspective and make a difference.

To answer the question - why is it important?

Well, having the motivation to make changes is the first step. Having the framework to enable the change to first happen and then become wired into our routine is the way to ensure the habit becomes part of the routine.

What ever your tonic, having an effective framework will help ensure it becomes an ongoing part of your daily routine.

Don't leave the intended change to chance - ensure you have the right systems in place to enable the change you want.

ROUTINES MATTER

Wed, 30 Apr 2025 09:15:00 GMT

Routines (or Habits) AREN'T Boring

...Why They Matter in Our Lives

Developing habits and routines can be one of the most useful tools for our personal and professional success. Whether it’s waking up early, exercising regularly, or setting aside time for learning, establishing structured routines brings stability and efficiency to our daily lives.

I've chosen the image as many of my students have established the weekly routine of joining the yoga, cold water and sauna routine. I think it would be fair to say that very few (if any) look forward to the cold water, however, certainly feel the benefits afterwards. By building the habit or routine to coming to the same class each week they have helped to avoid one of the been able to reduce both potential decision fatigue as well as building consistency and discipline.

Why Are Habits and Routines Important?

Habits and routines are the foundation of productivity and personal growth. They shape our actions, determine our efficiency, and ultimately influence the outcomes we achieve.

Here’s why they are essential:

Reduce Decision Fatigue

Every day, we make countless decisions—what to wear, what to eat, how to spend our time. Having established routines minimizes the number of choices we need to make, freeing up mental energy for more critical tasks.

Enhanced Productivity

Structured habits create a sense of discipline and purpose, helping us stay focused and get more done. When certain tasks become automatic, we free up time and mental capacity for creative and strategic thinking.

Build Consistency and Discipline

Success is often a result of consistent effort over time. Whether you’re learning a new skill, building a business, or improving your health, daily habits reinforce progress and keep you on track toward your goals.

Improve Mental and Physical Wellbeing

Establishing habits like exercising, meditating, and getting enough sleep contributes to overall well-being. When self-care becomes routine, we are more likely to maintain a balanced and healthy lifestyle.

Create Stability

Life can be unpredictable, but routines provide a sense of normalcy and control. A structured schedule helps us navigate changes with greater resilience and confidence.

The Science Behind Habits

Habits are formed through repetition and reinforcement. When we repeatedly perform an action, our brain creates neural pathways that make the behaviour more automatic over time.

This process, known as "habit loop," consists of three stages:

Cue: A trigger that initiates the behaviour (e.g., waking up signals brushing your teeth).
Routine: The behaviour itself (e.g., brushing your teeth every morning).
Reward: The positive outcome that reinforces the habit (e.g., fresh breath and a healthy smile).

Understanding this loop allows us to build new positive habits and break old, unproductive ones by adjusting our triggers and rewards.

How to Develop Strong Habits and Routines

Start Small

Instead of making drastic changes, focus on small, manageable habits. For example, if you want to read more, start with just five minutes a day. Small successes build momentum for long-term change.

Be Consistent

The key to habit formation is repetition. Performing an action at the same time and in the same context each day strengthens the habit.

Use Triggers

Pairing a new habit with an existing one can make it easier to remember. For instance, if you want to practice gratitude, link it to your morning coffee routine by reflecting on three things you’re grateful for.

Track Your Progress

Keeping a habit tracker or journal can help maintain motivation and accountability. Seeing progress over time reinforces the habit.

Reward Yourself

Positive reinforcement encourages habit formation. Whether it’s a treat, a break, or personal recognition, rewards create motivation to stick to your routine.

Be Patient and Adjust as Needed

Habits take time to develop, so don’t get discouraged by setbacks. If something isn’t working, adjust your routine to make it more sustainable.

The Long-Term Impact of Good Habits

The cumulative effect of small, positive habits leads to long-term success. By investing in good habits today, you create a foundation for a better, healthier, and more productive future. Whether in personal development, career growth, or health and wellness, structured routines help maximize your potential.

Building habits and routines is not about restricting freedom but rather about creating a framework for success. By cultivating intentional daily habits, you can take control of your life, reduce stress, and move steadily toward your goals. Start small, stay consistent, and watch your efforts compound over time.

BENEFITS OF JOURNALING

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 10:17:35 GMT

Try keeping a journal

Sometimes we associate wellness or self care with meditation, exercise or yoga. They undoubtedly can be helpful ways to look after your physical and mental health.

Have you thought of journaling and the benefits it can bring?

In this blog we explore some of the reason you may want to start keeping a regular journal.

As a topline thought - journaling can help us stay mindful - in that if we keep a journal every day it helps to remind us what is important to us and the values we hold dear.

Benefits of keeping a journal

Reduces stress

The process of writing things down, can in itself help to relieve the stress you maybe feeling. For example, listing the 3 things you feel grateful for, any wishes you may have can certainly help your frame of mind.

Mental health

The process of journaling encourages us to reflect on our deepest thoughts and feelings. Research has shown that over time this can have the impact of reducing levels of stress, lowering blood pressure, improving your mood and generally improving a sense of wellbeing. An enhanced sense of wellbeing can have the result of people less depressed or anxious.

Rationalising your thoughts

By writing down your thoughts, it can help you distance yourself from them. If you are having negative or unhelpful thoughts, the process of writing them down can help you rationalise them. Having written them down, you can then question them or even position them in a way that states - My mind is thinking.....in this case you are able to acknowledge that you are NOT your thoughts.

Processing your emotions

I find that writing my journal at the end of the day helps me to process my emotions. By waiting to write the journal has allowed me to allow my emotions to settle from earlier in the day and the process of writing them down helps me to sort / articulate them. Also, by writing our emotions down may also have the affect of reducing their strength.

A sense of clarity

Seeing your emotions, feelings in black and white helps to define them. Having defined or articulated your feelings it can help to provide clarity as to what the next potential steps are.

Improves communication skills

Having written down thoughts and feelings, you are mentally more prepared to articulate them as and when required.

Enhance immune system

Research has shown that when people regularly journal about their deepest thoughts and feelings that they visit the doctor less and have fewer sick days.

Self reflection

Over time you may find you notice a range of themes from what you feel grateful for, your range of emotions. Reviewing your journal can help highlight broader values and feelings in your life. Recognising these themes can provide a first step in working out how to address those emotions or feelings may be affecting your general wellbeing.

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The key to journaling is to keep at it, over an extended period of time. Don't worry if you let it slip once in a while; it's as important that you restart it when you are able to.

US ROAD TRIP AND OWS

Sun, 20 Apr 2025 09:15:00 GMT

US Road Trip - Combining Travel with Open Water Swimming

For anyone that knows us, we are keen open water swimmers / fresh water dippers - be it for exercise, and excuse to get out and explore or to benefit from the cold water benefits (when possible). Taking a number of weeks away in the US also meant we miss our regular visits to Bray Lake for early morning swims and great coffee to kick start the day.

On our recent trip back from skiing in Mottaret- Meribel we found a number of lakes in france to openwater swim to get our fix. Back in April it was more cold water therapy and the associated mental health benefits. . This time, as we explored large areas of America it was also a way to break up the journey, explore the countryside and to do what we love - getting in open water - be it lakes, rivers or streams.

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As you'll see from below - we've had clear water, still water, muddy water and sea water - so we've pretty much had a bit of everything.

We are mindful to always be careful, ask the locals, never swim by ourselves and let someone know where we are going. As much as we love getting in the water, and as open water swim coaches, we know it's imperative to do so safely.

Lake Oswego , Oregon (above image)

Staying with friends we had access to their local easement (point of entry to the lake for residents) and also the Lake Swim Park. Both gave Shannon, Max and I our fix of open water swimming. Lovely and warm, clean water was just what we needed to get moving after our flight. There are other local places to drop in for some open water swimming.

Bend, Oregon

Whether swimming upstream along the Deschutes River, tubing down stream to Drake Park, there were endless opportunities to get in the water. For those missing the coast and surfing there is also the Bend Water Park (an endless wave in the river you see surfers practicing their skills).

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Twin Falls - Dierkes Lake Park (above)

We stumbled across Twin Falls en route to Boise, Idaho. It made for a good break in our journey. With rocks to jump off and a diving board the Lake was a fun stop for us all. Twin falls is also the place where Evil Knievil did his famous canyon jump.

Logan, Utah - Tony Grove Lake, Cache National Forest (main picture)

After a good hike this was a welcome chance to get our fix in the water. Clear mountain water that was refreshing to take a dip. With temperatures in Logan rising to near 100 degrees the lake was peaceful and quiet.

San Diego (above)

We stayed just off the Mission beach boardwalk that gave access to the Pacific Ocean. But in around the city there were so many locations to choose from such as La Jolla Kids beach (where there may be a visiting seal to watch), along with Ocean Beach (and pier - we had a great lunch on the Walking on Water Cafe on the pier.

Open Water Fails

As to be expected not every place we visited proved to be a good place to swim for various reasons.

Visiting Lake Utah Stake Park at Provo there were areas where people were swimming both in the local river and the marina. Perhaps we are spoilt for choice, but it didn't look particularly clean, with stagnant water. ‍

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Zion National Park have several ponds that would have provided a welcome opportunity for a quick dip. The advice was not to take a dip (and certainly not get your head under) as there had been some evidence of harmful bacteria in the water.

It's frustrating when locations don't work out but it's important to be safe, take official advice and also trust your judgement.

Obviously google is a useful guide - but I have to say that Free Arena's was also a great resource. Several open water locations were suggested en route that we weren't able to make it too. If you are looking to find places to swim or do activities then it's worth checking out.

State and national parks also have had areas to swim in so if you are passing these areas also check them out.
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What's your tonic?

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Moab (above)

- Mill Creek Waterfall - a short drive out of town, followed by circa 1.5 miles of walking along a clear path. Your feet will get a bit wet along the way. Once you get to the waterfall it's worth the effort. For those wanting to find somewhere a bit quieter the path continues upstream to a smaller waterfall and pond.

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Sand Hollow State Park (not too far from Zion)

This was a flying stop to jump off some cliffs (safely - as it was a know place to do it). Max and I loved it.

SELF DOUBT

Fri, 11 Apr 2025 09:45:00 GMT

8 Ways To Deal with Self Doubt, or Imposter Syndrome

Self-doubt and imposter syndrome are common experiences that can hold us back from reaching our full potential.

Whether it’s feeling unworthy of success, questioning our abilities, or fearing that others will discover we’re not as competent as they believe, these thoughts can be limiting and damaging to our well-being.

However, by recognizing these feelings and implementing effective strategies, we can overcome self-doubt and develop lasting confidence.

1. Recognizing Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome manifests as persistent feelings of inadequacy, even when there is evidence of success. People experiencing it often attribute achievements to luck rather than skill and fear being “exposed” as a fraud. Recognizing these thoughts as irrational is the first step toward overcoming them.

2. Challenging Negative Self-Talk

Our inner dialogue plays a crucial role in shaping our confidence. When self-doubt creeps in, take a moment to challenge those negative thoughts. Would you say the same things to a close friend? Replacing self-criticism with self-compassion can help shift your mindset toward a more positive and constructive perspective.

3. Celebrate Your Successes

Keeping track of accomplishments, no matter how small, can help counteract feelings of inadequacy. Maintain a journal of successes, positive feedback, and moments of personal growth. Revisiting these reminders during moments of doubt reinforces the reality of your progress and skills.

4. Embracing Growth Over Perfection

Perfectionism often fuels self-doubt. Instead of striving for flawlessness, focus on continuous growth. Mistakes and setbacks are natural parts of learning and development. By embracing a growth mindset, you can see challenges as opportunities rather than failures.

5. Seeking Support and Perspective

Talking to trusted friends, mentors, or colleagues about your feelings can provide reassurance and valuable perspective. Many successful people have experienced self-doubt, and sharing experiences can help normalize these emotions while providing encouragement and practical advice.

6. Taking Action Despite Fear

Self-doubt thrives on hesitation. One of the most effective ways to overcome it is by taking action. Even if you don’t feel completely ready, stepping forward builds confidence over time. The more you challenge yourself, the more you’ll realize your capabilities.

7. Reframing Comparison

Comparing yourself to others often fuels imposter syndrome. Instead of seeing others’ success as a measure of your own worth, use it as inspiration. Everyone’s journey is different, and success is not a limited resource. Focus on your progress rather than measuring yourself against others.

8. Practicing Self-Compassion

Being kind to yourself is essential in overcoming self-doubt. Acknowledge that feeling uncertain is normal and doesn’t define your abilities. Treat yourself with the same encouragement and understanding that you would offer to a friend facing similar challenges.

Ready to take the next step - forward

Don't let self-doubt or imposter syndrome define your journey.

By recognizing these feelings, reframing negative thoughts, and taking action, you can build self-confidence and embrace your achievements.

Remember, you are more capable than your doubts suggest, and with the right mindset and support, you can move forward with confidence and authenticity.

OXYTOCIN MATTERS

Mon, 10 Mar 2025 15:08:22 GMT

Oxytocin - Connecting With Others Matters

Oxytocin, sometimes referred to as the "love hormone," plays a critical role in human bonding, social interactions, and overall well-being. The naturally produced hormone influences both our mental and physical health, making it essential to understand its importance and how to naturally boost its levels.

The Role of Oxytocin in Wellbeing

Oxytocin is fundamentally linked to social bonding and emotional well-being. Here are some key areas where oxytocin impacts our lives:

Emotional Bonding and Relationships: Oxytocin is crucial for forming and maintaining social bonds. It facilitates feelings of trust, empathy, and emotional connection between individuals. This is particularly evident in parent-child relationships, romantic partnerships, and friendships.
Stress Reduction: Oxytocin helps to mitigate stress by reducing the levels of cortisol, the primary stress hormone. This creates a calming effect, promoting relaxation and reducing anxiety. You could also read our blog on Stress and Wellbeing .
Mental Health: Elevated levels of oxytocin are associated with lower rates of depression and anxiety. It contributes to emotional stability and a positive mood, helping to alleviate symptoms of mental health disorders.
Physical Health: Beyond its emotional benefits, oxytocin also has physical health advantages. It can promote wound healing and reduce inflammation, contributing to overall physical wellbeing.
Social Behavior: Oxytocin enhances social interactions by increasing feelings of generosity and kindness. It fosters a sense of belonging and improves social dynamics, making interactions more rewarding and meaningful. Why not read our blog in the importance of kindness .

With the range of benefits associated with oxytocin, surely the next question has to be - how can we either maintain or even improve our oxytocin levels?

10 Ways to Boost Oxytocin Levels

Physical Touch: Physical touch is one of the most effective ways to release oxytocin. Hugs, holding hands, cuddling, and even a pat on the back can trigger the release of this hormone. Regular physical affection with loved ones can strengthen bonds and enhance emotional wellbeing.
Social Interactions: Engaging in positive social interactions, such as spending time with friends and family, participating in group activities, and forming new social connections, can stimulate oxytocin production. Meaningful conversations and shared experiences enhance social bonding and emotional health. A sense of connection or community is one of the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing so it's not a surprise that social connections (and oxytocin) are important.
Acts of Kindness: Performing acts of kindness, whether through volunteering, helping a friend, or offering support to someone in need, can increase oxytocin levels. These acts promote feelings of empathy and connectedness, enhancing both the giver's and receiver's well-being.
Eye Contact: Maintaining eye contact during conversations can enhance the release of oxytocin. This simple yet powerful act fosters trust and deepens emotional connections.
Pets: Interacting with pets, particularly through petting or playing, can boost oxytocin levels. The bond between humans and their pets provides a sense of comfort and reduces stress, promoting overall well-being. You have noticed Missy, our Golden Labrador is an important member of My Life Tonic!
Exercise: Engaging in regular physical activity, especially group exercises like yoga, dancing, or team sports, can stimulate oxytocin release. Exercise also reduces stress and improves mood, contributing to emotional health. Finding 20 minutes a day for exercise will stimulate the release of oxytocin.
Mindfulness and Meditation: Practices such as mindfulness and meditation can enhance oxytocin levels by promoting relaxation and reducing stress. These practices encourage a sense of inner peace and emotional balance.
Laughter: Sharing a good laugh with others can trigger the release of oxytocin. Laughter strengthens social bonds and promotes a positive mood, enhancing emotional well-being.
Music: Listening to soothing music or participating in musical activities like singing in a choir can increase oxytocin levels. Music has a profound effect on emotions and can foster a sense of connection and joy.
Healthy Relationships: Building and maintaining healthy, supportive relationships is crucial for sustained oxytocin production. Positive interactions and a nurturing environment contribute to long-term emotional health.

In Summary

Oxytocin is a powerful hormone that significantly influences our emotional and physical wellbeing. By understanding its role in promoting social bonds, reducing stress, and enhancing overall health, we can take proactive steps to naturally boost its levels.

Incorporating practices such as physical touch, positive social interactions, acts of kindness, and mindfulness into our daily lives can help us harness the benefits of oxytocin, leading to a happier, healthier, and more connected life.

Embrace these natural methods to nurture your wellbeing and foster deeper connections with those around you.

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SKIING IN JAPAN

Wed, 26 Feb 2025 15:58:31 GMT

Japow - Everything and More...

For February half Term we took our chance to try something new.

As you may know, as a family are pretty keen on skiing, also to the point that we have also created a SkiFit package that helps people make the most of their time on the slopes.

It also seemed like a good time before our son gets into the cycle of GCSE and then A Level exams.

Skiing in Japan

We went for the off piste powder conditions - but enjoyed so much more as part of the whole experience.

We stayed in the Niseko resort on the the island of Hokkaido which gave us access to 'One Mountain, Four Resorts' of Annupuri, Niseko Village, Grand Hirafu and Hanazono.

With the assistance of our guide we also visited Moiwa Ski and Kiroro Ski areas that are close to Niseko but are run separately.

As a resort, Niseko has a very international feel with plenty of Kiwi, Aussie and American accents heard in the shops, restaurants and on the slopes.

Unsurprisingly there was plenty of choice of restaurants for all budgets from local cuisine (which was excellent) to a variety of food trucks offering anything from Sushi, pizzas, tacos and curry's. There as also a busy convenience store in the heart of the resort for those in self catered accommodation (as we were).

Tokyo - A Flying Visit

Our travel plans meant we had an afternoon / evening on arrival and before departure in Tokyo. Staying at the airport was convenient for both flights and getting in to the city via the monorail and underground.

We only scratched the surface of this amazing city but managed to make the most of our time

Took in the night scene around Shinjinku
Explored Don Quijote store- to find some 'interesting things'
Gamed in one of the many 'stores'
Survived the Shibua crossing whilst exploring the local area
Visited a Maid Cafe
Found local restaurants
Missed the Imperial Palace as it was shut (!)
Failed to get up a viewing tower to see the sky line

A total of 24 hours is certainly not enough time in Tokyo with so much of the history and culture to explore. For some of the attractions like the Cat Cafe or the Capybara Cafe we just weren't that organised. In truth I'd have wanted to visit a museum to learn a bit more about Sumo wresting, the Ninja and Samuri culture but that can wait until next time as well.

Tips if Your Thinking of Planning a Trip

It's a long way to go for a week of skiing - But Worth It

Direct flights from London to Tokyo vary from 13-15 hours
Internal flight from Tokyo to Hokkaido circa 1h 45 mins
Hokkaido to Niseko is around 2 hours

Getting a ski guide is certainly worth it (thank you Whiteroom Tours )

Find the best snow across the resorts
Avoid (potentially long) queues
Share expert knowledge about ski conditions avalanche risks
Introduce us to Touring and 'skinning techniques'
Drive us to the best ski areas for the day
Take us to the local onsens for a truly Japanese experience
Ski Touring - a great way to find more untouched snow

Despite the longer journey time to actually get to the slopes- it was certainly worth it.

The whole experience was amazing from our brief time in Tokyo to the week spent skiing.

If you are a keen skier and really want to experience something unique - then certainly think about visiting Japan at some point.

The Skiing...

The powder was awesome.

Be it skiing between the trees or going through the 'Gates' that are regulated off piste areas. I certainly would not go through the Gates without a guide and the avalanche packs that were provided.

There are plenty of pisted slopes - though I have to admit we hardly skied on them as we could ultimately ski on pistes back in Europe.

In some resorts the queues can take a while if you hit them at the wrong time. Fortunately this only happened to us once; where we had to queue for 30 odd minutes.

This is where having a guide really comes into it's own- along with the safety element.

With 5 days skiing and want to get the best conditions we barely touched the resorts of Niseko, Hirafu and Hanazono- but that gives us a reason to come back. Similarly, the time spent in Kiroro was largely touring so there's a lot more to explore there too.

Onsens

This felt a uniquely Japanese experience; hot baths, saunas, cold water pools in the snow. Depending on where you go their clothing rules will vary, as will the costs. Certainly worth knowing what the rules are before you go to an onsen.

We all certainly felt it helped our muscle soreness and recovery the next day.

LETTING GO

Mon, 24 Feb 2025 16:09:35 GMT

8 Reasons to Let Go

How Letting Go Can Give You More Control

It sounds counter intuitive, but letting go of certain things can improve our wellbeing.

I think we all, at some point or another, are likely to spend significant energy worrying about things beyond our control—whether it’s other people’s opinions, unexpected life changes, or past mistakes.

It can feel a bit of a struggle to control the uncontrollable that can lead to stress, anxiety, and frustration.

Learning to let go of these worries is a powerful way to enhance wellbeing, enable greater peace of mind, and create a healthier, more balanced life.

Before, I continue with introducing the ways to help let go, let me explain the photo....I'm not great with heights and the thought of being in a hot air balloon was, and still is, pretty terrifying. However, by letting go, embracing acceptance, helped me to 'enjoy' the experience. Metaphorically, the imagery of a hot air balloon resonates with letting go - at times it can feel that direction we move can feel affected by other 'forces'- accepting those influences can help with enjoying the ride - wherever it may take us.

1. Reducing Stress and Anxiety

One of the greatest sources of stress is worrying about things we cannot change. Whether it’s a delayed flight, an unexpected job change, or someone else’s actions, dwelling on things outside of our influence only drains our energy. By shifting focus to what we can control—our reactions, mindset, and actions—we free ourselves from unnecessary stress and anxiety.

2. Embracing Acceptance

Letting go does not mean giving up; it means accepting reality for what it is. When we resist situations or try to force outcomes, we create tension and frustration. Acceptance allows us to make peace with life’s unpredictability and find constructive ways to move forward rather than getting stuck in what we wish were different.

3. Strengthening Emotional Resilience

When we let go of the illusion of control, we develop resilience. Challenges and setbacks are inevitable, but how we respond to them makes all the difference. By focusing on adaptability rather than resistance, we build emotional strength and learn to navigate difficulties with grace and confidence.

4. Freeing Up Mental and Emotional Energy

Holding onto past regrets, grudges, or fears about the future consumes mental space that could be used for creativity, joy, and growth. By releasing these burdens, we create room for new experiences, deeper connections, and a more fulfilling present moment.

5. Improving Relationships

Trying to control how others think, feel, or act often leads to frustration and strained relationships. Accepting that we cannot change people but can only control how we interact with them fosters healthier, more respectful relationships. Letting go of unrealistic expectations allows us to appreciate others for who they are rather than who we want them to be.

6. Cultivating Mindfulness and Presence

Letting go encourages us to live in the present moment rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. Mindfulness practices, such as meditation or deep breathing, help us stay grounded in what is happening now, reducing anxiety and increasing overall well-being.

7. Encouraging Personal Growth

Growth happens when we learn to accept uncertainty and take things as they come. When we stop trying to micromanage every detail, we become more open to new opportunities, personal development, and unexpected joys in life.

8. Enhancing Sleep and Physical Health

Chronic stress and worry take a toll on both mental and physical health. By learning to let go, we allow our bodies to relax, improve sleep quality, and reduce the risk of stress-related health issues like high blood pressure and fatigue.

Final Thoughts

Letting go of what we cannot control is one of the most liberating steps we can take for our wellbeing. It allows us to reduce stress, cultivate resilience, and focus on what truly matters.

While it’s not always easy, practicing acceptance, mindfulness, and self-compassion can help us embrace life’s uncertainties with a sense of peace and confidence.

By shifting our focus to what we can control—our thoughts, attitudes, and actions—we empower ourselves to live a healthier, happier life.

TIME TO TALK

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:37:40 GMT

Mental Health - We NEED To Talk

On 2nd February it's Time to Talk Day ; an initiative set up by Mind and Rethink Mental Health Illness.

From personal experience, I found having conversations with some of my closest friends really helped gain the perspective I needed when my mind was going down various rabbit holes.

In fact, having started the conversations, I regularly schedule time in with those people for a catch up. More to chat about stuff rather than having a set 'agenda.' Although it sounds a bit formal putting a time in to chat, it does at least mean we don't let things slip and before you know it, it's been 6 months.

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Why it's time to talk (or at least encourage it).

In a world when we are seemingly more connected than ever, I found the statement below sad, and a little disturbing.

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4 in 10 people under 24 don't feel they don't have anyone to talk to regarding their mental health?
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Does spending over 14 hours a week on social media really make us feel more connected. Can the 2 be connected perhaps with unrealistic expectations being fed to young people, and potentially being a contributing factor to people feeling isolated and unable to share how they are really feeling?

But the point isn't that only people under 24 need to have someone to speak to - we all do; it doesn't matter what age someone is.
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The Time to Talk campaign is a great way to kick off (or remind people to talk) - but we need to go further and make this an action we are conscious of throughout the year - not just one day.

8 Tips When Having The Conversation

Having the conversation a great first stop; however you find it helpful to have some tips of when it's good to have the chat

Find a place that is free from distraction
Make sure you and the other person feels comfortable - in that you may want a private place
Do something whilst having the chat - maybe a walk or a coffee - but nothing too distracting
If it helps plan the time in advance so you are both prepared for the conversation
Ask the question and then listen
Don't try to fix the issues someone may be having
Treat the person the same after the conversation as you did before
Be patient - some thoughts may be repeated or initially unclear

Why not give yourself time to reach out to those that may be struggling and could do with some support - it could be as little as phone call helping them out with an errand or being there to listen.

If you, or someone you know is struggling, reach out to various organisations that can support you; from your local GP surgery to organisations such as the Samaritans .

Looking after our mental health, and being able to speak to someone is important - whatever age someone is, whatever the time of year.

WORK PLACE WELLNESS

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:35:44 GMT

The Importance of Wellness Initiatives at Work

Wellness At Work

Wellness at work is not just a buzzword or a trend. It is a vital aspect of creating a healthy, productive and engaged workforce.

Wellness at work encompasses; physical, mental and social wellbeing, and involves providing employees with the support, resources and opportunities they need to thrive in their work environment.

Why Wellness At Work Matters

Wellness at work matters for both employees and employers.

For employees, wellness at work can improve their health, happiness, motivation, performance and retention.

For employers, wellness at work can reduce costs, increase productivity, enhance reputation and attract talent.

Benefits of offering wellness programs at work:

52% of U.S. companies offer wellness programs, and 72% of employers saw a reduction in healthcare costs after implementing a wellness program.

The average return on investment (ROI) for employee wellness programs is six-to-one.

Wellness programs can reduce absenteeism by 14-19%.

About 87% of employees consider health and wellness offerings when choosing an employer, and more than 68% of employers prioritize well-being as a business objective.

Of employers offering wellness programs,

67% reported increased employee satisfaction
66% reported increased productivity
63% reported increased financial sustainability and growth
50% reported decreased absenteeism.

How To Promote Wellness In The Workplace

Promoting wellness at work requires a holistic and strategic approach that addresses the health risks and needs of the workforce. Some of the best practices for promoting wellness at work include:

Conducting a wellness needs assessment to identify the current state of employee health and well-being, as well as the gaps and opportunities for improvement.
Developing a wellness vision, mission and goals that align with the organizational culture and values, and communicate them clearly to all stakeholders.
Designing and implementing a comprehensive wellness program that covers various dimensions of well-being, such as physical activity, nutrition, mental health, stress management, social connection and work-life balance.
Providing employees with access to wellness resources, such as health screenings, coaching, education, incentives, policies and facilities.
Engaging employees in wellness activities, such as challenges, events, workshops, webinars and peer support groups.
Evaluating and measuring the outcomes and impact of the wellness program on employee health and well-being, as well as organizational performance and profitability.

In Summary

Wellness at work is not only beneficial but essential for creating a healthy, productive and engaged workforce. By investing in employee wellbeing, employers can reap significant rewards in terms of cost savings, productivity gains, reputation enhancement and talent attraction. Wellness at work is not a one-time initiative but an ongoing commitment that requires leadership support, employee involvement and continuous improvement.

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MENTAL HEALTH AND MOVEMENT

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:35:04 GMT

Mental Health and Movement

Prioritizing our mental health has increasingly been a topic of interest as we consider our wider sense of wellbeing.

In fact, keeping physically active is one of the 5 pillars of wellbeing .

We often associate being active with the physical benefits such potential weight loss, improved cardiovascular fitness. It can however be easy to over look the positive impact exercise can have on our mental health.

I think it is fantastic that the theme for the 2024 Mental Health Awareness Week was Movement: Moving more for our mental health.

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With this mind, I thought sharing how movement can support our mental health would be helpful.

If you'd like to discuss how we can support you and your colleagues with a week's program for Mental Health Awareness Week (every May) - please do get in touch.

5 Benefits of Exercise for Our Mental Health

1. The Feel-Good Effect

‍ Engaging in physical activity stimulates the release of endorphins, that are in affect the body's natural mood enhancers. These neurotransmitters interact with receptors in the brain, reducing the perception of pain and triggering a positive feeling. The "runner's high" is a well-known example of this phenomenon, but even a brisk walk or a light workout can elevate your mood, making you feel more energized and optimistic.

2. Stress Reduction

‍ Exercise acts as a effective stress reducer by regulating cortisol levels, the hormone associated with stress. When we face challenges, cortisol floods our system, preparing us for the fight-or-flight response. Regular physical movement provides a healthy outlet for this built-up tension, reducing cortisol levels and promoting a sense of calm. This not only helps in managing stress but also contributes to improved mental clarity and focus.

3. Improved Sleep Quality

Quality sleep is a cornerstone of good mental health. Physical activity helps regulate sleep patterns by promoting a more restful and rejuvenating night's sleep. The calming effect of exercise, coupled with the release of tension and stress, contributes to a better sleep routine. A well-rested mind is better equipped to handle challenges, think creatively, and maintain emotional balance.

4. Mindfulness

Physical movement, be it in the form of yoga, a run, or a dance class, encourages mindfulness; also known as being present in the moment. The focus required to perform different movements helps individuals stay present in the moment, fostering a meditative state or entering a sense of 'flow'. This mindful approach to exercise can serve as a mental reset, allowing individuals to momentarily detach from the stresses of daily life and cultivate a more centered and balanced mental state. Being present or mindful is another one of the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing .

5. Social Connection

‍ Many physical activities offer a chance for social engagement, creating a sense of community and connection. Whether it's a group fitness class, a team sport, or a hiking club, exercising with others provides an opportunity to share experiences, build relationships, and reduce feelings of isolation. These social connections contribute significantly to emotional resilience and a sense of belonging; if nothing else you all have a shared interest which in itself can facilitate friendships and relationships. I've shared more detail on the importance of Social Connection in the blog post referring to the 2nd Pillar of Wellbeing .

Being active - it's more than just physical

The benefits of physical movement extend beyond physical fitness. Regular exercise positively impacts mental health by boosting mood, reducing stress, improving sleep quality, fostering mindfulness, and creating social connections. Embracing physical activity as a regular part of our routines is a proactive way to achieving and maintaining our mental well-being.

From a personal perspective, I have always enjoyed keeping active, however it has felt that keeping physically fit was not always enough. I find that laying the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing alongside keeping active has been equally important to maintain my own mental health. It is perhaps not a coincidence that of the 5 points shared above, 3 of them are in fact individual pillars of wellbeing.

WELLBEING AND HAPPINESS - SWEDEN

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:34:17 GMT

A Swedish Take On Wellbeing - Fika

Around the world, different cultures have created their own unique ways to support their own wellbeing - probably before the term become popularlised or even became a thing.

With my interest in mental health and wellbeing, I've come across the concept of Fika that wanted to explore a little more.

The exploration has resulted in this blog. I hope you find it interesting but also that it showcases that although countries and cultures 'do things differently' there may well be commonalities that link the creation of wellbeing together - wherever you are.

One such tradition that holds great potential in this regard is "Fika," a custom deeply rooted in Swedish culture. Fika is not just about enjoying a cup of coffee and a sweet treat; it's a philosophy, a lifestyle, and a powerful tool for fostering mental wellbeing. In this blog, we'll explore what Fika is and how it can positively impact our mental health.

What Is Fika?

Fika is a Swedish word that essentially means taking a break to enjoy a coffee, tea, or another beverage, usually accompanied by a snack or baked treat. It's a simple and cherished tradition in Sweden, where people pause their busy lives to connect with others, recharge, and find pleasure in the little things. Fika can take place at home, at work, or in a café; essentially it's a concept not really constrained by a physical location.

While Fika primarily revolves around the act of having a coffee or tea, it is not solely about the beverage itself. The essence of Fika is about taking a moment for relaxation, being present, and connecting with others. Here are some key components of Fika:

Coffee or Tea: This is the central element of Fika. Swedes take their coffee seriously and often enjoy high-quality brews. However, tea is also a popular choice for those who prefer it.

Snacks: Fika is usually accompanied by a small pastry or snack, such as cinnamon buns, cookies, or open-faced sandwiches. These treats add to the pleasure of the moment.

Connection: Fika is meant to be shared with others. It's a social activity, whether it's catching up with friends, family, or colleagues. It's a chance to connect, discuss, and share experiences.

So the food and drink help facilitate the sense of connection and sense of belonging within the community; be it at work, home or as part of a club. This ties nicely back to 1 of the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing and the importance of connecting with others .

The Benefits Of Fika for Mental Health

So why Fika is good for our mental health:

Stress Reduction: Fika provides a deliberate pause in the day, offering an opportunity to relax and unwind. Stepping away from the demands of work or daily life for a moment of respite can significantly reduce stress levels.

Social Connection: Human beings are social creatures, and meaningful social interactions play a vital role in mental well-being. Fika encourages face-to-face conversations and strengthens relationships. It's a chance to check in with friends and colleagues, fostering a sense of belonging and community.

Mindfulness: The act of sitting down and savoring your coffee and treat encourages mindfulness. In a world filled with distractions, Fika teaches us to be present in the moment, savoring the flavors and aromas and appreciating the company we're in.

Creativity and Productivity: Taking regular breaks, like Fika, can actually boost creativity and productivity. It helps recharge your mind, making you more focused and effective in your work.

Self-Care: Fika is an act of self-care, promoting the importance of looking after one's mental and emotional well-being. In our often-hectic lives, it's crucial to prioritize self-care, and Fika offers a simple yet effective way to do so.

Ritual and Routine: Establishing routines and rituals can provide a sense of structure and comfort. Fika can be an anchor in your day, a moment to look forward to, adding a sense of predictability to your schedule.

Enjoyment of Simple Pleasures: Fika encourages us to take pleasure in the simple things – the aroma of freshly brewed coffee, the taste of a delicious pastry, and the warmth of a good conversation. These small moments of joy can have a profound impact on our overall happiness.

Bringing A Bit Of Fika Into Your Life

You don't have to be Swedish to embrace the Fika philosophy. Anyone can incorporate this tradition into their daily routine. Start by setting aside time each day for a coffee break. Whether you're at home, work, or in a café, use this time to disconnect from screens (a bit of a digital detox perhaps), enjoy the benefits of breathwork , and enjoy your coffee and a snack. Invite a friend or colleague to join you, or simply savor the solitude.

So, to recap Fika is more than just a coffee break; it's a way of life that promotes mental wellbeing, mindfulness, and the simple joys of connecting with others. Embracing the Fika tradition in your life can lead to reduced stress, increased social connections, and a deeper appreciation for the little moments that add up to a happier, healthier, and more balanced life.

So, why not give it a try and start experiencing the mental health benefits of Fika today?

THINKING OF STOPPING DRINKING?

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:33:20 GMT

How Quitting Alcohol Can Impact Your Productivity

Making the decision to give up alcohol can be a life-altering choice, one that often has a profound impact on various aspects of your life, including productivity. While there are numerous benefits to quitting alcohol, such as improved physical and mental health, there can also be potential downfalls that need careful consideration.

From a personal perspective, I gave up drinking alcohol in the summer of 2022 for a few reasons

Creep - it started to enjoy drinks during the week, more often, rather than just the weekend
Physical health - I finally took action and addressed high cholesterol by taking statins. I had tried to bring my cholesterol down naturally but wasn't able to do so. Some Statins can cause liver damage, as can alcohol so it seemed to make sense not to put extra pressure on my live
I wanted a break - In 2019 I took 3 months off drinking and found it OK - but slowly started drinking again
Mental health - in that I realised that I had started to use drinking as a bit of cruch at the end of the week.

It's now been over year since I stopped drinking alcohol. so thought I'd share some reflections.

It maybe that as we head towards January, people may think about stopping, either as part of a challenge, they've enjoyed the festive period and want a break. Whatever your reason and your intention - hopefully this blog will help provide a guide to some of things you may experience.

A final note from me about my personal experience. I don't think I've found the physical act of drinking as hard to give up as I'd thought, rather found the affects from a mental health perspective probably trickier.

5 Benefits of Stopping Drinking

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1. Increased Clarity and Focus

We've all noticed that alcohol impairs cognitive function, affecting our ability to concentrate and make clear decisions. When we remove alcohol from the equation, your mind becomes sharper, allowing us to focus on tasks with greater precision.

2. Enhanced Energy Levels

One of the immediate benefits of quitting alcohol is been having improved sleep. Without the disruptions alcohol can cause, I experienced more restful and restorative sleep, leading to higher energy levels during the day.

3. Better Time Management

Giving up drinking can lead to more productive use of our time. You may find that you have extra hours in the day, as you're no longer spending time drinking, recovering from hangovers, or dealing with the consequences of alcohol-related incidents. I regularly get up earlier to do my own yoga or workout at the start of the day, when perhaps I may have wanted an extra hour's sleep.

4. Improved Physical Health

No drinking can lead to better overall health, which in turn can enhance productivity. You'll have fewer sick days, better physical stamina, and improved mental well-being, all contributing to your ability to perform at your best.

5. Stronger Relationships

Quitting alcohol can improve your personal and professional relationships. You'll be more reliable, accountable, and emotionally available to those around you, leading to healthier connections that can positively impact your work life.

10 Challenges of Stopping Drinking

1. Social Pressure

In many social and professional settings, alcohol is a common lubricant for social interaction. Giving up alcohol may lead to feelings of isolation or pressure to conform, which can be challenging to navigate. Think about it - when someone gives up smoking they are often congratulated. In contrast, when you say you've given up drinking, generally people ask what the reason is - almost to help justify why it may not apply to them.

2. Coping Mechanisms

For some, alcohol serves as a coping mechanism for stress or anxiety. Without it, you may need to find alternative ways to manage these emotions effectively. As noted in the introduction, I somewhat fell into this trip and have had to work hard to ensure that I have different ways to manage stress and anxiety such as exercise, breathwork, yoga and importantly better communication with loved ones.

3. Initial Discomfort

The process of quitting alcohol can be physically and emotionally uncomfortable. You may experience withdrawal symptoms or cravings, which can temporarily affect your productivity. I don't think I really felt this, probably as I had a clear reason for initially stopping.

4. Reevaluation of Social Life

Giving up alcohol may prompt you to reevaluate your social life, including the places you frequent and the people you spend time with. This process can be emotionally taxing and time-consuming. Over the whole process, the vast majority of people have been supportive after the initial questions of what my reason was. If people aren't supportive then you may not want to spend as much time with them.

5. Establish New Routines

Replace old drinking habits with new, productive routines. Incorporate exercise, meditation, or other wellness practices to fill the void left by alcohol. You can of course still go out when you are not drinking alcohol and the great news is that the non alcoholic beers certainly taste better than they did. Sometimes, having a non alcoholic beers puts other people more at ease around you as it is less obvious that you are not drinking.

6. Seek Support

Surround yourself with a support network of friends, family, or a sober community who understand your journey and can provide encouragement during challenging times. Fortunately I had a really good Uni mate that has also stopped drinking. He has been an invaluable support - not because I was tempted to start drinking again but to share how much more productive we feel (and to go on boys ski trips together!).

7. Learn Coping Strategies

Develop healthy coping mechanisms to deal with stress and emotional challenges. Techniques like mindfulness, journaling, or therapy can be invaluable in this process. This was something I really need to work on - and was a bit of a surprise for me. For me meditation, breathwork, exercise and sleep were important - but probably the most critical was making sure I was communicating more clearly with loved ones.

8. Monitor Progress

Keep a journal or use productivity apps to track your progress. More simply - just keep track of the days you haven't drunk for and any key milestones such as Thanks Giving (Shannon is American), Christmas, New Year, Holidays etc...Once you get into the swing of it - stopping drinking really does become easier.

9. Celebrate your achievements

No matter how small, to stay motivated. Obviously not with a drink but other rewards could be massages, shopping or weekend's away depending on our interests and budget.

10. Professional Help

If you find it particularly challenging to adjust to a sober lifestyle or face significant emotional struggles, consider seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor.

Some final thoughts on giving up alcohol

Quitting alcohol can have a profound impact on productivity, offering benefits like increased clarity, improved time management, and enhanced physical health.

However, it's essential to be aware of potential challenges such as social pressure, coping mechanisms, and initial discomfort. When I stopped drinking alcohol perhaps these were a bit of a surprise to me. If you are thinking of stopping drinking then I'd like to think that this blog can help prepare you a little more.

With careful planning, support, and the development of healthy habits, you can harness the positive aspects of sobriety to elevate your productivity and overall quality of life.

Remember that the journey to productivity after quitting alcohol is unique to each individual, and it's okay to seek help and take it one step at a time.

Ultimately, giving up drinking can be a powerful catalyst for personal and professional growth that makes you feel better - in what ever way that is.

Of all the My Life Tonics giving up alcohol is potentially the hardest and biggest 'sudden' change that I've gone though - but one that looking back am most pleased about. If you have any questions, please do get in touch.

LETS WOOP

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:32:34 GMT

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Starting 2024 with a WOOP!

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In 2023 I took the time to complete the Science of Wellbeing course offered online by Yale University. I really can't recommend it enough ( Ongoing Learning - in whatever context is a great way to help maintain a positive mental health). WOOP was just one of the many concepts that I was introduced to and have since looked into in ab it more depth.

At the start of a new year it can be a time of reflection of each of us. I think it is a fair assumption that most of ultimately want to be happy and maintain a positive sense of wellbeing. It's doesn't feel too much to ask for does it?

As you may have noticed from a number of my recent post about the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing , Creating Lasting Habits ; I find understanding different frameworks really helpful. WOOP is another one of those frameworks that may help.

Positive thinking is a powerful tool and the WOOP framework helps to give a sense of structure. Wishing for success and happiness isn't enough; a structured approach can help turn your aspirations into reality. In my mind WOOP is a practical and evidence-based framework that can help you set and achieve your goals while maintaining happiness and wellbeing; the two need not conflict with each other.

In this blog, we'll outline what WOOP is and how it can provide practical ways to apply it in your day-to-day life.

What Is WOOP?

WOOP stands for Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan. It's a goal-setting and mental contrasting technique developed by psychologist Gabriele Oettingen. The framework is based on scientific research and aims to help individuals achieve their goals and maintain a positive outlook. Here's how it works:

Wish: Begin by identifying a meaningful, realistic wish or goal that you'd like to achieve. It could be related to your personal or professional life, health, relationships, or any other aspect of your wellbeing.
Outcome: Visualize the best possible outcome associated with your wish. Imagine what it would look and feel like if you successfully achieved your goal. Be specific and vivid in your mental imagery.
Obstacle: Now, shift your focus to the potential obstacles or barriers that might stand in the way of your goal. What challenges or difficulties could arise? It's important to be honest and realistic about these obstacles.
Plan: Finally, develop a plan to overcome the obstacles you've identified. Create a series of "If-Then" statements that outline specific actions you will take when faced with these challenges. This helps you prepare for setbacks and stay on track toward your goal.

It strikes me that the saying 'Fail to plan, plan to fail' seems to link nicely with WOOP. We can all have wish and outcome but we need to anticipate what may prevent us from achieving our wish and outcome. Utlimately, preparing for potential scenarios will enable us to stay focused on working towards the outcome.

Applying WOOP in Your Day-to-Day Life:

Having been introduced to the WOOP framework how can we practically apply it to enhance our own happiness and wellbeing:

1. Define Your Wishes:

Start by identifying the key areas in your life where you want to improve your happiness and wellbeing. Whether it's improving your physical health, nurturing relationships, or advancing your career, clarifying your wishes is the first step.

2. Visualize Success:

Once you've identified your wishes, take some time to vividly imagine what achieving those goals would look and feel like. Close your eyes and immerse yourself in the positive emotions associated with success. Visualization can help strengthen your motivation and commitment.

3. Identify Obstacles:

Realistically assess the potential obstacles or challenges that might arise as you work toward your goals. It could be lack of time, self-doubt, external pressures, or anything that might hinder your progress. Be specific and honest in identifying these barriers.

4. Develop Your If-Then Plan:

The "If-Then" planning process is a crucial aspect of WOOP. Create a series of contingency plans that outline what you will do when you encounter obstacles. For example:

"If I feel too tired to exercise after work (obstacle), then I will pack my gym bag in the morning and go straight to the gym before going home (plan)."
"If I encounter resistance from a team member during a project (obstacle), then I will schedule a one-on-one meeting to address their concerns and find a solution (plan)."

5. Stay Accountable:

Share your goals and WOOP plans with a trusted friend, family member, or mentor. Having someone who can hold you accountable and provide support can significantly increase your chances of success.

I know that having verbalised an intention with friends (usually around doing an event) it really does help me stick to the training that I need to do so that I can complete (and enjoy) whatever it is that I am planning to do.

6. Monitor and Adapt:

Regularly review your progress and make adjustments as needed. If you encounter unexpected obstacles or your circumstances change, be flexible in adapting your plans while keeping your ultimate goals in mind.

From a sporting or training perspective, the best laid plans can be disrupted by an injury or work commitments. There are somethings that you can not change, but it's how you deal with them that's important. if you are unlikely to achieve a given time in an event then perhaps you change your expectation and focus on enjoying the event rather than the time...

7. Celebrate Small Wins:

Recognize and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Acknowledging your progress can boost your motivation and reinforce your commitment to maintaining happiness and wellbeing.

A Summary of WOOP

The WOOP framework is a practical approach to setting and achieving your goals while fostering happiness and wellbeing. By defining your wishes, visualizing success, identifying obstacles, and developing concrete plans, you can navigate challenges with resilience and determination. Incorporating WOOP into your daily life, can help empower you to turn your aspirations into reality while maintaining a positive outlook on your journey towards happiness and wellbeing.

Similarly, being aware that achieving your wish can take time, it's also worth considering how small daily habits can help move you towards (and ultimately) to achieving your desired outcome.

Have a great 2024.

WELLBEING AND HAPPINESS - DENMARK

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:31:31 GMT

Danish Mental Wellbeing - Learning from Hygge

My interest was first peaked in Denmark and the concept of Hygge when I read, A Year of Living Danishly by Helen Russell.

In the book Russell provides a lovely insight into how structured, even leisure time can be in Denmark. But rather than feeling too organised, it helped the residents keep active and also get through the long dark winters. She also introduced me to the concept of Hygge.

In it's essence hygge is a concept that emphasizes coziness, simplicity, and wellbeing. Hygge, a Danish term pronounced "hoo-gah," is more than just a word; it's a way of life that holds the key to mental health and happiness.

Particularly withy my ongoing interest and ways to maintain a positive state of wellbeing, then I thought a blog would in interesting - for myself as part of the learning process but also to those interested in the subject matter too.

Over the next months, I'll share some thoughts on other countries that also rate highly in the World Happiness Report.

As we approach winter and the short days, longer nights then if we can learn anything from a country that spends long periods in the dark then I believe it will be useful.

Understanding Hygge

Hygge is a concept deeply ingrained in Danish culture, often described as a feeling or atmosphere rather than a tangible thing. While it's challenging to translate Hygge into a single word, it encompasses elements of coziness, contentment, and the joy of simple pleasures. It's about creating a warm, welcoming environment and embracing life's little moments with appreciation. Surely, anything that embraces so many positive emotions and sense of warmth has to be good.

The Components of Hygge

To embrace the essence of Hygge, it's essential to understand it's is made up of.

Coziness

Cozy blankets, soft lighting, and comfortable furniture all play a role in creating a sense of warmth and comfort.

Candles

Lighting candles is a Hygge staple, and the soft glow they provide adds to the feeling of comfort and relaxation. In the UK that may be an open fire at home, in a pub or hotel.

Comfort Food

Hearty, homemade meals and warm beverages are essential in the Hygge experience. Think soups, stews, hot chocolate, and freshly baked bread; think winter comfort food.

Quality Time

Hygge thrives on spending time with loved ones, whether it's with family or friends. Conversations, board games, or simply being present in the moment all contribute to the concept. of feeling actively engaged or interacting as part of a community.

Nature

Nature and the outdoors are important in Danish culture. Whether it's a hike, a walk in the park, or simply enjoying fresh air in your garden, connecting with nature is a Hygge practice. There are two elements here - firstly getting out side (some may call this ecotherapy) but also being active. Being active need not be strenuous.

The Benefits of Hygge for Mental Health

Hygge is not just about creating a cozy atmosphere; it offers numerous mental health benefits. Here are some compelling reasons why you should consider embracing Hygge in your life:

Stress Reduction: The cozy and serene environment that Hygge promotes can be a sanctuary in a hectic world. It's a space where you can retreat, relax, and let go of the day's stressors.
Mindfulness: Hygge encourages you to be present in the moment. Whether you're sipping a warm cup of tea or enjoying a meal with friends, it promotes mindfulness and gratitude for the simple pleasures in life.
Strong Social Connections: Hygge places a strong emphasis on spending quality time with loved ones. Social connections are vital for mental well-being, and Hygge provides the perfect backdrop for nurturing those relationships.
Increased Comfort: The physical comfort that Hygge promotes, such as cozy blankets and comfortable furnishings, contributes to an overall sense of well-being. Feeling physically comfortable can have a positive impact on your mental state.
Reduction of Materialism: Hygge encourages a focus on experiences rather than material possessions. This shift in perspective can reduce the anxiety and stress often associated with consumerism.
Gratitude and Positivity: Practicing Hygge encourages an attitude of gratitude for the small pleasures in life. This leads to a more positive outlook and an increased sense of happiness.
Resilience: Embracing the Hygge lifestyle can provide a sense of resilience, helping you better cope with life's challenges and uncertainties. It fosters an attitude of "we're all in this together," which is particularly important during difficult times.

Incorporating Hygge into Your Life

Obviously, you don't have to be Danish to embrace the Hygge way of life. In fact, the beauty of Hygge lies in its simplicity and accessibility. Here are some practical ways to incorporate Hygge into your daily routine:

Create a Cozy Space: Arrange your living space with comfort in mind. Use soft blankets, comfortable furniture, and warm lighting to make your environment inviting.
Light Candles: Lighting candles can instantly create a warm and serene atmosphere. Choose unscented or lightly scented candles for an authentic Hygge experience.
Savor Comfort Food: Prepare or enjoy comforting dishes like soup, baked goods, and hot beverages. Share these with friends or family to enhance the experience.
Disconnect: Put away your devices and be present in the moment. Engage in meaningful conversations or activities without distractions.
Spend Time Outdoors: Connect with nature by taking walks, picnicking, or simply enjoying the fresh air.
Practice Gratitude: Take a moment each day to reflect on the things you're grateful for. Write them down or share them with a friend.

In conclusion, Hygge is a beautiful Danish tradition that can significantly enhance your mental wellbeing. By embracing the principles of coziness, simplicity, and togetherness, you can reduce stress, increase mindfulness, and cultivate a more positive and grateful outlook on life.

So, why not add a touch of Hygge to your daily routine and start reaping the mental health benefits it has to offer?

What strikes me, is that seemingly Hygge has been 'a thing' well before the modern term of wellbeing was created. Wellbeing is perhaps a western term that has been created to help us in our modern, busy lives. In actual fact, communities (or cultures) have long understood ways to help maintain a positive wellbeing - but just under a different name.

HEALTH AND FITNESS AS WE GET OLDER

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:30:39 GMT

Staying Fit and Healthy As We Get Older

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7 Components To Stay Fit As We Age

I spend a lot of time sharing my thoughts on ways to look after our wellbeing and wellness by sharing frameworks such as the 5 pillars of wellbeing or ways to create new longer lasting habits . Personally I find the frameworks help put things in context, whilst the of the Life Tonics may be new habits you want to establish.

Staying fit and healthy as we age is so important for both our physical and mental health.

In this blog, I'll be sharing another framework that should be helpful to maintain good health as we age.

If there was one thing I'd want people to take out from this blog - is that varying your types of exercise is paramount. As much as we enjoy one form of exercise, don't neglect the other ways to look after your physical health. Also - do what you can - we are all different and coming from different fitness levels, mobility and flexibility.....all of which we can work on!

1. Endurance: Fueling the Long Haul

Endurance, or cardiovascular fitness, is the ability of your heart and lungs to efficiently supply oxygen to your body during physical activities. As you age, maintaining good cardiovascular health becomes even more critical. Regular aerobic exercises like walking, jogging, cycling, and swimming can help improve your endurance.

Endurance activities enhance your stamina, reduce the risk of heart disease, and provide mental benefits like stress reduction. Aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic exercise each week, and include activities that raise your heart rate, making you sweat and breathe harder.

Having started triathlons in my mid 20's I found that mixing up the training from swimming, cycling and running was a great way to vary up the training; focusing on different areas of the body. Also, if you do pick up an injury there is usually at least one other form of exercise can do to get your fix.

2. Stability: Building a Strong Foundation

As we age, balance and stability become increasingly important. Poor balance can lead to falls and injuries; falls are a significant cause of many injuries within the older populations around around the world. Strength and resistance training can help improve stability by enhancing muscle mass, coordination, and (yoga for ) core strength.

Yoga and Pilates are excellent choices for enhancing balance and stability. These practices not only build physical strength but also offer mental benefits, such as stress relief and mindfulness. By incorporating balance exercises into your fitness routine, you can reduce the risk of falls and maintain your quality of life.

3. Agility: Staying Nimble and Alert

Agility, the ability to move quickly and easily, is often overlooked but plays a significant role in everyday life. It's about staying nimble, alert, and responsive to changing situations. Engaging in activities that challenge your agility, such as dance, martial arts, or agility drills, can help keep your reflexes sharp and improve your coordination.

Agility exercises can be fun and mentally stimulating, contributing to your overall well-being. They can help prevent stiffness and promote a sense of vitality, making everyday activities more enjoyable and effortless.

4. Mobility: The Key to Independence

Mobility refers to your ability to move freely through your joints' full range of motion. Loss of mobility can lead to stiffness, discomfort, and a reduced quality of life. To maintain mobility, it's crucial to stretch regularly, focusing on both major muscle groups and specific joints.

Consider incorporating activities like yoga, Tai Chi, and dynamic stretching into your routine. These exercises not only improve your mobility but also reduce the risk of injury, promote relaxation, and help you manage stress.

Shoulder rolls (in both directions) and hip rotations whilst kneeling on all fours are great ways to maintain good mobility in some of our larger joints. to help you maintain a good range of movement.

5. Flexibility: Embracing Suppleness

Flexibility is closely related to mobility but focuses on the elasticity of your muscles and connective tissues. Stretching and flexibility exercises keep your body supple, improve posture, and relieve tension. They also help you maintain a range of motion in your joints.

To enhance flexibility, it's essential to incorporate stretching routines into your daily or weekly schedule. This can include static stretching, dynamic stretching, and even foam rolling. Increased flexibility contributes to your overall well-being by reducing the risk of injury and promoting relaxation.

Unsurprisingly as yoga teachers we're big advocates of stretching and flexibility with either or live or on demand classes .

6. Strength: Resisting Age-Related Muscle Loss

Maintaining muscle strength is crucial as we age. After 40, the natural loss of muscle mass becomes more pronounced. Resistance training, using weights, resistance bands, or your body weight, can help combat muscle loss and improve overall strength.

Strength training also supports bone health, increases metabolism, and can enhance your functional fitness. It's not about becoming a bodybuilder but rather about ensuring your body remains robust and capable of daily activities without strain.

Our on-demand classes include 30 minute HIIT sessions as well as 10 minute Tone Up sessions to help maintain your strength and muscle mass. Alternatively, body weight squats are a great way to build strength in the lower body by engaging quads and glutes.

7. Nutrition: The Foundation of Wellness

The importance of nutrition cannot be overstated. A well-balanced diet is the foundation of your overall well-being and plays a pivotal role in maintaining good health. After 40, your metabolism slows down, and your nutritional needs may change. It's essential to focus on nutrient-dense foods, including a variety of fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, whole grains, and healthy fats.

Consider paying attention to specific nutrients such as calcium and vitamin D for bone health, omega-3 fatty acids for heart health, and antioxidants for cellular protection. Staying hydrated is also crucial, as dehydration can exacerbate the aging process.

In addition to healthy eating, consider portion control and mindful eating to avoid overeating and maintain a healthy weight. Furthermore, consult with a registered dietitian or healthcare professional to create a nutrition plan tailored to your individual needs.

Tips To Age Gracefully

Incorporating the above elements into your fitness regimen is essential for those over 40. However, it's equally important to take a holistic approach to health and well-being. Here are some key points to keep in mind:

Consistency: Consistency is key in maintaining fitness and well-being. Create a realistic and sustainable fitness routine that you can adhere to over the long term.
Adaptability: Be prepared to adjust your fitness routine as your body's needs change with age. This may include modifications in exercise intensity, frequency, or type.
Recovery: Don't underestimate the importance of rest and recovery. Give your body time to repair and regenerate between workouts.
Mental Well-being: Addressing mental health is just as important as physical fitness. Engage in stress-reduction practices like meditation and mindfulness to maintain emotional well-being.
Medical Check-Ups: Regular check-ups with your healthcare provider are essential. Discuss your fitness goals and ensure your exercise routine is safe and appropriate for your age and health condition.
Community and Support: Engage with a fitness community or find a workout buddy to stay motivated and accountable.

Staying fit as we get older is a multifaceted endeavor that encompasses various aspects of endurance, stability, agility, mobility, flexibility, strength, and nutrition. By approaching fitness holistically and considering both physical and mental well-being, you can age gracefully and enjoy a higher quality of life as you embrace this new chapter. Remember, it's never too late to invest in your health and well-being, and your future self will thank you for the effort you put in today.

YOGA FOR MEN

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:29:35 GMT

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YOGA FOR MEN

Well, we all have to start somewhere (and it's a new year)– why not pluck up the courage and try something new.

My ‘moment’ started at work in the early ‘noughties when I (Tim) joined a corporate yoga class after work. It took a few years to get more into it – but it was a start. Yoga for men who are seem pretty daunting with so many things to remember; where to look, when to breathe, understand the sanskrit names of the poses and finally trying to figure out where the body is supposed to be.

The second moment came when I joined Shannon on a teacher training weekend, as a precursor to taking the Yoga Teacher Training back in 2015. Since qualifying in 2016 I have been teaching, initially part time, and now full time ever since.

Yoga Classes for Men

Initially, back in India when yoga started all those years ago, yoga poses and sequences were practiced by young men. It seems that as yoga moved westwards it became more the domain of women.

Increasingly more men are taking up yoga in any of its many guises: Power yoga, Strength yoga, ‘Broga’ or Bikram yoga.

In many cases, yoga is used to complement the ‘main’ sport of an individual and is positioned as fitness yoga.

Internationally recognised athletes such as Andy Murray, Ryan Giggs, LeBron James, Sachin Tendulkar regularly practice yoga, whilst rugby teams of both codes and football teams are integrating yoga into strength and conditioning programmes. You can read our blog on yoga for sports here .

Benefits of yoga for men

Improving balance
Building muscle toning and strength
Increased flexibility
Enhanced range of motion
Loosening the joints after a potentially sedentary day
Mental health benefits of reducing stress, anxiety, depression
Increased focus and concentration
Sleeping better
Potential weight loss
Prevent injuries

It’s important to remember that yoga is for everyone; It’s a matter of finding the yoga style, and a yoga teacher, that works for you.

Many men, myself included, started yoga with the intention of reaping the physical benefits of yoga. Undoubtedly, I am more flexible, have better balance but am also calmer and better at dealing with stressful situations. Learning breathing techniques, as part of my yoga practice, has undoubtedly been helpful.

We don’t exclusively offer yoga classes for men, but hope that as a teacher, I will help encourage more men to join our . In many of our classes there is a 50:50 split between men and women- so hopefully you’ll feel comfortable to enjoy your yoga class.

Alternatively, private one to one classes can also be arranged so that we can tailor the class to your specific needs.

TIPS TO GET BETTER SLEEP

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:27:23 GMT

Sleep - Quality and Quantity Counts

Whether you are young or old(er) getting enough sleep is a crucial part of our ability to listen, learn, grow, and socialise.

If getting to sleep can provide to be a struggle, perhaps there are a few things you can do to change your routine that will help you get to sleep more easily...

In the latest guest blog post from Helen Burgess, she shares key insights into the types of sleep we all have but also provides some great tips into establishing a routine to help us all sleep more easily and better. Unsurprisingly, as a dietian, Helen offers some sage advice as to what to eat, and not eat shortly before trying to get to sleep.

Getting enough (and the right) sleep helps!

There are 4 stages to a sleep cycle which lasts roughly 90 minutes.

STAGE1:

FALLING ASLEEP (non-REM) –this is a short stage, only lasting around 5 minutes. The brain starts to slow and the body often twitches.

STAGE2:

LIGHT (non-REM) – the body drops in temperature, muscles relax and breathing and heart rate slow. We spend around half the night in this stage.

STAGE3:

DEEP (non-REM) – heartrate and muscle tone relax even more. This is thought to be the most restorative stage of sleep during which the body recovers, repairs, grows, boosts the immune system, releases growth hormones and, crucially, when the brain detoxes and flushes out harmful toxins. We get more of this in the first half of the night.

STAGE4:

REM – rapid eye movement. This is the stage where most dreams happen. Brain activity picks up, the body goes into temporary paralysis of the muscles (apart from the eyes and breathing muscles). It is crucial stage for memory, learning and emotional regulation. We get more of this in the second half of the night.

Getting a good amount of sleep – particularly deep and REM – is therefore crucial for consolidating memories and solidifying the learning experiences of the day. It also helps with emotional regulation and boosting the immune system, both of which are tested a lot during the average day!

Top tips for supporting better sleep

There’s a lot we can do to help get a good night’s sleep:

1. Establish a regular bedtime around

‍ Stick to a regular bedtime of between to make sure you are logging enough hours – the aim should be around 8 hours..

2. Establish a consistent bedtime routine

‍ Such as a bath (especially one with Epsom salts in which are super relaxing for the body!), teeth and or read. The consistency is key as it signals to the brain that it is time to wind down.

3. No screens at least an hour before bed‍

The blue light they emit wreaks havoc with the brains ability to wind down. This is because it suppresses the body’s production of melatonin which is the hormone needed to fall asleep. Also important is to make sure no devices are left in the bedroom overnight – it can be tempting to reach out for it, or stay up late, so remove the temptation!

4. Keep the bedroom cool and dark ‍

The body’s temperature drops when it moves into stage 2 of sleep, so if the bedroom is too hot, it can affect this. Around 20c seems to be around the sort of temperature for optimal sleep. Whilst lots of children like night lights (ours certainly do) try to find calming dim lights, and a good set of curtains that don’t allow too much light in in the mornings (especially during the summer!)

5. Sleep inducing foods ‍

Foods containing an amino acid called tryptophan help the body to produce melatonin. Try to incorporate these foods into dinner or your kids last snack of the day: nuts, seeds, kiwi, cherries, bananas, chicken, fish, oats, beans, lentils, and eggs. Amazingly, pistachios have been found to have the highest levels of melatonin on the planet, so they are a brilliant (albeit expensive!) snack to introduce.

6. Sleep inhibiting foods ‍

Avoid stimulating foods and drinks before bed…anything with caffeine like fizzy drinks, chocolate, as well as high sugar foods like ice-cream, biscuits, sweets - the sugar in them increases insulin which has a bit impact on sleep

We find it works well to talk about the importance of sleep as a family and agree the routine and bedtime together.

Good luck and let us know if you have any questions or comments.

WELLBEING AND RECRUITMENT

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:25:04 GMT

Reducing Recruitment Costs with Wellbeing

How Wellbeing Programs at Work Can Reduce Recruitment Costs

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Recruitment costs are one of the major expenses for employers, especially in a competitive and dynamic labour market.

Finding, hiring and retaining qualified and talented employees can be challenging and costly, especially when there is a high turnover rate. One of the ways to reduce recruitment costs is to invest in wellbeing programmes at work that support the

Physical health
Mental wellbeing
Social health of employees

Wellbeing programmes can help employees prevent and manage health issues, cope with stress, improve their work-life balance and feel more engaged and valued at work.

What Are Wellbeing Programmes at Work?

Wellbeing programmes at work are a set of initiatives and activities that aim to improve the health and wellbeing of employees in the workplace. Wellbeing programmes can cover various aspects of wellbeing, such as:

Physical health: providing health screenings, coaching, education, incentives, policies and facilities that encourage employees to adopt healthy behaviours, such as eating well, exercising regularly, sleeping enough and avoiding smoking and alcohol abuse.
Mental health: raising awareness, reducing stigma, providing support and resources for employees who are experiencing mental health challenges, such as anxiety, depression or burnout.
Social health: fostering a positive and supportive work culture, promoting teamwork and collaboration, facilitating social events and activities, creating opportunities for feedback and recognition.
Financial health: offering financial education, guidance and assistance for employees who are struggling with money issues, such as debt, budgeting or saving.
Work-life balance: enabling flexible working arrangements, providing childcare support, encouraging employees to take breaks and holidays.

How Can Wellbeing Programmes Reduce Recruitment Costs?

Wellbeing programmes can reduce recruitment costs by addressing some of the main factors that influence employee turnover, such as:

Illness: a wellbeing programme can help employees prevent and manage chronic diseases, such as high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity and cardiovascular problems, that can lead to frequent or prolonged absences or disability.
Employees who are healthy and fit are more likely to stay in their jobs and perform better.
Stress: a wellbeing programme can help employees cope with stress and reduce its negative impact on their physical and mental health. Stress can cause or worsen various health conditions, such as headaches, insomnia, digestive problems, depression and anxiety. Employees who are less stressed and more resilient are more likely to stay in their jobs and perform better.
Motivation: a wellbeing programme can help employees feel more engaged and satisfied with their work, which can increase their loyalty and commitment to the organisation.
Employees who feel valued, appreciated and supported by their employer are less likely to look for other job opportunities or quit their job.
Productivity: a wellbeing programme can help employees improve their productivity and efficiency at work, which can increase their contribution and impact to the organisation.
Employees who are healthy, happy and focused are more likely to perform better and meet their goals.

In Summary

A wellbeing programme is not only beneficial but essential for reducing absenteeism at work. By investing in employee wellbeing, employers can save money, improve productivity, enhance reputation and attract talent. A wellbeing programme is not a one-time initiative but an ongoing commitment that requires leadership support, employee involvement and continuous improvement.

At My LIfe Tonic we like to work in partnership with our clients to support colleagues throughout the year with a series of activities scheduled throughout the year

Lunch & Learn sessions - covering topics such as 5 Pillars of Wellbeing, Mental Health, Establishing Lasting Habits
Desk yoga
'Mat Yoga'
Challenges
Wellbeing and Mental Health initiatives

4TH PILLAR OF WELLBEING

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:23:50 GMT

Giving (Or Volunteering)

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4 Reasons Why Giving Has A Positive Impact

Random acts of kindness have become popular, or had a lot of profile, in a social media world. They can have a positive impact of both the giver and the recipient; providing a sense of purpose and self worth. But there are so many way's to give - it could be time, advice or supporting a cause you feel particularly close to. In this post, I hope to outline the positive impact giving can have for the 'giver' and the recipient.

In case you were wondering why the rugby balls....I played rugby until just after University. Not to a particularly high level, but enjoyed it none the less and made some wonderful friends along the way. Our son now also plays rugby and has done since the age of 6. Helping to coach his age groups has been so satisfying- win, lose or draw - seeing the progress that is being made from chasing the ball in the early years to a more positional, structured and dare I say it - strategic game....

Research has consistently demonstrated that giving, whether through acts of kindness, charity, or volunteering, triggers a cascade of positive effects within our bodies and minds.

These effects are often referred to as the "helper's high." When we engage in giving, our brains release a cocktail of neurochemicals, including oxytocin and dopamine, which are associated with happiness, stress reduction, and a sense of connection with others.

It's also worth noting (again) that the the act of giving may also cross over to the other pillars such as Connecting with others, Being Physically Active or Learning.

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"No one has ever become poor from giving." ~Anne Frank

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1. Emotional Wellbeing

Giving is a direct route to emotional wellbeing. When we help someone in need or simply offer a smile to a stranger, we experience a sense of fulfilment and joy. This positive emotional feedback loop reinforces our intrinsic desire to give, creating a continuous cycle of happiness and contentment.

Acts of giving can also of the impact of boosting our self-esteem and self-worth. Knowing that we can make a positive impact on someone's life enhances our sense of purpose and validates our existence.

2. Building Stronger Relationships

Giving is a key attribute of healthy relationships. Whether in friendships, family, or romantic partnerships, acts of kindness and generosity nurture trust, empathy, and intimacy. When we offer support to our loved ones, we strengthen the bonds that hold our relationships together.

Not that you give to receive, however it does have the impact in that, giving encourages reciprocity. By extending a helping hand, we create a culture of kindness and cooperation, fostering an environment where others are more likely to support us when we need it.

3. Reducing Stress and Boosting Health

Interestingly, and perhaps surprisingly, giving can even improve our physical health. Studies have shown that individuals who engage in regular acts of altruism experience lower levels of stress, reduced blood pressure, and improved overall health. The stress-reducing effects of giving are particularly significant because chronic stress is a leading contributor to various health problems.

4. Finding Meaning and Purpose

Giving provides us with a sense of purpose. It allows us to contribute to something greater than ourselves and leave a lasting impact on the world. People who engage in philanthropy or volunteer work often report higher life satisfaction and a greater sense of fulfilment.

Cultivating a Giving Mindset

To fully embrace the pillar of giving for your wellbeing, consider the following tips:

Start Small: You don't need to make grand gestures to experience the benefits of giving. Small acts of kindness, like complimenting someone or holding the door, can have a big impact.
Volunteer: Dedicate some of your time to a cause you are passionate about. Volunteering is a powerful way to give back to the community while enhancing your own wellbeing.
Give what you can - be it your time, expertise, empathy or money
Practice Gratitude: Cultivate gratitude for the abundance in your life, and you'll naturally feel more inclined to share with others.
Be Present: When you give, be fully present. Listen actively, empathize, and engage with the person you're helping. Authentic connections deepen the sense of fulfilment.
Teach by Example: Encourage others to embrace giving by demonstrating its positive effects in your own life.

In conclusion, giving is not only an altruistic act but also a fundamental pillar of wellbeing. It enriches our emotional lives, strengthens our relationships, reduces stress, and fosters a sense of purpose. By making giving a central part of our lives, we can experience a profound and lasting sense of fulfilment and happiness that extends far beyond our own individual wellbeing. So, let's remember that giving isn't just about helping others; it's about helping ourselves find a deeper, more meaningful way to live.

An action may not be exclusively beneficial to any of the 5 pillars of wellbeing; more often than not you will notice a certain amount of crossover between the pillars. Similarly, the simple act of being there to listen to someone can be equally rewarding and support the mental health of an individual Ultimately, being able to 'give' or 'give back' can help provide a sense of connection with a community wherever you are.

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To recap you can read our previous blogs

MENTAL HEALTH AND BREATHWORK

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:23:04 GMT

Supporting Your Mental Health with Breathwork

Can breathwork help manage stress?

Stress and anxiety can be triggered by many different triggers in every day life. As our blogs have been outlining, there are various ways to manage them.

Breathwork is one such option.

Breathing exercises, or breathwork, can help create a relaxation response in both the mind and body by activating the parasympathetic nervous system (or the rest and digest system). Learning to breath deeply is key to generating the sense of relaxation.

When's a good time to do breathwork?

Each morning, try and establish a regular habit
Before a stressful situation, big meeting or presentation
At a regular time of the day - perhaps a commute
At the end of the day - it can help you relax before going to sleep

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The benefits of deep breathing (or breathwork)

Sleep better
Enhanced recovery from exercise
Improves focus
Manage stress
Cope with anxiety

There are several other breathwork sessions in our library, if you want to try some more, go our on-demand section and filter under 'Breathwork' in the Workout dropdown.

Similarly, there are several videos that outline the benefits of getting improved sleep (both quality and quantity).

As a reminder, Life Tonics are small changes you can make in your everyday life; they needn't cost much and can be integrated into your daily routine. We hope you find our Life Tonics helpful and make a difference to how you are feeling and your mental health.

ABSENTEEISM AT WORK

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:22:16 GMT

How Wellbeing Programmes Can Reduce Absenteeism at Work

Absenteeism at work is a serious problem that costs employers billions of pounds each year.

The impact of absenteeism with the business can be felt in several ways

Lost productivity of the trained employee
Increased costs of temporary staff
Reduced productivity of the temporary staff
Sick pay costs

Absenteeism can also affect the morale, performance and wellbeing of the remaining employees who have to cope with increased workloads and stress.

With the disruption and costs associated with absenteeism, establishing a wellbeing program is one way to help address the issue.

Reducing Absenteeism At Work

One of the most effective ways to reduce absenteeism at work is to implement a wellbeing program that supports the physical, mental and social health of employees.

A wellbeing program can help employees prevent and manage health issues, cope with stress, improve their work-life balance and feel more engaged and valued at work.

What Is a Wellbeing Program?

A wellbeing program is a set of initiatives and activities that aim to improve the health and wellbeing of employees in the workplace.

A wellbeing program can cover various aspects of wellbeing, such as:

Physical health

Providing health screenings, coaching, education, incentives, policies and facilities that encourage employees to adopt healthy behaviours, such as eating well, exercising regularly, sleeping enough and avoiding smoking and alcohol abuse.

Mental health

Raising awareness, reducing stigma, providing support and resources for employees who are experiencing mental health challenges, such as anxiety, depression or burnout.

Social health

Fostering a positive and supportive work culture, promoting teamwork and collaboration, facilitating social events and activities, creating opportunities for feedback and recognition.

Financial health

Offering financial education, guidance and assistance for employees who are struggling with money issues, such as debt, budgeting or saving.

Work-life balance

Enabling flexible working arrangements, providing childcare support, encouraging employees to take breaks and holidays.

How Can a Wellbeing Program Reduce Absenteeism?

A wellbeing program can reduce absenteeism by addressing some of the main causes and consequences of employee absence, such as:

Illness

A wellbeing program can help employees prevent and manage chronic diseases, such as high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity and cardiovascular problems, that can lead to frequent or prolonged absences.

Stress

A wellbeing program can help employees cope with stress and reduce its negative impact on their physical and mental health. Stress can cause or worsen various health conditions, such as headaches, insomnia, digestive problems, depression and anxiety

Motivation

A wellbeing program can help employees feel more engaged and satisfied with their work, which can increase their attendance and performance. Employees who feel valued, appreciated and supported by their employer are less likely to take sick leave or quit their job.

Productivity

A wellbeing program can help employees improve their productivity and efficiency at work, which can reduce the workload and pressure on their colleagues. Employees who are healthy, happy and focused are more likely to perform better and meet their deadlines

In Summary

A wellbeing program is not only beneficial but essential for reducing absenteeism at work. By investing in employee wellbeing, employers can save money, improve productivity, enhance reputation and attract talent. A wellbeing program is not a one-time initiative but an ongoing commitment that requires leadership support, employee involvement and continuous improvement.

At My Life Tonic we like to work in partnership with our clients to support colleagues throughout the year with a series of activities scheduled throughout the year

Lunch & Learn sessions
Desk yoga
'Mat Yoga'
Challenges
Wellbeing and Mental Health initiatives

MEDITATE FOR MENTAL HEALTH

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:20:58 GMT

Look After Your Mental Health - Try Meditating

De-stress (and relax) with mediation

Meditation is an exercise that has been practiced for thousands of years, but has increasingly been adopted in modern life as a way of coping with stress and helping people relax.

If you've been feeling tense, worried or anxious then maybe meditation could help. In case you need convincing, we've listed 10 benefits of mediation below.

‍Meditation - enabling emotional and physical wellbeing

10 benefits of meditation

Gaining a new perspective on stressful situations
Building skills to manage your stress
Increasing self-awareness
Focusing on the present
Reducing negative emotions
Increasing imagination and creativity
Increasing patience and tolerance
Lowering resting heart rate
Lowering resting blood pressure
Improving sleep quality

10 Tips for 'finding the time' to mediate

Remember, you can meditate anywhere and at anytime- the tips below should help you to find what works for you.

Find a quiet place
Try to sit outside if weather allows
Sit comfortably
Observe your thoughts (it’s ok if you think the whole time)
See if you can detach yourself from the thoughts (your thoughts needn’t define you)
See if you can focus on one thing
Breathing is the most popular one as you are already doing it and the mind can focus on it
Give yourself a break, try not to push the thoughts away or force stillness
Keep practicing each day, build the minutes up slowly, get into the habit
Allow yourself to get bored, it is a bit boring, but how do you grow and improve without a bit of work

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As part of on demand videos there are a number of guided meditations that you can try as part of the £10 monthly subscription. Why not give it try?

SUMMER IN THE MOUNTAINS

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:20:19 GMT

Active Summer Holidays in the Mountains

This blog is not meant to be a comprehensive guide to each of the resorts featured, but is based what we were able to do in each of the mountain resorts whilst we were there with friends this summer.

If nothing else, it may give you some ideas of the range of things you can do in mountain resorts that you may not have consIdered before. Personally, I think we will go back to the mountains in the summer again for sure.

One thing to note; we found the weather forecast apps provided a guide only, but were often not 100% accurate for the local area. We found that plans are best to be kept flexible and fluid to make the most of your time. With that in mind, I would have bought full access to lifts, or bike rental, for the duration of my stay in each resort to save time and money.

Mountain biking features pretty heavily in our activities, mostly as Max is such a keen rider, whilst Shannon and I play catch up. Each resort (and lift for that matter) tend to get the bikes to the top of the mountain in slightly different ways using the ski lifts. It takes a bit of getting used to but essentially it allows you to spend more time going downhill than up!

We hope you find it helpful, if you are looking to spend some time in the mountains at some point - being as active or relaxed as you like.

Meribel-Mottaret, Les 3 Vallees - France

The village is part of the 3Valles ski area at the top of the central valley. Due to it's central location it's perfectly positioned to explore all 3 vallies be it by bike, e-bike or walking.

I'd not been to the resort for almost 20 years, when from memory it felt very quiet. Visiting this year, there certainly seemed to be more going on for families and those wanting to be more active. It feels that the resort is good for those wanting to get into the mountains and enjoy a more relaxed type of holiday.

Things to do in Meribel-Mottaret ‍

Via Ferrata - fantastic if not slightly frightening, but an amezing experience for those wanting to test themsleves. A wonderful view over Courcheval for lunch. A great day out - loved it!
Mountain biking - hired bikes, helmet and protection from central Mottaret for either full or half day (89 or 69 Euros for a mountiain bike)
Walking - using the open chair lifts to get higher or walking around the Lake Tueda and up into the national park
Other activities available included tennis, volleyball, boules, cinema, table tennis for those wanting to keep active
Lower down in Meribel there's more to do with indoor swimming pool, golf, ice skating rink, horse back riding and there's a more vibrant shopping area than in Mottaret
The Tour de France also passed through the area this year so it's worth keeping an eye out if it does so again in the future

The local tourist board was really helpful in making bookings so certainly worth contacting them. It felt that the Mottaret offers a lower key summer mountain holiday than those in Morzine; in some ways, not dissimilar to Nendaz but set in a quieter village rather than a town.

Morzine, Portes du Soleil - France

We only spent a few days in Morzine but there certainly is a more up beat vibe that you tend to experience in ski resorts in the winter. If you are really keen on a wide range of mountain bike trails, then this would be the place to come. I suspect there is more of an apres ski feel in the evening too.

Thinks to do in Morzine

Swimming - Open Water - Lake Montriand is a gem; a lovely place to walk around and also to swim in for FREE...which is always nice
Swimming - Open Air Pool - laps in the open air 25m pool if you fancy a workout
Paddlie boarding - Lake Montriand - a lovely setting to paddleboard
Tennis / Paddle - I loved playing Paddle for the first time with friends
Mountain biking - there's so much choice - see below. This is a resort that lives / breathes mountain biking in the summer. We popped into a shop and hired a bike really quickly and easily.
Horse back riding - one our younger members of the group spent a number of days riding horses throughout the summer and had a great time
Water Park - Les Gets Leisure - we didn't manage to go to due to the weather but we've heard good reviews
Mooching in town - there's lots to do in the town

Nendaz, 4 Vallees - Switzerland

We spent a week in Nendaz and loved the vibe and options of things to do for whole family from time in a spa, down hill scootering and mountain biking to surfing and open water swimming in Sion.

Things to do in Nendaz

Swimming - Open Water - swimming in Sion Lake ( Domaines de Iles ) - 1km in length and for free. It was lovely and suprisingly warm wiht a choice of restaurants and bars on site (be careful where you park - they seemed to give out tickets to international registration cars)
Swimming - Open Air Pool - 25 meters just off the main square to get some laps in
Surfing at Alaia Chalet - awesome fun if you get the right waves. In hindsight perhaps our wave was too big for us, but lots of fun for £100 per hour session
Alaia Skatepark - the boys had a great morning there when the weather looked a bit dodgy, spending time indoors on the trampolines
Scootering from Sivez - for those not keen on biking this was a great family / group option
Tennis - just next to the swimming pool. It seemed pretty easy to book with reasonable availability
Walking - either getting Le Tracouet or lifts from Sivez to get some height to explore some of the paths
Walking along the Bessi's - the local irrigation channels around the mountains
Zip Wire from Mont Fort - unfortunately it was closed when we had planned to do it but the views were worth with, as was lunch at the restaurant at the top!
The Hotel Nendaz has a relaxing spa for those wanting to chill out - we had a lovely few hours there - though wish we'd had more time to enjoy the pools, sauna's along with cold water plunge pool and cold room
1st August is Swiss National Day so the town laid on traditional dancing and light show which provided a fun evening

We stayed at @chalet_aurore - a 5 minute walk from the main cable car - La Tracouet. If you'd like to book it visit the Instagram page and contact the owner directly.

If you have a week in Nendaz, I'd rent a bike and get a pass for a week - as it's more economical and convenient to do so (and would avoid the expense at Verbier)

WELLNESS AT WORK

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:18:08 GMT

The Importance of Wellness Programs at Work

Wellness at work is not just a buzzword or a trend.

It is a vital aspect of creating a healthy, productive and engaged workforce. Wellness at work encompasses physical, mental and social well-being, and involves providing employees with the support, resources and opportunities they need to thrive in their work environment.

Looking after both the physical and mental health of colleagues is such a focus for organisations in today's environment; it begs the question - can you afford NOT to have a wellness program for your colleagues.

At My Life Tonic we like to support organisations throughout the year with a series of regular activities from workshops, live yoga or desk yoga classes, email series on specific subject areas to running challenges for the colleagues to take part in.

Why Wellness at Work Matters

Wellness at work matters for both employees and employers.

For employees, wellness at work can improve their health, happiness, motivation, performance and retention.

For employers, wellness at work can reduce costs, increase productivity, enhance reputation and attract talent.

Benefits of Wellness Programs at work

According to research, and with 52% of U.S. companies offering wellness programs here are some of broader benefits

72% of employers saw a reduction in healthcare costs after implementing a wellness program.
The average return on investment (ROI) for employee wellness programs is six-to-one.
Reduced absenteeism by 14-19%.
About 87% of employees consider health and wellness offerings when choosing an employer
More than 68% of employers prioritize well-being as a business objective.

Of employers offering wellness programs have also found

67% reported increased employee satisfaction
66% reported increased productivity
63% reported increased financial sustainability and growth
50% reported decreased absenteeism.

How to Promote Wellness at Work

Promoting wellness at work requires a holistic and strategic approach that addresses the health risks and needs of the workforce.

Some of the best practices for promoting wellness at work include

Conducting a wellness needs assessment to identify the current state of employee health and well-being, as well as the gaps and opportunities for improvement.
Developing a wellness vision, mission and goals that align with the organizational culture and values, and communicate them clearly to all stakeholders.
Designing and implementing a comprehensive wellness program that covers various dimensions of well-being, such as physical activity, nutrition, mental health, stress management, social connection and work-life balance.
Engaging employees in wellness activities, such as challenges, events, workshops, webinars and peer support groups.
Evaluating and measuring the outcomes and impact of the wellness program on employee health and well-being, as well as organizational performance and profitability.

Wellness programs - in summary

Wellness at work is not only beneficial but essential for creating a healthy, productive and engaged workforce. By investing in employee well-being, employers can reap significant rewards in terms of cost savings, productivity gains, reputation enhancement and talent attraction.

Wellness at work is not a one-time initiative but an ongoing commitment that requires leadership support, employee involvement and continuous improvement.

At My Life Tonic, our aim is to support organisations and their staff with a range of initiatives that will support both their physical wellbeing as well as their mental health.

ESTABLISH NEW HABITS

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:17:19 GMT

Establishing New Habits

...Lasting Habits

Making a change can be overwhelming and daunting.

The fear of 'failure' (whatever that may be) can delay if not prevent us from even trying to make the change in the first place. Often taking the first step in the new direction can feel the hardest; be it starting a new hobby, changing what we do or even how we do it. When tend to start something new, we are often full of enthusiasm, excitement and determination.

How long goes this last?

Speaking from experience, it's easy to get demotivated when perhaps you don't see the results as quickly as you'd like.

Creating lasting habits

Quick question - how long have you been able to maintain your New Year's resolutions?

Learning a new language
Exercising every day
Starting a new diet
Daily journaling

...are just a few examples of all the well intentioned changes we want to make but have never quite managed to do.

Stop here if you are looking for a quick fix.

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Setting Goals

Sometimes we create a goal to achieve to help keep the mind focused and motivation levels high - like getting ready for our wedding, completing a sporting event are just two examples. I certainly remember training for various events with lots of enthusiasm and then failing to put the running shoes back on for a few months. (Granted - sometimes it's good to take a break to rest and recover- but it can be easy to leave the shoes by the door that little bit longer).

Increasingly in the today's society we are encouraged to set SMART goals (Specific, Measurable, Assignable, Realistic, Timely).

As with the examples above, (the wedding and completing an event) - what next?

Does the completing the event give you a long lasting sense of achievement or do you need the next thing? Doesn't it begin to feel like a treadmill - moving from one event to another or even one promotion to another in the context of work?

When is enough enough or to the goal posts keep moving. If they keep moving - then at what point can we reach the point of satisfaction?

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Perhaps there is a different way?

Now don't get me wrong - we love a challenge but recently the process has become more important than the goal.

For example

As a family we are learning French online with an App - we are more interested about our daily progress / streak than passing an exam (though I'd like to think it will help Max as he heads towards his GCSE's in a few years)
Doing events is more about the community and sharing the experience such as completing Obstacle Course Races with the people we have trained with
Entering SwimRun's as a way to visit somewhere new and explore as a family

Our mindset has certainly changes in recent years . It's not about the goal but what we believe our identity is- outdoor, healthy and adventurous rather than a triathlete (just an example).

I've also found it helpful in that the identity has moved from an sporting endeavour to a lifestyle one that includes being more mindful about my diet.

At My Life Tonic we offer a wide range of ways for people to find what works for them- be it make small changes to their routine that makes them move towards their own identity.

Our 31 Day 10 Minute Challenges, 4 Week Tone Up Challenge, yoga, meditation, desk yoga and breathwork through to journaling, staying hydrated or even cold water become part of the framework and process rather than the end goal.

As everyone is different, then what works for some, may not work for others - that's why we like to offer a wide variety of options.

I guess the main question should really be...

How do you make habits stick?

Ultimately, I think that is the million dollar question isn't it - as we all want to make changes to improve our everyday life (what ever that may be for you).

A few observations

Try to make the habits as automatic as possible
Be patient
A small action each day will have a compound interest over time
The most important thing is to do 'the action' every day
Never miss 2 days in a row
Be flexible - if you have to tweak your routine to make it easier then do so
Daily habits can be either good or bad in the effect they have. We need to acknowledge these habits and continue or stop habits

Life Tonics or habits are the foundations to achieving long term results.

Establishing an effective system, that works for you, will enable you maintain the habits you want to become part of your daily routine.

Oh - and bye the way - in the opening sentence I mentioned the 'fear of failure' - if the process or framework is established - there really isn't a failure. You are still, 'a runner,' even if you didn't get the time you wanted in whatever event you did. As a runner (something that you may refer to yourself as) you ultimately just need to get out and run - it doesn't matter how long or fast you go - if you get out your are a runner.

Over the next few months, keep an eye out for further updates and thoughts about how to start and create long lasting habits.

FAMILY HALF TERM - MAY

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:16:28 GMT

May half term beckons......

‍...and I am reminded of a wonderful holiday in north Wales 4 years ago.

Where does time go (a lot has happened over the last 4 years it has to be said).....

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Glamping at @tyfamaugeolodges

It was so lovely to stay here and use the 'pods' as our base for our time in North Wales....the wood fires, wood fired hot tub in the lovely setting was ideal for us. Sleeping 4 people - there was so much space for the 3 of us.

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Zip wiring and trampolining underground at @zip_world

An active day out with the zip wire course to go on and get great views of the valley and old quarries. The underground trampolines helped us get a sweat up and to use any excess energy that we may have had. What a great way to use the old mines...

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Getting lost hiking (somewhere near Ruthin)

Not quite sure how we managed to find our way off the track but it was fun none the less. The Jubilee Monument was built for the previous jubilee of 'Mad King George' back in 1810 - it was no mean feat to build all those years back!

Stopping at Llangollen

Just a lovely place to stop on the road and to chill by the river. Many years ago I had a long weekend in the town doing similar activities to those at Betws-y-Coed.

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‍ Canyoning in Betws-y-Coed

We loved this! Fortunately there was only 3 of us in our group so we had a lot of attention from our guide as he took us down the narrow stream gorges. The town feels like a main center of all activity style things to do - sort of like Queenstown in NZ (but on a smaller scale). There seemed to be loads of different things to do using the town as a base.

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Yoga outside - watched by the cows

Well - we couldn't go away without some yoga in between all the activities. The cows seems to find it amusing.

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Exploring Conwy Castle

Wandering around the town and the castle was such a treat. We also found some great restaurants to sit and chill in - not far from Betws-y-Coed and worth a visit and some civilization.

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Fingers crossed whatever you have planned works out for you.

Have a great half term and see you online in a few weeks!

What’s your tonic?

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DIGITAL DE-TOX

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:15:23 GMT

Do You Need a Digital De-Tox?

First and foremost, technology has enabled so many positive interactions in both work and personal situations.

However, when does technology become too much?

We also need to appreciate that technology is an integral part of all our lives - so finding ways to do it sensibly, similar to our diets for example, is an important part of our daily routine - for adults and our future generations. (In fact it may be more important to establish sustainable long term routines for our children as technology will be an ever present factor in their lives).

When we think of technology usage we should consider more than just our phones, but also ipads, laptops, TV's and time spent gaming.

Why you may need to digitally detox

Too much technology could be having the following impact

Affect your sleep - both quality and quantity
Reduce the amount of exercise you do
Mean you spend less time socialising with friends and family face to face
Experiencing issues concentrating
Impaired emotional and social resilience

Tech Addiction is linked to depression and anxiety.

Technology can undoubtedly help keep friends and family connected if they live far apart and can also facilitate social interactions in some instances (in COVID lockdown in our case as a family).

Ultimately, if you think your work or personal life, finances or social interactions are affected by your time on technology - then you are probably spending too much time on it.

Quitting social media has, for example been seen to have a positive impact when trying to manage stress and anxiety whilst also improving mood and sleep.

Is reaching the phone the 1st or last thing you do each day?

Is a detox something I should think about?

Do you do any or some of the following...

Reach for your phone first thing in the morning
Compare yourself with others on social media
Does looking at your phone give you anxiety?
Do you answer work emails in family time
Have to phone with you when eating
Miss parts of plays, films or conversations as you are on the phone
Allow notifications wake you up?
Miss deadlines as you've spent too much time online
Can not sit alone - without having the phone with you

Tips on how to digitally detox

A bit like coffee or alcohol - maybe cutting back rather than stopping all together is more realistic. Similarly, reducing your tech use may be more realistic

Know how much time you spend on technology - our phones can provide this information
Set limits on various social media platforms and apps
Schedule time away or 'offline' throughout the day
Take breaks away from technology - maybe start with a half day and then a full day - see how it goes
Delete apps that you spend / waste too much time on
Downgrade your phone - so that it only makes calls or texts
Turn off /on at specific times each day
Don't take the phone to certain rooms - like the bedroom

PHYSICAL BENEFITS OF COLD WATER

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:14:10 GMT

Cold Water Swimming - The Benefits

Some people have loved the idea of cold water swimming for years - from both a mental health and physical wellbeing perspective for a while now.

Increasingly the benefits are being clearly understood, and shared, so that more people can benefit from doing it.

Personally, Shannon and I have been keen open water swimmers since around early 2004. In hindsight, our interaction was more open water swimming (though it felt cold at the time) as we were getting into triathlons, rather than cold water. One thing to note, it is so important from a safety viewpoint, to get used to colder water, rather than going straight in. In away, we had an long climatization period getting used to cold water.

As proud owners of an 'urban ice bath,' 2 half whisky barrels and regular dippers in a local lake through the year, I think we classify ourselves as cold water swimmers.

8 Physical Health Benefits of Cold Water

Full body workout

As with any other form of swimming, it's a full body workout; using upper and lower body, along with engaging the core, whilst also having to control your breathing.

Burns calories

The heart has to work harder when doing both exercise (swimming) and also warming up the body when it is in cold water. You'll burn more calories swimming in cold water than you do in warm water.

Circulation

By getting into cold water, it helps the body to flush the veins, arteries, capillaries as blood raises to the surface of the skin to warm the extremities. Shannon has found this benefit of particular benefit.

Improved libido

Cold water actually boosts the libido as cold water stimulates the production of estrogen and testosterone adding to both fertility and libido.

Boosts your immune system

Over time, the body gets more efficient at reacting to the cold water - improvements can occur after 6 dips in the cold water). Cold water stimulates boosts the count of white blood cells in response to the changing environmental conditions. Open water swimmers rarely tend to get sick.

Ease symptoms of menopause

Ongoing research suggest that cold water can ease some of the affects of menopause such as; hot flushes, headaches, night sweats, anxiety, difficulty sleeping, reduced libido, vaginal dryness and memory loss.

Improves skin and hair health

Improved circulation and the flushing of veins, arteries and capillaries forces blood to the skin and pushes the cold downwards. Repeated exposure therefore improves the body's response to the cold and enhances the health of both hair and skin.

Weight loss

As the body gets more efficient at dealing with cold water, it is able to generate heat more quickly; increasing the metabolism of an individual. More 'brown fat' is created when in cold water and acts as the engine for fat burning by generating more heat and using other fat stores in the body.

Interested to find out more - why not try some of previous blogs

You can also find out more about Cold Water on our website.

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YOGA FOR MENTAL HEALTH

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:13:30 GMT

Yoga For Mental Health

After a yoga class many people often share that they feel relaxed, calmer and sleep better afterwards. Similarly, I was speaking to a taxi driver, who wasn’t into yoga himself but observed that he always saw people smiling when they came out of a yoga studio. When else do you ever get an hour to yourself, where you don’t need to be anywhere “but here”.

If joining a yoga class can have these positive effects you’d like to think everyone would be doing it, either joining a class at a local yoga studio, following an on demand yoga class or streaming a live class online.

One of the challenges with articulating the impact a class can have, is that it can be dependent on so many variables –

How were you feeling before the class?
Was the style of yoga ‘right’ for you
Were appropriate modifications given for you
Did you like the teacher?
Were you made to feel comfortable in the class environment?

Yoga and Mental Health

Yoga poses are not in themselves the reason why people generally have a positive feeling after a or (or any other style of for that matter).

Perhaps anxiety and stress can be caused by feeling out of control and unable to influence or control the situation you are in, or think you are in.

Throughout our yoga practice, whatever style of yoga you try or enjoy, a major focus of a yoga sequence is to be present at that moment. This is, in part, achieved by combining yoga poses, with breathing and the gaze; not forgetting the engagement of the bandhas. With so many things to concentrate it’s not surprising that you don’t have the ability to think about other things in your life.

The majority of any class is spent focusing on various yoga stretches, breathing and gazes. When you get to the final pose, Savasana, you should be at the point of relaxation. Even if you are pressed for time, please do try and stay through the Savasana. Even if you can’t stay until the end, make sure you stop early and take 2 minutes releasing the muscles on your own. It’s so important to allow your body to “absorb” the benefits by being still.

In this respect, yoga provides a moving meditation, helping us stay in the present moment – not worrying about what happened in the past or what will happen in the future. Some may call this yoga mindfulness.

Does Yoga Help With Anxiety and Stress?

Practicing yoga for anxiety or stress in itself is unlikely to be the sole cure for people trying to deal with these issues – but I believe it will certainly help.

Allowing yourself to step on the mat for a yoga class for a period of time, and to finish with a savasana, helps take yourself away, albeit briefly, from the issues that may be causing the stress and anxiety. In your state of relaxation you may even find a perspective you haven’t considered before.

Meditation is yoga

Whether it is during the class or outside the class, meditation is the tool for calming the mind. During class, it comes in many forms:

Beginning of class to ground ourselves
During the class when focusing on your breathing
In Savasana (the final reclined pose)

It can also be done on it’s own. Start off with a few minutes and work towards extending that time each day. Meditation is one of the best habits to start!

Looking after your mental health

Remember – yoga isn’t about the poses (and posts on Instagram) it’s a dynamic meditation that helps clear the mind through movement, breathing and gaze

A is one way to remain present, mindful and conscious of our thoughts and feelings. As you practice more, hopefully more of the calmness, wellbeing and queues to remain present help you off the mat.

REASONS TO REDUCE CAFFEINE

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:12:42 GMT

15 Reasons To Reduce Caffeine

At My Life Tonic we like to suggest making small changes to our daily lives that can make a difference.

Now, like most of us, we enjoy a good cup of coffee in the morning. It's not about giving up things you enjoy but being aware of what we do. Maybe reducing the amount of caffeine, be it in tea, coffees, fizzy or energy drinks we have, can have a positive impact.

Whilst coffee and tea have positive antioxidant properties, other sources of caffeine, like fizzy or energy drinks or processed are less healthy; with added sugar (natural or processed) as well as preservatives. In this blog, we aim to share considerations as to why it is helpful to be aware of your caffeine intake.

Benefits of reducing your caffeine intake

Lower your blood pressure - reducing your blood pressure means that your heart is working less hard. Caffeine can have the impact of raising your blood pressure a few points.
Sleep better - linking to our previous blogs on the importance of sleep- if reducing caffeine helps you sleep better then it's worth thinking about. Perhaps think about only drinking caffeine in the morning as it can stay in the body for between 4-6 hours. If sleep is your main focus, then you need not have to give up caffeine but be aware when you are drinking it.
Improved mood - if you feel grumpy in the morning before your coffee or tired in the afternoon (when the caffeine is beginning to wear off) - then maybe caffeine is affecting your mood; creating highs and lows. Reducing your dependence on caffeine can help you have a more stable mood.
Reducing anxiety - caffeine stimulates the adrenal gland that can cause increased anxiety. If anxiety is something that affects you, this maybe on step to help the way you are feeling.
Suffer from headaches or migraines? Caffeine can be a trigger for either headaches or migraines. Along with the consideration that if you are dehydrated then this can also increase the onset of headaches or migraines. Feels like a bit of a double whammy doesn't it?
Convenience - caffeine can make you want to go to the bathroom more often as it softens the smooth tissue of the colon - causing it to contract. Less visits to the bathroom can make travelling or meetings more comfortable.
Weight loss - caffeine is rarely taken calorie free - unless you drink black tea or coffee. Whether it's fizzy drinks or coffee with added milk, extra hazelnut or caramel shots (it's hard to keep up with all the different variations that are available1)- it's easy to see where the extra calories are added.
Improved absorbing of nutrients - the tannins in caffeine can reduce the ability of the body to absorb nutrients such as calcium, iron and B vitamins.
Healthier teeth - the acids in caffeine cause the enamel to decay, whilst visually both coffee and tea stain our teeth.
Reduced risk of Type 2 diabetes - relating to the above point, reducing the sugar intake will reduce the risk of diabetes.
'Getting the buzz' from caffeine, over time you will need more to get the same feeling - so you may end up having more caffeine with the associated costs, mood swings and anxiety...
The jitters - I certainly remember times when I've had the jitters - both in terms of shaky hands but also jitters in terms of feeling less confident in making good decisions.
Look after your heart - caffeine can make the heart beat with more forceful contractions which can be a concern for those with underlying heart conditions.
Breaking an addiction - caffeine is addictive, so feeling you 'need' it every day to 'work' isn't a great place to be in. Although considered moderately addictive, people can become dependent on it, and any form of dependence isn't great.
Think how much you could save - how many coffees do you buy a day and how much does that cost per month? If cost is an issue, but you want to wean yourself off coffee slowly, are there cheaper ways to enjoy your coffee (make it at home, instant coffee may be just two options). With a cost of living squeeze this factor may become more prominent as a way to help reduce your spend.

If you choose to stop drinking caffeine altogether, you are likely to feel withdrawal symptoms for a few days, such as; headaches, fatigue, irritability or restlessness. None of which should be severe enough to stop you from going about your daily routine.

To reduce the symptoms make sure to stay hydrated, get lots of sleep and wean yourself off caffeine slowly. To boost your energy levels naturally try to do some more exercise and eat nutrient rich foods.

We still enjoy a good cup of coffee, but are conscious to limit the amount we have and are also aware that keeping hydrated, getting good sleep and not allowing 'extra' calories to creep into our diet.

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MENTAL HEALTH BENEFITS OF COLD WATER

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:11:48 GMT

Mental Health Benefits of Cold Water Swimming

Some people have loved the idea of cold water swimming for years - from both a mental health and physical wellbeing perspective for a while now.

Increasingly the benefits are being clearly understood, and shared, so that more people can benefit from doing it.

As proud owners of an 'urban ice bath,' 2 half whisky barrels and regular dippers in a local lake through the year, I think we classify ourselves as cold water swimmers.

Improves peoples mood

Mood improvements come from the initial 'shock' when the body releases adrenalin around the body in reaction to the cold water. Glucose and fats are released into the blood, your blood pressure rises and heart rates increases as the body creates energy to enable the 'fight or fly' response of the sympathetic nervous system. Triggered by the cold water, the brain also releases hormones to cope with pain relief and also a sense of euphoria

Over time your body gets used to the cold - in that the stress response to the cold can halved after only 6 cold water sessions.

This reaction can also make you less reactive to stress.

Helping to manage depression

Inflammation, is a response of the body when it is preparing for injury or fighting an infection. Chronic inflammation is also associated with people suffering with depression. Research has shown that people taking anti inflammatory medication with anti depressants experienced reduced levels of depression in comparison to taking anti depressants alone.

Physical wellbeing!

Physical activity in itself has a positive impact in people's mental health as well as physical health. Swimming (in a pool or in open water) offers a low impact, full body workout for arms, shoulders, legs and core - whilst having to maintain and control your breathing.

Social interaction

If people are suffering with mental health one of the suggestions is to get out in the open air and socialise with other like minded people and share positive experiences. With more and more lakes open year round, more people are getting in the cold water year round. (We also invite friends over to share our cold water tubs - though we have a limited uptake sometimes!).

Ecotherapy

Spending time in nature, and the fresh air, helps people to get away from the everyday stresses of life. When you add an element of cold water (and potentially physical exercise), you can 'get the most' from your time. Spending time in nature, observing what is around you helps to stay present and mindful that can help you for the rest of the day.

Obviously it's important to do your open water safely - be it in the shower, the bath, a tub outside, in local lakes, rivers or the sea.

We'll be sharing safety tips for cold water in another post.

Interested to find out more - why not try some of previous blogs

You can also find out more about Cold Water on our website.

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IMPORTANCE OF SLEEP

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:10:19 GMT

Why Getting Enough Sleep is Important

We spend roughly 1/3rd of our day doing it, it's as natural as eating, drinking and breathing - but why is it important to make sure we are getting enough of it?

It's recommended that we get 7-8 hours of sleep a day.

But like most things, it's as much about the quality of our sleep as well as the quantity. It's estimated around 30% of the UK population will at some point in the year struggle with sleeping issues. Unfortunately the proportion of people suffering with sleeping issues is increasing in the UK; which isn't necessarily a surprise considering all the uncertainly we have all be experiencing over the last few years from the pandemic and economic uncertainty.

Perhaps more than ever, getting enough sleep has become important for both our own mental and physical wellbeing.

Benefits of a good night's sleep

Getting enough sleep can have a positive impact on

Physical performance - Improved sense of accuracy, speed and reaction time
Mental health - Enhanced memory, concentration and productivity

If these are some of the benefits of sleeping, it certainly makes it being worth something we should focus on.

As with many of our LifeTonic's, small inremental changes can make a difference to our daily life; without having to spend more money to achieve positive results.

Risk of not getting enough sleep

Reduced motivation to exercise
Increased risk of weight gain
Enhanced risk of heart disease or stroke
Likelihood of suffering from mental health issues such as depression
Reduced ability to notice emotional queues around you
More susceptible to picking up colds and coughs in the winter

Tips to help you get more or better sleep

Expose yourself to natural sunlight throughout the day
Fit in some exercise in during the day (not too close to going to bed)
Get into a routine of when you wake up or go to sleep
Set the room temperature of around 20 degrees in the bedroom
Have a hot bath (or shower) before going to bed to relax the mind and body
Do something to relax before going to bed; reading, listen to a podcast for example
Reduce your caffeine after lunchtime
Alcohol may help you get to sleep, but it can reduce the quality of the sleep
Turn your 'blue' screen off before going to bed - leave the phone, ipad or laptop downstairs
Don't eat too late so the body isn't trying to process the food whilst you are trying to get to sleep

I'm sure you have come across many of the tips above, but hope they will act as a prompt or a reminder for you.

Try out some of the tips above and find out what works best for you.

Have a great night's sleep!

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(I appreciate that none of us probably look like this when we are sleeping, but I was not given permission to show Shannon sleeping on the blog!)

TIPS ON DIGITAL DE-TOXING

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:08:44 GMT

Digital De-Tox - Do We Need It?

Do we really need to detox? What's the issue?

Did you know that on average we spend almost 7 hours per day on digital devices. I appreciate that many people are desk based, however 7 hours is a lot of time!

In a previous blog, we outlined some of the impacts of spending too much time our phones, other digital devices and social media. In this blog, we aim to provide some practical tips on how to detox.

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Detoxing a stepped approach

Start with the small steps

Unfollow or de friend people who make you feel bad about yourself
Remove apps that don't make you feel good
Unsubscribe from email newsletters you don't read
Leave social media groups you are no longer interested in
Delete contacts from your phone
Think about things you enjoy offline....and plan to do them

Break negative habits

Don't take your phone to the table
Do 3 things in the morning before you look at your phone
Or don't look at your phone for an hour after you get up
Turn off notifications on your phone
Put your phone down for an hour each day (and don't check!)
Get outside in the fresh air
Don't check your phone an hour before you go to bed
Sit in a public place without your phone
Read a physical book, not an online one
Go for a walk (or any exercise) without your phone or technology
Don't charge your phone for a few days

Maintaining the new habits

Extend time away from the phone throughout the day
Don't look at the phone until later in the morning
Create a longer phone free window before going to bed
Set specific time limits on social media platforms

If you think a digital detox would be helpful, give a few of these tips a go and see how it feels.

Creating new habits, instigating change, can take several weeks so you be patient.

To track how you feel and if you notice any changes, why not try journaling so you see any potential changes.

5 PILLARS OF WELLBEING

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:07:52 GMT

Wellbeing Explained

5 Pillars of Wellbeing

Looking after the wellbeing of friends, family and colleagues is something we hear a lot about in modern life. But what makes up 'wellbeing'?

Before we can even try to look after or improve someone's wellbeing, it's important to understand what the different components of wellbeing actually are.

As with the Tonics we like to share at My Life Tonic, the pillars of wellbeing need not cost much or take much time; rather they are additions that can be added to your daily life that can have a noticeable difference to how you feel.

What are the 5 pillars of wellbeing?

Connecting with others
Being physically active
Learning and problem solving
Giving
Being mindful

Connecting with others

Social interaction with others is so important to us as individuals; be it with friends, family, team mates or work colleagues.

Interactions provide a sense of emotional connection and sense of community. In fact, loneliness is one of the biggest factors that can affect our own mental health and wellbeing. Traditionally connecting with others was done face to face, enjoying a hobby with others or volunteering, however, online interactions can also provide the same connection. Certainly through lock down, our son really benefited from being able to connect with friends playing games online. The key point is finding a community that enable a positive sense of interaction.

Why not try

Dedicating time with your family at mealtimes or during the weekend
Catching up with friends
Turn off the TV and play a game or cards
Have lunch with a colleagues (and try not to talk about work)
Visit a friend that may need support
Volunteer at a local organisation, charity or sports club that you feel passionate about, or who could do with some support
Use technology to keep in contact with people not close by
Speak to someone rather than sending an email
Turning off the TV and playing game...

Being physically active

Exercise has a positive impact on both our physical health as well our mental health.

Physically, it need not be an intense workout, but the fact that you are getting moving will help raise the heart rate, burn fat and stimulate better blood circulation around the body. Any form of exercise will release endorphins that can help reduce depression and anxiety. Stretching or walking are low impact ways to keep active. Trying to reach 5000 steps a day can be both achievable and need not take up lots of time or money.

From a mental health perspective, doing the exercise with someone can provide the interaction that is equally important for our mental health.

Have you thought about

Walking to work or at lunch to integrate your exercise into your daily habits
Setting yourself a goal - steps per day or maybe the Coach to 5km maybe something to consider
Do something you enjoy - you are more likely to stick at it -swim, dance, ride, walk - there's plenty of choice
Join a sports club to give you a sense of community
Learn a new sport to gain a new skill and potentially meet new people
Do the activity with someone - it's social and can keep you motivated
Walk up the stairs rather than take the lift or escalators
Keep moving - try standing at your desk for short periods through the day

Keep learning or problem solving

Keeping the mind active need not be purely academic (though this may be a way to keep the mind active and provide a sense of purpose at the same time).

The process of learning will boost your self confidence and help you to connect with others that have a shared interest. Doing something new throughout the week can provide that sense of learning or problem solving; doing the daily wordle, cooking new recipes to taking a course in an area you are interested in. There need not be an exam at the end of it. Having a continued sense of learning can help provide a sense of purpose. You may have come across terms like 'growth mindset' or 'continuous learning' in a work environment but actually it applies in our everyday lives. The difference is that we can choose when, what and how we do it.

For example, if you are a keen kayaker, you may want to take more qualifications based on your skill level, that will show a sense of progression and sense of achievement.

Some ideas to get the mind thinking

Cook a new recipe each week - maybe try recipes from different countries or seasonal fruit and vegetables
Try some DIY at home- I know I certainly learnt a lot over lock down when I renovated my shed...I'd like to think I improved over time
Take on new responsibility at work - maybe offer to mentor a junior member of the team, sharing your knowledge
Research something you are interested in - but haven't had time to find out about
Read a book - fact or fiction, read something you find interesting

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Giving

But there are so many way's to give - it could be time, advice or supporting a cause you feel particularly close to. Over lock down, during the pandemic, Shannon and I were able to spend some time at the local vaccination center. Not only did it get us out the house, we got to interact with other people and we felt we were helping out. An action may not be exclusively beneficial to any of the 5 pillars of wellbeing; more often than not you will notice a certain amount of crossover between the pillars.

Similarly, the simple act of being there to listen to someone can be equally rewarding and support the mental health of an individual Ultimately, being able to 'give' or 'give back' can help provide a sense of connection with a community wherever you are.

Being mindful

Allowing the mind to switch off is one way to explain 'being mindful.'

For me personally I enjoy doing exercise without music and allowing my mind to be still. For others it may be cooking, playing music or reading a book. Try to think of a time when you are 'caught up in the moment' in what you are doing; when the mind isn't thinking of anything else. Similarly, going for a walk and stopping to take in the view or sounds around you can allow your mind to de clutter, not have to think about what needs to be done or solve problems.

For me that is 'being mindful' or 'present.'

We are all different and will have different ways of being present. At My Life Tonic, our aim is to help people find what works for them, to experience the benefits of being present or mindful.

5TH PILLAR OF WELLBEING

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:06:49 GMT

Bing Mindful

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Being mindful

5th Pillar of Wellbeing

Another way of looking at 'Being Mindful' is paying attention to the present moment.

Mindfulness, or being mindful, in today's society is the last of the of the 5 pillars of wellbeing. Mindfulness is more than just a trendy buzzword; it's a powerful practice that can transform the way we live and experience life. In this blog, we explore into what mindfulness is, why it's considered a pillar of wellbeing, and how you can incorporate it into your daily routine.

Understanding Mindfulness

At its core, mindfulness is the practice of being fully present and aware of the current moment, without judgment. It involves paying deliberate attention to your thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations, and the environment around you. Mindfulness invites you to observe these aspects of your life without attempting to change them or label them as good or bad.

Having understood the environment around us, we can then respond in the most appropriate way - as the quote suggests.

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You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.

Jon Kabat-Zinn

The 5th Pillar of Wellbeing

Reducing Stress: One of the most immediate and noticeable benefits of mindfulness is its ability to reduce stress. By focusing on the present moment, you can distance yourself from anxious thoughts about the future or regrets about the past. This can lead to decreased levels of the stress hormone cortisol and a sense of calm.
Enhancing Emotional Regulation: Mindfulness allows you to observe your emotions without reacting impulsively. This enables you to respond to situations more thoughtfully and less emotionally. Over time, this can lead to better emotional regulation and increased emotional resilience.
Improving Mental Health: Numerous studies have shown that mindfulness can be an effective tool for managing and preventing various mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and even post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). It provides individuals with the skills to better cope with challenging thoughts and emotions.
Enhancing Physical Health: Mindfulness isn't just about mental wellbeing; it can also benefit your physical health. Regular mindfulness practice has been associated with lower blood pressure, improved sleep quality, and a stronger immune system.
Boosting Focus and Productivity: In our hyper-connected world, distractions abound. Mindfulness sharpens your ability to concentrate by training your mind to stay on task. This heightened focus can lead to increased productivity and better decision-making.

Incorporating Mindfulness into Your Life

Start with Breathing: One of the simplest ways to begin practicing mindfulness is by focusing on your breath. Take a few minutes each day to sit quietly, close your eyes, and pay attention to your breath as it goes in and out. When your mind wanders (as it inevitably will), gently bring your focus back to your breath. (We offer a selection of breathwork sessions as part of on-demand library).
Mindful Eating: Instead of rushing through meals, savor each bite. Pay attention to the flavors, textures, and smells of your food. Eating mindfully can enhance your enjoyment of meals and promote healthier eating habits.
Body Scan: Lie down and mentally scan your body from head to toe. Notice any areas of tension or discomfort. This practice can help you release physical tension and become more aware of your body's signals. Often at the end of a yoga classes, we include the process of body scanning at the end , in savasana)
Mindful Walking: Take a walk outdoors and pay attention to each step. Feel the ground beneath your feet, notice the rhythm of your steps, and observe the world around you. Walking mindfully can be a peaceful and rejuvenating experience. In our yoga classes we often talk about, grounding ourselves by noticing the contact between ourselves and the mat).
Daily Mindfulness Routine: Set aside a specific time each day for mindfulness practice. Whether it's in the morning, during a break at work, or before bed, having a dedicated time can help you establish a consistent routine. One way to do this is to stand outside, stop and take notice of the sounds, winds, views around around you.

Embracing a Mindful Life

Incorporating mindfulness into your life may take time and practice, but the benefits it offers to your wellbeing are well worth the effort. It's not about achieving a state of eternal bliss but rather about cultivating an awareness that allows you to navigate life's ups and downs with greater ease and resilience.

By embracing mindfulness as one of the pillars of your wellbeing, you can experience a shift in how you perceive and engage with the world around you. By doing so it can help you lead a richer, more fulfilling life—one that unfolds in the present moment, where the true essence of living is found.

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To recap you can read our previous blogs

STAY HYDRATED

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:06:09 GMT

Why Keeping Hydrated is Important

As a starting point, it's worth appreciating that our body is 50-70% water - so our very survival is intrinsically linked to maintaining the right hydration levels within our body.

So, the general guidance is that we should be drinking at least 2 liters of water everyday.

The body naturally loses water throughout the day by breathing, sweating, bowel movements and urinating; so it's a case of keeping our water levels at the right levels.

If you factor in differing levels of exercise or the climates we live in, then our hydration levels can vary significantly and the recommended intake of 2 liters may not be sufficient. Similarly, if you are sick with the flu or pregnant / breastfeeding then you are likely to need to up the amount of water you are drinking.

But why is this?

10 Reasons To Keep Hydrated

Helps our memory - even a 2% loss in fluid can affect concentration, memory and reaction time. The positive impact on cognition can also have the affect of combating feelings of anxiety.
Increased energy - if the body is dehydrated our circulation is slowed down, thereby slowing the rate of oxygen getting to our brain thereby making you feel sluggish and less focused. Similarly, if you are dehydrated your heart is having to work harder to pump the oxygen around the body.
Lubricate the joints - the cartilage in our joints is over 80% water. Staying hydrated helps keep the joints lubricated and reduces the friction between the bones.
Helps to prevent hangovers - it would be unrealistic not to include this one...either having a glass of water after every drink and before you go to bed will help!
Weight loss - by keeping hydrated, we fill fuller. Having a glass of water before we eat will help to satiate our appetite whilst also helping our digestive system to function more efficiently. If we feel fuller throughout the day, we are also less likely to feel the need to snack...
Enable organs to function properly - higher levels of hydration ensure a good volume of water is passing through the kidneys. Higher fluid in takes help to dilute the build up of minerals in the kidney, that can turn into clumps (commonly known as kidney stones)
Digestive system- our digestive system needs water. Constipation can be a side affect of dehydration, as can irregular bowel movements, heartburn, gas and bloating. Mineral water is particularly good at relieving constipation.
Stay at the right temperature - when we are hot we sweat to cool ourselves down. If we dehydrated then the body is unable to sweat and reduce the body's temperature. If you find it hard to tolerate warm temperatures, it could well be that you are dehydrated.
Improved detoxification - sweat, urine and breathing are all natural ways the body expels toxins within the body. Good levels of hydration enables our body's nature processes to work
Reduced headaches and migraines - loss of fluid can cause the brain to contract, causing either headaches or migraines. Headaches are in fact the most common sign of dehydration.

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INTERMITTENT FASTING

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:05:13 GMT

An Introduction to Intermittent Fasting

Over the last few years the concept of intermittent fasting has become a popular health, fitness and wellbeing trend. As with most things, it's important to understand the core principles around intermittent fasting to work out if it is right for you and something that you can integrate into your life on an ongoing basis.

As with My Life Tonic, we aim to encourage people to try and make small changes in their daily lives that are sustainable for the long term.

Below, I'll outline some of the various options for intermittent fasting - hopefully you'll be able to find the option that works best for you on an ongoing basis.

What are potential benefits of Intermittent Fasting?

Simplify lifestyle; as it provides a clear structure to follow
Improve health
Potential to lose weight

What is Intermittent fasting?

Firstly, intermittent fasting is NOT a diet that dictates what you eat but when you eat and there are several options you can choose from (and adapt for what works for you).

Simply put - when the body runs out of sugar stores it starts to burn fat in a process that is called 'metabolic switching.'

Particularly in modern society, there is the temptation to continually graze with 3 meals a day and snacks throughout the day. We are not giving our body time to rest, or stop.

12 -16 hours fasting

Firstly, we've found this the easiest to integrate into our daily routine, and one that can be increased gently over time. Ultimately a 12 hour fast can be from dinner through to breakfast the next day. We now tend to eat earlier, not past 7pm and then can have breakfast before Max leaves for school in the morning.

If we want to extend the fast, then we can eat breakfast later, whilst being up with Max each morning. Sharing regular meals as a family is important so, it maybe that we have a hot lemon drink in the morning together and have a slightly later breakfast. Whilst you are fasting it is important to stay hydrated so drink plenty of water (hot or cold) or drinks without any calories (black tea or coffee for example).

5:2 Diet

This is when you consume 500-600 calories for 2 days per week, whilst eating 'normally' for the remaining 5 days. Having tried this a few years back, I found this quite a tricky regime to integrate into my routine along with regular exercise, work and social life.

24 Hour Fasting

Fasting for a full day, once or twice a week (not consecutively!), whilst making sure to stay hydrated. Having struggled with the 5:2 regime, this is not something I have done.

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Remember - Fasting aims to reduce the calories you intake - that doesn't mean 'binge' eating in the window when you are not fasting!

What are potential benefits of fasting?

Weight loss

Eating fewer meals is likely to reduce calorific intake thereby aiding weight loss
Enhanced insulin sensitivity - insulin sensitivity improves and insulin levels drop significantly which can help protect against type 2 Diabetes
Increased human growth hormone levels (up to 5 fold increase) can stimulate both fat loss and muscle gain
Lower insulin levels and increased hormones raises the level of fat burning hormone norepinephrine
Short term fasting can increase your metabolic rate and help burn fat

Reduced inflammation - a marker for chronic diseases (cancer, heart disease, stroke, diabetes)

Heart health - reduction in 'bad' LDL cholesterol, insulin resistance and blood sugar all factors affecting heart health

Memory - animal studies have shown to increase working memory, whilst verbal memory has improved for adult humans.

Before you start....

Firstly, the very nature of fasting (any of the above options listed) - will mean you will feel hunger. Fasting should be thought of as one element of living a healthier lifestyle of controlling your eating habits, along with drinking enough water, getting enough sleep, regular exercise, whilst also maybe cutting down on caffeine and alcohol.

As will all tweaks to your existing lifestyle routine, it will take some time to adjust. So feeling 'weak' or not feeling as sharp as you normally do are likely to be short term side affects. The body can take between 2-4 weeks to get used to intermittent fasting, so if you feel tired or cranky do try and hang in there if you can.

If, however, you are dealing with any of the following are areas, then it's best to consult a medical professional before you start any form of intermittent fasting

If you are underweight
Has a history of eating disorders
Have low blood pressure
Has diabetes
Experiences difficulty with blood sugar regulation
Are on existing medication
Trying to conceive
Are breast feeding
Experience amenorrhea

People under 18 should not try intermittent fasting.

We hope you have found this introduction helpful in outline some of the reasons you may want to try fasting and the associated benefits.

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INTERMITTEMT FASTING TIPS

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:04:23 GMT

10 Tips to Help with Intermittent Fasting

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INTERMITTENT FASTING TIPS

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In a previous post, we outline the range of benefits of intermittent fasting. The theory sounds all very good, however, it can be hard to get started.

In this blog, we outline a few ways to get started and tips you may find helpful when you do get started (with whichever programme you choose).

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Meal skipping

This can happen in our busy lives and tends to be more ad hoc. Although a good way to start - to show you can do it, getting in regular routine can help get into the swing of things.

Stay hydrated

Make sure you drink plenty of water, hot or cold. Alternatively drinks without any calories are also an option such as black coffee, tea and herbal drinks. (Remember that caffeinated drinks can be dehydrating).

Keep busy

This is most a distraction technique to help keep you mind off food! Don't over do it to the point you need to refuel....life admin, reading, listen to podcast are all other ways to get things done whilst keep your mind off the subject of eating.

Sleep

We've certainly found that fasting whilst asleep is the easiest way to get through large periods of your fasting time. (It feels like cheating but it really isn't!).

Wellness activities

Yoga and mediation are both ways to gently look after both your physical and mental health. Again the point is not to over exert yourself otherwise that defeats the point!

Plan what you eat

High volume low calorie foods such as popcorn, fresh vegetables and raw fruit with high water content such as melons and grapes are good options.

Eat slowly and frequently

Try to eat at lease every 3 hours and make sure you get your required calorific intake in across your eating period

Prepare your meals ahead of time

Save time during the week, or when you are busy to plan and prepare what you want to eat. This will save time throughout the week, but also save money (which is particularly important at the moment).

Keep your blood sugar levels stable

Eating nutrient rich foods such as fibre, vitamins and minerals will help keep the blood sugars stable.

Add a little spice

Using a variety of spices will really add taste to food without adding the calories. Try adding garlic, herbs, vinegar or add extra seasoning to your meals. You'll be adding taste without the calories.

Before you start....

If, however, you are dealing with any of the following are areas, then it's best to consult a medical professional before you start any form of intermittent fasting

If you are underweight
Has a history of eating disorders
Have low blood pressure
Has diabetes
Experiences difficulty with blood sugar regulation
Are on existing medication
Trying to conceive
Are breast feeding
Experience amenorrhea

People under 18 should not try intermittent fasting.

Good luck and let us know how you get on and please share any tips that have worked for you.

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ANTIGUA - THINGS TO DO

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 13:00:35 GMT

Family Holiday in Antigua

You have have gathered that as a family, we are not very good at sitting still and it surprises us that we have now been back to Antigua several times and lots of things to do each time.

Below is a list of a few things that we have shared with friends before, and hope you may find them helpful to make the most of a trip to the island.

Our Top 10 Beaches in Antigua

This is a summary of some of the beaches (this is the tourist board link) we have visited since visiting Antigua over the last few years. You will find most beaches have beach bars for lunches and refreshments for varying budgets and tastes. In some cases, it's important to remember that local service may not be as prompt as elsewhere so you may need to be a little patient and enjoy island time. The island boasts a different beach for everyday so we didn't manage to get round them all, but I'd like to think this guide may help you think about exploring a little more of the island.

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Pigeon Beach - Pretty biased here, as this was our local beach that we could walk down to from where we were staying. It had the choice of the 2 beach bars either end of the beach and there was plenty of shelter, in case it got too hot. The shallow beach is pretty good for people of all ages, and you often see a people 'doing laps' along the waterfront. Nearby is the smaller, less crowded beach of Windward Bay, where the waves are bigger and it's good for beach combing for things. The entry into the water is a bit tricky so probably best for stronger swimmers
Galleon Bay - on the entrance to Nelson's Harbour by sea, this is a sheltered arching bay with a few beach huts on the seafront. At the center of the beach is Cheeky Marlins beach bar that is popular in season. You'll see plenty of snorkelers here enjoying the projected waters. We were fortunate enough to see a turtle grazing on the seabed to the far end of the bay. We would recommend swimming with shoes on as the entry can be a bit rocky with sea urchins to avoid stepping on. A great beach for swimmers, explorers or chillers.
Halfmoon Bay - almost a perfect crescent shaped bay with protected calm waters on one side, the center offering the chance for body surfing, whilst the opposite side of the beach seems to collect seaweed. One of the few beaches with good waves (when we were there) and of course a beach bar for refreshments. You can walk along the rocky coastline to explore a little or just enjoy hanging out in the calmer water. Felt a bit more remote than other beaches and felt less busy.
Ffryes beach - a long sandy beach with gentle slope down into the see towards Jolly Harbour side of the island. Certainly a lovely place to spend the afternoon, though there was less shelter there than other beaches.If long sandy beaches is your thing, then this is a great choice.
Carlisle Bay - I thought this was the most scenic of beaches, with public access to the beach just after the entrance to the hotel. Palm trees line the bay providing welcome shelter. We stopped in at the Carlisle Bay hotel for a drink to round a lovely day at the beach. We justified the more expensive drinks for the beautiful surroundings and spotting the wild turtle bobbing up and down not far from the coastline.
Dickinson Beach - One of beaches with several international hotels lined along the beach. It seemed that the beach catered more for the hotel guests, but it's important to remember that all Antiguan beaches are open to the public, as long as you stay by the waterline.

Top Things to do in Antigua outside the hotel

We've found that hiring a car has not only let us explore more beaches but also enjoy some things that are out of the hotels. Driving on the left hand side, means that driving is less daunting, though the roads can be in need of a little love (but then again so can some of the roads in the UK).

Shirley Heights - overlooking English Harbour this is the view you are likely to see in the guidebooks. Certainly worth visiting for a sun downer for the wonderful views, some rum punch and in non covid times some local music. It's worth checking if it is open before turning up, you may also need to pre book tickets. Worth combining with time spent at Nelson's Dockyard, English Harbour restaurants and bars and exploring the old fort (and Pigeon Beach)
English Harbour - so much to do here!

Multiple restaurants from Caribbean, French, Italian to Indian in the space of 5 minutes walk along the harbour front
Nelson's Dockyard - UNESCO World Heritage Center where the British Navy would take refuge during the hurricane season with hotel, bar, bakery, shops to explore in the stunning setting of a Georgian Dockyard.
Explore the Old Fort and the 'middle ground' - see below
Beaches to visit include Pigeon Beach and Galleon Bay
Visit to the Yacht Club - a fun bar (we watched England lose to Italy here...but you can eat there in the evening too)
Jumping off the dock (when you are allowed)
Try out the 2 Six 8 local beers at the brewery - check when they are open
Buy some locally roasted coffee at Carib Bean Coffee company
Sweet T's Icecream - roadside location that is hard to miss with it's brightly coloured building

Exploring Antigua

Catamaran Day Trip - leaving from Jolly Harbour this was a full day touring the coastline with stops at various beaches to cool off, relax and enjoy swimming off the coast. BBQ'd lunch and refreshments throughout the day gave us the chance to see different parts of the island we couldn't get to easily from the Jolly Harbour starting off point.
Betty's Hope Plantation - the plantation is being restored to provide insights into both Antigua's industrial and agricultural history. Initially manned by slaves, and then labourers, the plantation shows how industrial machinery was developed to process the sugar cane grown on site and throughout the island. Sugar cane plays a major part in the island's history so I found it interesting to find out more;
Great Bird Island day trip - this included visiting a location where stingrays reside (you can feed them if you want to), snorkelling off the boat and then a short hike around Green Island before lunch, followed by some canoeing around the Mangrove. An action packed day with lots to do for those that are a little more actively inclined.
St Johns - The capital of Antigua that has a pretty laid back and safe feel. We did visit when there were no cruise ships which may have made it feel less hectic. I gather there can be as many as 4/5 cruise ships at one time which would really make the area around the docks feel a lot busier. Plenty of tourist shops to buy memorabilia from and places to eat. One place that is worth a quick visit is the Museum of Antigua and Barbuda at the Old Court House, that used to be a prominent building in years gone by. You can spend half an hour there to help provide some context to the island's history.
Zip Lining at the Antiguan Rainforest Zipline Tour - based in the center of the island our group enjoyed the few hours spent negotiating the zip line course with the help of local guides. Travelling through the island in itself is a fun way to explore the island. Combine it with a visit to another beach to make the trip worthwhile (either Ffryes or Carlisle Bay)
Old Fort and the 'Middle Ground' (between Nelson's Dockyard and Pigeon Beach) - Parking at Pigeon Beach and following the trail into the dock and then circling back to the beach takes between 45mins and an hour and half. There are some steep bits but the pathway is pretty well marked with white paint on the floor. Certainly take some water and a camera to take in views of the coastline, Galleon Bay and the Fort. There are several remaining parts of the fort that are clearly identified. This is one of our regular activities that never gets old.
Devils Bridge - worth a visit to this National Park to view the natural blow holes, and water spraying upwards, on the east coast of the island. Good for the latest post on Gram...

Great places to hang out in Antigua

Boom Bar - a modern pool and bar overlooking historic English Harbour
Catherines Cafe - Pigeon Beach, with a relaxed chilled vibe and beach art at the shore front (these are teh ones I mentioned to you in English Harbour area)
Kon Tiki Ba r - a floating pontoon about 100m from shore near to Dickson's Beach. Great atmosphere for those wanting to enjoy their holiday. We got to see a few stingrays swim beneath!
2 Six 8 - (the brewery is named after country dialling code) the location of the brewery to enjoy the selection of beers and stouts as well as taking in some more local food
Trappas - international cuisine for everybody's taste at the center of English Habour
Hemingways in St Johns, elevated position 1 floor up the fresh breeze is well worth it, with a great selection of local and international food
Sheer Rocks - popular and more exclusive restaurant towards Jolly Harbour (we've not been....but friends have!)

Active in Antigua

Snorkelling and Scuba diving - though we didn't go with any organised tour there were plenty of guides available
Sailing - in previous years we have been able to charter a sailing boat (with captain) to get us out in the open sea
Running - running around the the Old Fort / Middle Ground was a great work out on uneven terrain in around English Harbour to Shirley Heights
SwimRuns - we have recently got into this sport and found routes along the coast to combine our swimming and running from between 1-2 hours. We made sure we told people where we were going and stayed together. During one swim we were slightly distracted as we saw a turtle grazing (I think they graze) on the sea floor grass.
Tennis - local courts can be hired if not part of the hotel complex but we found it too hot any time before 6pm

Ultimately, we love returning to Antigua to continue exploring the island. We tend to stay at English Harbour which has proved to be a great base. We have found that hiring a car works well and the roads, though could be improved, are pretty easy to navigate (and not too busy either).
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What's your tonic?

Hopefully you'll have found something in our suggestions above...

SEASONAL AFFECTIVE DISORDER

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 12:56:57 GMT

Understanding Seasonal Affective Disorder

What is SAD?

It's that time of year again, particularly as the clocks go back, it's starting to dark earlier in the morning and then again in the afternoon.

Many people, almost 2 million people in the UK alone, struggle with the shorter days and longer nights. Increasingly, it recognised that it's more than just the 'winter blues' and that the reduced levels of sunlight has an impact on the serotonin the body produces and then affecting the way we feel.

Serotonin is the hormone that helps to regulate our mood.

What are the symptoms of SAD?

Is SAD something you have been struggling with, without knowing. Below are a few indicators that you may be suffering with SAD

Experience slight weight gain
Alternatively may have a reduced appetite
Increasingly emotional
Reduced motivation to go out and socialise
Potentially more irritable
Sleep patterns can be affected

Ways to cope with SAD

Make yourself get outside into the open air; wrap up accordingly!
Regulate your sleep so that you go to bed and wake up and consistent times
Be conscious of what you eat with plenty of proteins and vitamin D
Try to eat the colours of the rainbow to ensure a balanced diet
Exercise is great for both your mental and physical health; maybe also do it with friends or join a club
Get as much natural light as possible throughout the day
Spend time with people that make you happy
Plan ahead so you have things to do but also anticipate what needs to be done
Getting things 'done' can really help you maintain a positive outlook
Volunteering gets you out, gets you doing something you enjoy and can help you interact with people

If you continue to struggle with SAD do go to your local healthcare professional for advice.

ENJOYING COLD WATER SAFELY

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 12:56:18 GMT

12 Tips For Cold Water Dipping

Best tips for enjoying cold water safely

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Top tips to ensure you enjoy cold water safely (I couldn't limit it to 10!).

Consult a doctor if you have any underlying health conditions (such as high blood pressure, heart condition, pregnancy or asthma).
Start slowly - 30 or 60s in a shower is a great way to start
Wear a wetsuit if need to acclimatise to the colder water (neoprene gloves and socks are also options)
Start in warmer water (summer) and continue into autumn and winter
Ease yourself into the water - control your breathing as your body gets used to the cold
Do it with others - so you can keep an eye on each other and enjoy the experience
Make it social - share the experience with others and keep each other motivated
Don't stay in too long - If you start to feel stiff in the water - then get out and get warm
Go to 'managed' location where there are lifeguards watching
Take plenty of warm clothes for afterwards (lots of layers, socks, gloves and hat)
Have a hot drink for when you get out
Give yourself time to recover - from the cold water and / or the exercise - before you head off for the rest of your day

Remember anyone can enjoy the benefits of cold water - it may be that you get to meet a broader range of people that you not otherwise meet. (After all, some of your friends will think you are slightly bonkers for getting into the cold water).

Cold water tub (and old whiskey barrel) - using whatever works!

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Interested to find out more - why not try some of previous blogs

Mental health benefits of cold water
Open water swimming - SAFELTY
US Road trip and open water swimming
Exploring Frances Lakes

You can also find out more about Cold Water on our website.

10 TIPS TO STAY HYDRATED

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 12:53:05 GMT

Life Tonic - Staying Hydrated

In a previous post, we outline the range of benefits of staying hydrated. The theory sounds all very good, however, it can be hard to get started.

Some to these tips may sound obvious, and you may be doing them already, but I'd like to think there will be a few new options that you aren't doing at the moment....

Do let us know if you think we've missed some good ones.

10 Ways To Stay Hydrated

1. Have some water when you get up

Try having some water before the first cup of coffee or tea first thing in morning. We like to have a hot lemon water first thing followed by a coffee.

2. Sip water throughout the day

Having a desk job makes this feel easier as you can keep a glass or a bottle with you throughout the day. If you are constantly on the move, then keep a bottle close by (preferably reusable to reduce the environmental impact).

3. Set reminders

If you are the kind of person that gets caught up in things, set a reminder on your smart device to prompt you to take a sip of water.

4. Have a glass of water before each meal

This will help your body digest your food more easily but also make you feel full faster (so twice the benefit!).

5. Mix it up

Fresh lemon and lime add some extra flavour. Try to avoid using flavour that adds sugar. Go wild and have some sparking water...

6. Check the colour of your urine

If the colour of your urine is dark yellow, then it can be a sign that you are dehydrated and need to have more water.

7. Swap fizzy drinks for sparkling water

Not only will you reduce your sugar intake but you'll be hydrating the body.

8. Monitor your caffeine and alcohol intake - both can increase your levels of dehydration.

9. Set a daily goal

Knowing what you have drunk, and what you need to drink, will help you make sure you achieving your goals. It will also help you track any changes in how you feel. The general recommendation is 8 glasses of water every day (roughly 2 litres per day).

10. Tap water is fine!

Particularly in the UK, tap water is safe to drink. There maybe differences in taste across the country but this is more a personal preference factor than if it hydrates you.

SEROTONIN - FEEL GOOD HORMONE

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 12:44:59 GMT

Serotonin - A Natural Way to Support Our Wellbeing

Get More Serotonin in Our Lives

Serotonin is often referred to as a natural feel good hormone. In my mind, like, say references to wellbeing - it maybe a term that we have heard a fair amount about but are not sure what it is , why it is important and how we can get more of it. Before we go into some of those details, it's good to know why having enough enough serotonin in our lives is important

4 Benefits that Serotonin Gives Us

Important role in mood regulation
Helps us sleep better
Enables us to manage our appetite better
Facilitates overall sense of happiness

If you needed convincing about the importance of having enough serotonin then the benefits above should be enough to convince you!

Understanding What Serotonin Is

Serotonin is a neurotransmitter primarily found in the brain, intestines, and blood platelets. In the brain, it's synthesized from the amino acid tryptophan, often associated with foods like turkey, dairy, and nuts. Its functions are diverse, impacting various physiological and psychological processes, but its role in mood regulation stands out prominently.

Family time, exercise and sunlight!

6 Ways to Enhance Serotonin Levels

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Dietary Adjustments‍

As mentioned, tryptophan-rich foods serve as precursors to serotonin. Incorporating foods like salmon, eggs, tofu, nuts, seeds, and dairy products can naturally boost serotonin levels. Additionally, complex carbohydrates facilitate tryptophan absorption, hence opting for whole grains, fruits, and vegetables is beneficial.

Regular Exercise‍

Physical activity has been linked to increased serotonin production. Engaging in regular exercise, be it aerobic activities like running or resistance training, can elevate serotonin levels and improve mood. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week for optimal results. You may have also seen that regular exercise (or being physically active is the 2nd Pillar of Wellbeing ).

Sunlight Exposure

Sunlight triggers the release of serotonin in the brain. Spending time outdoors, especially during daylight hours, can help regulate serotonin production. Even on cloudy days, outdoor exposure can be beneficial. If sunlight is scarce, consider using light therapy lamps to mimic natural sunlight. To find out more why not read our blog - Get Outside To Feel Great )

Mindfulness and Meditation‍

Practices like mindfulness meditation have shown to positively impact serotonin levels. These techniques reduce stress and promote relaxation, facilitating serotonin release. Regular mindfulness practice can lead to long-term improvements in mood and well-being. Another Pillar of Wellbeing- in this case the 5th one !

Adequate Sleep‍

Quality sleep is essential for serotonin regulation. Establishing a consistent sleep schedule and creating a conducive sleep environment can enhance serotonin production. Aim for 7-9 hours of uninterrupted sleep each night to reap the benefits of optimal serotonin levels. To learn more, ready our blog, The Importance of Sleep ‍

Social Connections‍

Meaningful social interactions and supportive relationships can boost serotonin levels. Engage in activities that foster connections with friends, family, and community. Acts of kindness, laughter, and affectionate gestures also stimulate serotonin release....the 1st Pillar of Wellbeing. ...

5 Benefits of Optimized Serotonin Levels

Improved Mood

Serotonin is often referred to as the "happiness neurotransmitter" for a reason. Optimal levels are associated with feelings of contentment, happiness, and emotional stability. Individuals with balanced serotonin levels are less likely to experience symptoms of depression and anxiety. We all want to have improved moods - whatever your starting point!

Better Sleep Quality‍

Serotonin plays a crucial role in regulating sleep-wake cycles. Enhanced serotonin levels promote restful sleep and alleviate insomnia symptoms. Individuals with sufficient serotonin often experience deeper, more rejuvenating sleep; I know I certainly sleep better when I've been outside, done some exercise and have eaten well.

Appetite Regulation‍

Serotonin influences appetite and satiety. Balanced serotonin levels can help regulate cravings and prevent overeating, helping us to follow any weight management efforts or eating regimes (such as intermittent fasting for example).

Increased Resilience to Stress‍

Serotonin has a calming effect on the brain, helping individuals cope with stress more effectively - whether it's at home or at work. Optimal serotonin levels reduce the impact of stressors and promote emotional resilience.

Enhanced Cognitive Function‍

Serotonin isn't just about mood; it also affects cognitive functions such as memory, learning, and decision-making. By optimizing serotonin levels, we can experience improved cognitive performance and mental clarity.

To Summarise...

Serotonin plays a pivotal role in our mental and physical well-being. By adopting lifestyle practices that support serotonin production, such as dietary adjustments, exercise, sunlight exposure, mindfulness, sleep hygiene, and social connections, individuals can experience a multitude of benefits, including improved mood, better sleep, appetite regulation, stress resilience, and enhanced cognitive function. Prioritizing these holistic approaches can lead to a happier, healthier life fueled by balanced serotonin levels.

Whenever I create these blog posts, what really strikes (or reminds) me how interconnected the elements of wellbeing are. If we are consciously trying to maintain our levels of serotonin, then we are also moving towards establishing the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing.

3RD PILLAR OF WELLBEING

Tue, 07 Jan 2025 14:41:42 GMT

Keep Learning Or Problem Solving

The 3rd Pillar of Wellbeing

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"If you are not willing to learn, no one can help you. If you are determined to learn, no one can stop you."

Zig Ziglar

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Travelling is just one way that we can keep learning, expanding our boundaries and exposing ourselves to new cultures. Travelling can help us view things from a different perspective. On a trip to Italy, we visited the beautiful ancient mountain top village in Umbria and took time to wander around. Travelling need not be far afield - it's as much the change in scene and getting out of your comfort zone that may indeed give you a different perspective on things.

Cast your mind back to the last trip away you had - I'd be surprised if you didn't at some point need to figure a minor (hopefully) issue out along the way.

Keep Learning

Keeping the mind active need not be purely academic (though this may be a way to keep the mind engaged and provide a sense of purpose at the same time).

The process of learning boosts your self confidence and help you to connect with others that have a shared interest. As mentioned previously, the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing do not stand alone from each other. To mix analogies of pillars - one activity can represent one or several of the pillars of wellbeing. Over the last year, I've met some fantastic people on the courses I have completed.

Doing something new can provide that sense of learning or problem solving; from doing the daily Wordle, cooking new recipes to taking a course in an area you are interested in. Personally, I am presently on a good streak learning French via Duolingo. I spend 5 minutes a day improving some pretty rusty French.

In this manner, the process of learning can be clearly linked to the process of Atomic Habits - in that to establish a habit you have to do it regularly and consistency. It may not feel that you are making progress if you look at it on a day by day basis, however over time you will certainly notice improvement. From my French learning experience, after almost half a year I certainly feel that my vocab and general understanding is getting better. Fortunately I have a while until my next visit to France so hopefully I'll notice the difference!

'Learning' need not seem like some sort of epic task, rather doing something differently

Similarly, there need not be an exam at the end of it.
Having a continued sense of learning can help provide a sense of purpose.
You have probably come across terms like 'growth mindset' or 'continuous learning' in a work environment but actually it applies in our everyday lives.
The difference is that we can choose when, what and how we do it. For example, if you are a keen kayaker, you may want to take more qualifications based on your skill level, that will show a sense of progression and sense of achievement.
Some ideas to to encourage you to keep learning...
Travel - near or far to experience something different - be it food, language, culture or way of doing things
Cook a new recipe each week - maybe try recipes from different countries or seasonal fruit and vegetables
Try some DIY at home- I know I certainly learnt a lot over lock down when I renovated my shed...I'd like to think I improved over time - marginally)
Take on new responsibility at work - maybe offer to mentor a junior member of the team, sharing your knowledge
Research something you are interested in - but haven't had time to find out about
Read a book - fact or fiction, read something you find interesting
Podcasts offer such a fantastic opportunity to learn almost any subject (Two of my favourites are The Rest Is History and Don't Tell Me The Score)

Practicing what I preach - I've completed the following courses

Mental Health First Aider Course
Science of Wellbeing - Yale University
Thermalist Course - understanding Contrast Therapy
NLP Practitioner Course

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Most importantly - find what interests you and find out more about it....and see where it takes you.

To recap you can read our previous blogs

5 Pillars of Wellbeing
1st Pillar of Wellbeing - Connecting with others
2nd Pillar of Wellbeing - Be Physically Active
Why people do yoga
Atomic Habits post

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MENTAL HEALTH AWARENESS WEEK - MAY

Tue, 07 Jan 2025 14:34:25 GMT

Mental Health Awareness Week

Planning ahead....

Every year in May, it's Mental Health Awareness Week; an ideal time to plan and roll out an impactful year round campaign that can break stigmas, foster understanding, and create a workplace that actively maintains a positive mental well-being.

The week is a fantastic opportunity to launch mental health and wellbeing initiatives to support colleagues year round.

Give colleagues the chance to

Try - something new from a range of activities such as desk yoga, breathwork, yoga, mediation-
Learn - new frameworks to help create lasting changes
Share - experiences and knowledge between colleagues
Create - a more understanding and supportive environment to work in

We can support you with a variety of sessions

Live online accessible classes for all
Lunch and Learn Workshops
Year Round Support Options include;
Unlimited Access
Weekly live classes
Over 400 On-Demand classes
Weekly emails to colleagues
Challenges - 31 Day 10 Minute Challenge or the 4 Week Tone Up
Monthly Desk Yoga classes
Monthly Lunch and Learns

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There's still time to plan your activities for Mental Health Awareness Week in May - contact us if you'd like to the discuss how we can support your colleagues during this week and beyond.

Launching an employee wellbeing program over Mental Health Awareness Week can be a great way to kick start an employee engagement program that will support the business by helping to reduce

Absenteeism
Presenteeism
Recruitment costs

Whilst also supporting the ongoing physical wellbeing and mental health of colleagues.

WELLBEING AND STRESS

Tue, 07 Jan 2025 14:26:23 GMT

Wellbeing: Managing Stress for a Happier Life

In today's fast-paced and demanding world, stress has become a prevalent issue affecting our overall wellbeing. However, by prioritizing our mental and emotional health, we can effectively manage stress and lead happier lives. In this blog, we will delve into the importance of wellbeing in stress management, explore practical strategies to reduce stress, and examine compelling statistics that highlight the significance of this endeavor.

The Impact of Stress on Wellbeing

Stress, if left unaddressed, can have detrimental effects on our physical and mental health.

Chronic stress can lead to conditions such as anxiety disorders, depression, cardiovascular diseases, and weakened immune systems.

According to the American Institute of Stress

About 77% of people regularly experience physical symptoms caused by stress,
73% report experiencing psychological symptoms.

Prioritizing Wellbeing for Stress Management

Wellbeing practices play a crucial role in managing and mitigating the impact of stress.

Engaging in regular physical exercise, such as walking or yoga, can reduce stress hormones and release endorphins, which boost mood and promote relaxation.

Additionally, practicing mindfulness and meditation has been proven effective in reducing stress levels and improving overall mental health.

In fact, a study published in JAMA Internal Medicine found that mindfulness meditation programs can reduce anxiety and depression by 38%.

The Benefits of Social Support

Strong social connections are vital for managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. Building a support network of friends, family, or participating in group activities can provide emotional support during challenging times.

According to a study conducted by Carnegie Mellon University, social support can reduce the impact of stress on individuals and enhance their resilience.

People with strong social ties are found to have a 50% higher chance of survival during stressful circumstances compared to those who are socially isolated.

Workplace Wellbeing Initiatives

The workplace is a significant source of stress for many individuals. However, organizations that prioritize employee wellbeing can create a healthier and more productive work environment.

According to a survey by the American Psychological Association,

91% of employees in companies that support well-being initiatives feel motivated to do their best work. (increased productivity, reduced presenteeism and absenteeism )
81% reported being more likely to recommend their organization as a good place to work. ( Reduced recruitment costs )

Employers can implement stress reduction programs, offer flexible work arrangements, and provide resources for mental health support. By doing so, they can significantly reduce workplace stress, increase employee engagement, and improve overall organizational performance.

In a world where stress is increasingly prevalent, prioritizing wellbeing is essential for managing stress effectively. The statistics surrounding the impact of stress on our physical and mental health are eye-opening. By incorporating practices such as exercise, mindfulness, and fostering social connections, we can mitigate the negative effects of stress.

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Organizations that invest in workplace well-being initiatives can create positive work environments that contribute to the overall happiness and productivity of their employees. Embracing the power of wellbeing is a transformative step toward a happier and healthier life.

Inspired and want to find out more?

Why not contact us to find out how we can support your colleagues with year round wellbeing initiatives to support colleague mental health and physical wellbeing.

To recap you can read our previous blogs about wellbeing

2ND PILLAR OF WELLBEING

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 14:49:56 GMT

Being Physically Active

2nd Pillar of Wellbeing

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Exercise has a positive impact on both our physical health as well our mental health and is therefore an important pillar of wellbeing.

This may not come as a complete surprise - particularly coming from yoga teachers, that like to keep active in all sorts of ways. It's still worth explaining to provide a broader context on the matter I think.

The photo below is wonderful example of this; on a recent visit to see our family in the US we took a hike in a local state park in Utah. Of course the fresh air was wonderful but we also got to experience some wonderful scenery (jumped in a lake - obviously), whilst also spending some cherished time with the family....as the quote below suggests. the experience was more than just the physical act of being active.

Physical Benefits Of Being Active

Physically, it need not be an intense workout, but the fact that you are getting moving will help raise the heart rate, burn fat and stimulating better blood circulation around the body.

Any form of exercise will release endorphins that can help reduce depression and anxiety.

Stretching or walking are low impact ways to keep active. Trying to reach 5000 steps a day can be both achievable and need not take up lots of time or money.

Personally, I also use the opportunity of exercise as a way of getting outside to feel the elements around me- be it hot, cold, wind or rain; it just helps me feel more connected and varies the work out experience.

Similarly the act of doing exercise is a great way to get away from the desk top (or whatever it is you are doing) to give your self some head space. Many a time, I've had a new thought or gained a different perspective on a situation. I personally like to run without music or podcasts playing so that I can let me mind wonder or try to process whatever is going on.

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Some tips on becoming more active

Try to set a regular time to do the exercise
Start small and build up over time
Do it with friends and commit to do it with them
Find a local group to join
Do what you enjoy!

"Exercise not only changes your body, it changes your mind, your mood and your body."

Anon

Mental Health Benefits Of Being Active

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From a mental health perspective, doing the exercise with someone can provide the interaction that is equally important for our mental health. (Remember the 1st Pillar of Wellbeing - Connecting with others?).

From a mental health perspective the act of being active can help reduce anxiety, depression or negative moods whilst also improving an individuals self esteem and cognitive function.

Take a moment to think about a time when you got out and did some exercise and the buzz you felt afterwards (even more so if the weather wasn't great).

Have you thought about

Walking to work or at lunch
Integrate your exercise into your daily habits - like your daily commute
Setting yourself a goal - steps per day for example
Sign up to do the Coach to 5km maybe (or event that interests you)
Join a class if you want to try something new
Go up the stairs rather than take the lift

You may notice that none of these suggestion require a significant change in your existing routine? We like to suggest ways to make small changes in our daily routine that can make a difference.

Being (And Staying) Active

Below are a few tips on ways to start and keep being active.

Do something you enjoy - you are more likely to stick at it -swim, dance, ride, walk - there's plenty of choice
Join a club to give you a sense of community- sports, dance - whatever interests you!
Learn a new sport to gain a new skill and potentially meet new people
Do the activity with someone - it's social and can keep you motivated
Keep moving - try standing at your desk for short periods through the day

Remember that the 1st Pillar of Wellbeing was 'Connecting with Others' - you may have noticed that some of the tips to stay active revolves around doing the activity with other people. Joining a group, or making a weekly commitment to go walking with someone means that you being physically active whilst also connecting with others.

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As you'll see with the remaining pillars of wellbeing - they do not sit in isolation, but rather overlap more often that not. I like to think of the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing as a framework to help ensure that I maintain a positive wellbeing. When I have gone back to review my own sense of wellbeing I have on occasion noticed if one of the pillars isn't quite present in my daily routine.

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To recap you can read our previous blogs

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WELLBEING AND ANXIETY

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 14:49:55 GMT

How Wellbeing Can Help Manage Anxiety

Anxiety disorders affect millions of individuals worldwide, impacting their mental and emotional well-being. However, by prioritizing our overall wellbeing, we can effectively manage anxiety and lead more fulfilling lives. In this blog, we will explore how incorporating wellbeing practices can help alleviate anxiety, highlight empowering strategies, and delve into compelling statistics from the United Kingdom and the United States that underscore the significance of this approach.

The Prevalence of Anxiety

Anxiety disorders are among the most common mental health conditions globally. In the United Kingdom, an estimated 8.2 million people experience anxiety, accounting for 12.8% of the population. In the United States, anxiety disorders affect approximately 40 million adults, making up 18.1% of the population. These statistics from the Office for National Statistics (UK) and the National Institute of Mental Health (US) reveal the significant impact of anxiety on society.

The Role of Wellbeing in Anxiety Management

Prioritizing wellbeing is vital in managing anxiety effectively. Engaging in regular exercise has been shown to reduce anxiety symptoms by promoting the release of endorphins and enhancing mood. In fact, studies have found that physical activity can be as effective as medication or cognitive-behavioural therapy in treating mild to moderate anxiety.

If you haven't read our blogs on the pillars of wellbeing why not visit the links below to get a greater insight into the 2nd Pillar of Wellbeing - Be Physically Active.

Practicing mindfulness and relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing exercises (Read our blog post on the Mental Health Benefits of Breathwork ) and meditation (read our blog on the mental health benefits of meditation ) , can also be powerful tools in anxiety management.

Research conducted by the University of Oxford indicates that mindfulness-based interventions reduce anxiety levels by an average of 22%.

Similarly, our recent blog on the 5th Pillar of Wellbeing provides further details on the importance of being mindful.

Nurturing Emotional Wellbeing

Emotional wellbeing plays a crucial role in anxiety management. Building strong emotional resilience through self-care practices can help individuals better cope with anxiety triggers. Engaging in activities that promote self-expression, such as journaling or creative arts, can facilitate emotional release and provide a sense of calm. You can learn more about the benefits of journaling in one of our blogs).

Social support is another significant aspect of emotional wellbeing. Cultivating strong relationships and seeking support from friends, family, or support groups can help individuals navigate anxiety more effectively. According to a study published in the Journal of Affective Disorders, social support acts as a protective factor against anxiety disorders. Social Support can also be termed as 'Connecting with others' - the 1st Pillar of Wellbeing that you can read in more detail in our blog post.

The Impact of Wellbeing in Academic Settings

Anxiety often affects students, particularly during exams and high-pressure academic periods. However, prioritizing wellbeing in educational environments can lead to positive outcomes. In the United Kingdom, research conducted by Universities UK found that universities offering well-being programs reported a 75% increase in students disclosing mental health issues, indicating that more students are seeking support.

Additionally, a study published in the Journal of School Psychology revealed that implementing school-based programs promoting student well-being significantly reduced anxiety levels among participants.

Why Focus On Mental Health In Places Of Study?

Firstly, for many going to University, living away from home can be stressful in itself - often moving away from home and going to a new environment with potentially few social connections already established. Learning the tools to help manage anxiety becomes all the more important for young adults. By equipping students with tools to help manage anxiety and support their own wellbeing will not only be useful at this stage of life but also going forward in the future.

Managing Anxiety

Anxiety disorders have a profound impact on individuals' lives, but by embracing the power of wellbeing, we can effectively manage anxiety and enhance our overall quality of life. Statistics from the United Kingdom and the United States highlight the prevalence of anxiety and the urgent need for effective strategies. By incorporating exercise, mindfulness, emotional resilience practices, and fostering social support, we can empower ourselves to navigate anxiety's challenges.

Prioritizing wellbeing is an empowering step toward a calmer, more fulfilling life whatever stage of life we are in; knowing the framework of maintaining a positive wellbeing is therefore a skill that will be relevant through out every stage of our life.

Inspired and want to find out more?

Why not contact us to find out how we can support your colleagues with year round wellbeing initiatives to support colleague mental health and physical wellbeing.

To recap you can read our previous blogs about wellbeing

GET OUTSIDE TO FEEL GREAT

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 14:49:55 GMT

Get Outside!

An Easy Life Tonic - Get Outside!

Whatever season it is - getting outside is a simple way to help boost your mental health, mood and general sense of wellbeing.

As with many of our tonics - it's free to do and only needs you to find time to get outside. As the days get longer, hopefully there are more opportunities to find time to get outside and experience the benefits of being out in the fresh air (and hopefully sunshine).

Taking the time to get some sunlight can be an important of our personal selfcare routine with a selection of benefits.

Below, we've listed 5 benefits of spending time outside.

Probably the best news is that you can start experiencing the benefits of being outside by spending as little as 20 minutes each day in the open air. If only 20 minutes can offer these benefits then hopefully you can find time to be outside be it as part of your commute, walking to the shops or doing other errands.

5 Benefits of Spending Time Outside

Boost Your Mood and Reduce Stress

Sunlight triggers the release of serotonin, often referred to as the "happy hormone." Increased serotonin levels are associated with improved mood and a sense of wellbeing. Exposure to sunlight also helps regulate the body's production of melatonin, a hormone that influences sleep, leading to better stress management and improved sleep quality.

Vital Source of Vitamin D

Sunlight is our natural source of Vitamin D, a crucial nutrient that plays a vital role in maintaining strong bones, supporting the immune system, and regulating mood. Adequate Vitamin D levels are linked to a lower risk of various chronic diseases, including cardiovascular issues and certain types of cancers.

Improved Sleep Patterns

Exposure to natural light, especially in the morning, helps regulate our circadian rhythm. This, in turn, promotes healthier sleep patterns. A well-regulated sleep-wake cycle is essential for optimal cognitive function, mood stability, and overall physical health.

Enhanced Cognitive Function

Sunlight exposure has been linked to improved cognitive function and reduced risk of cognitive decline as we age. The combination of Vitamin D and serotonin produced through sunlight exposure contributes to better focus, concentration, and overall cognitive performance.

Immune System Support

Vitamin D is a powerful ally for the immune system. It enhances the pathogen-fighting effects of monocytes and macrophages — crucial components of the immune defense system — reducing the risk of infections and supporting overall immune health.

Getting Outside - A final thought...

...bringing it back to My Life Tonics. Getting enough sunshine each day is another example of optimizing the resources we have around us to make a positive impact on our physical wellbeing and mental health.

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1ST PILLAR OF WELLBEING

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 14:25:36 GMT

Connecting with others

1st Pillar of Wellbeing

Social interaction with others is so important to us as individuals; be it with friends, family, team mates, work colleagues or the wider community.

In the case of the photo, this a group of people that train (or run) regularly throughout the year and get together every Christmas Eve morning for a 20km or 5km run. It's a wonderful way to raise money for a local charity and also get together and kick of the Christmas period.

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"The most important things in life are the connections you make in life"

Tom Ford

Why connecting with others is important

Interactions provide a sense of emotional connection and sense of community.

In fact, loneliness is one of the biggest factors that can affect our own mental health and wellbeing. Traditionally connecting with others was done face to face, enjoying a hobby with others or volunteering, however, online interactions can also provide the same connection. Certainly through lock down, our son really benefited from being able to connect with friends playing games online.

The key point is finding a community that enable a positive sense of interaction.

Looking for inspiration on ways to connect with people?

Why not try:

Dedicating time with your family at mealtimes or during the weekend
Catching up with friends
Turn off the TV and play a game or cards
Have lunch with a colleagues (and try not to talk about work)
Visit a friend that may need support
Volunteer at a local organisation, charity or sports club that you feel passionate about, or who could do with some support
Use technology to keep in contact with people not close by
Speak to someone rather than sending an email

If you'd like to read more about the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing visit a previous post.

WELLNESS PROGRAMS AND PRESENTEEISM

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 14:19:06 GMT

What is Presenteeism?

And why it's important to address it...

Presenteeism sounds like a relatively new concept but one that has probably been around forever....the time when people come to work but are not actually that productive. It maybe that you maybe struggling with presenteeism yourself and haven't recognised the signs. Alternatively, it maybe that presenteeism has become an issue at your place of work.

If this is the case, there there are ways to address it to help motivate and engage with colleagues more effectively. Before looking at ways to address the issue, let's look at some of the signs.

Potential signs of presenteeism

Low morale
Burnout
Boredom
Lack of appreciation
Reduced productivity
Poor decision making

None of the above behaviours are good or productive for any organisation - whatever the size.

If you think presenteeism is affecting your team or business offering a wellbeing program can certainly help.

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6 Benefits Of Establishing A Wellbeing Program

Establishing a focus on wellbeing program can have the positive impact, reducing presenteeism by

Creating a caring workplace culture
Promoting wellness with a variety of initiatives such as regular online yoga, group classes or challenges
Offering flexible working practices - be it hybrid, flexible or remote working options
Encouraging colleagues to 'connect' with each other
Providing learning opportunities from both a personal and professional perspective
Creating an environment that supports self care. Having a senior member of the organisation taking an active role can really help this and show that it is a valued and important initiative

At My Life Tonic we offer support to assist the ongoing physical and mental health of colleagues, whilst also providing the frameworks to ensure that the positive steps taken become part of a established routine in their day to day lives.

OXYTOCIN MATTERS

Fri, 03 Jan 2025 11:13:20 GMT

Oxytocin - Why Connecting With Others Really Matters

The Role of Oxytocin in Wellbeing

Oxytocin is fundamentally linked to social bonding and emotional well-being. Here are some key areas where oxytocin impacts our lives:

Emotional Bonding and Relationships: Oxytocin is crucial for forming and maintaining social bonds. It facilitates feelings of trust, empathy, and emotional connection between individuals. This is particularly evident in parent-child relationships, romantic partnerships, and friendships.
Stress Reduction: Oxytocin helps to mitigate stress by reducing the levels of cortisol, the primary stress hormone. This creates a calming effect, promoting relaxation and reducing anxiety. You could also read our blog on Stress and Wellbeing .
Mental Health: Elevated levels of oxytocin are associated with lower rates of depression and anxiety. It contributes to emotional stability and a positive mood, helping to alleviate symptoms of mental health disorders.
Physical Health: Beyond its emotional benefits, oxytocin also has physical health advantages. It can promote wound healing and reduce inflammation, contributing to overall physical wellbeing.
Social Behavior: Oxytocin enhances social interactions by increasing feelings of generosity and kindness. It fosters a sense of belonging and improves social dynamics, making interactions more rewarding and meaningful. Why not read our blog in the importance of kindness .

With the range of benefits associated with oxytocin, surely the next question has to be - how can we either maintain or even improve our oxytocin levels?

10 Ways to Boost Oxytocin Levels

Physical Touch: Physical touch is one of the most effective ways to release oxytocin. Hugs, holding hands, cuddling, and even a pat on the back can trigger the release of this hormone. Regular physical affection with loved ones can strengthen bonds and enhance emotional wellbeing.
Social Interactions: Engaging in positive social interactions, such as spending time with friends and family, participating in group activities, and forming new social connections, can stimulate oxytocin production. Meaningful conversations and shared experiences enhance social bonding and emotional health. A sense of connection or community is one of the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing so it's not a surprise that social connections (and oxytocin) are important.
Acts of Kindness: Performing acts of kindness, whether through volunteering, helping a friend, or offering support to someone in need, can increase oxytocin levels. These acts promote feelings of empathy and connectedness, enhancing both the giver's and receiver's well-being.
Eye Contact: Maintaining eye contact during conversations can enhance the release of oxytocin. This simple yet powerful act fosters trust and deepens emotional connections.
Pets: Interacting with pets, particularly through petting or playing, can boost oxytocin levels. The bond between humans and their pets provides a sense of comfort and reduces stress, promoting overall well-being. You have noticed Missy, our Golden Labrador is an important member of My Life Tonic!
Exercise: Engaging in regular physical activity, especially group exercises like yoga, dancing, or team sports, can stimulate oxytocin release. Exercise also reduces stress and improves mood, contributing to emotional health. Finding 20 minutes a day for exercise will stimulate the release of oxytocin.
Mindfulness and Meditation: Practices such as mindfulness and meditation can enhance oxytocin levels by promoting relaxation and reducing stress. These practices encourage a sense of inner peace and emotional balance.
Laughter: Sharing a good laugh with others can trigger the release of oxytocin. Laughter strengthens social bonds and promotes a positive mood, enhancing emotional well-being.
Music: Listening to soothing music or participating in musical activities like singing in a choir can increase oxytocin levels. Music has a profound effect on emotions and can foster a sense of connection and joy.
Healthy Relationships: Building and maintaining healthy, supportive relationships is crucial for sustained oxytocin production. Positive interactions and a nurturing environment contribute to long-term emotional health.

In Summary

Oxytocin is a powerful hormone that significantly influences our emotional and physical well-being.

By understanding its role in promoting social bonds, reducing stress, and enhancing overall health, we can take proactive steps to naturally boost its levels. Incorporating practices such as physical touch, positive social interactions, acts of kindness, and mindfulness into our daily lives can help us harness the benefits of oxytocin, leading to a happier, healthier, and more connected life.

Embrace these natural methods to nurture your well-being and foster deeper connections with those around you.

BENEFITS GETTING OUTSIDE

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 15:38:37 GMT

Benefits Of Spending 20 Minutes Outside Each Day

Spend at least 20 minutes outside every day - sounds like a pretty simple and easy think to do doesn't it?

Dedicating as little as 20 minutes to being outside can be a game-changer for our physical and mental wellbeing. You may have come across it being called 'Ecotherapy' but essentially the message is that spending time outside can be good for us - wherever you live.

Sometimes, when we are trying to make changes, it can be easy to find reasons not to get outside - the weather, the season, you live in a city without a large open space close by....or your just busy. I'd like to think that wherever we live there's the chance to find some space to be outside.

Wherever you are - getting outside - has can really help you mental and physical health.

At My Life Tonic we aim to offer suggestions that require a little bit of time, and as little cost as possible , that can change the way you feel and make a difference to your daily routine. Spending time outside is certainly one of those suggestions.

I've chosen the images below, as I'd like to think that it highlights how spending a bit of time outside can give you a different perspective on what is around you. Both photos are taken from pretty much the same place but have very different feels to them.

7 Benefits Of Spending Time Outside

Vitamin D Boost - Exposure to natural sunlight for just 22 minutes a day provides a significant dose of vitamin D. It's an essential vitamin is crucial for bone health, immune function, and overall wellbeing.
Stress Reduction - Spending time outdoors, whether in a park or talking a walk at lunch, can lower cortisol levels, reduce stress, and promote a sense of calm and relaxation.
Increased Energy Levels - A short outdoor break can boost your energy levels. The combination of fresh air and physical activity stimulates the release of endorphins, leaving you feeling more alert and ready for whatever is next in your day.
Improved Mood - Nature has a positive impact on mental health. As little as 20 minutes in a green space can elevate mood, reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression, and contribute to an overall sense of wellbeing. Doctors in Scotland have even started prescribing 'eco-therapy' to patients.
Enhanced Creativity - Stepping outside allows your mind to wander, or switch off from what has been occupying your mind and promotes creative thinking. Whether it's a quiet stroll or simply observing nature can allow your mind to switch off and maybe find a different perspective to whatever is occupying your mind.
Better Sleep Quality - Exposure to natural light during the day helps regulate circadian rhythms, promoting better sleep quality. A brief outdoor break can contribute to a more restful night's sleep; and can help you get your recommended 7 hours of sleep every night.
Physical Activity - Whether it's a brisk walk, a gentle jog, or a bit of stretching, dedicating time outdoors encourages physical activity. Whatever your preference a regular routine contributes to overall fitness and supports a healthy lifestyle.

Tips Help You Spend More Time Outside

Include time outside as part of your commute - so it's part of your daily activities
Agree to get outside with a friend, family member or colleague
Find a regular time to 'get outside'
'Get it out of the way' - I enjoy getting my exercise or time outside early in the morning
Do what works for you - listen to a podcast, the radio or enjoy the sounds around you
Combing with taking your pet out for a walk
Explore you local area - we were spent the afternoon exploring some of the London Parks as a family with Missy
Hopefully you'll agree that some of the Life Tonics that we suggested over the last few weeks have very little cost. In this case, establishing a new habit is more about finding (or making) the time in your day.
Spending time outside is another one of those Life Tonics.
Give it a try and see how it goes I certainly know that taking walks to break up a busy day helps me reset and refocus.

WELLBEING - LEARNINGS FROM JAPAN

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 15:38:36 GMT

Ikigai: Finding Purpose and Well-Being in the Japanese Way of Life

As a continuation of learning how different countries / cultures have developed ways to uniquely look after their own wellbeing, I thoroughly enjoyed the book - Ikiigai - The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life. This was also complimented with watching 'Live to 100 - The Secrets of Blue Zones.

To clarify - the purpose, in my mind, of wellbeing is not to live to 100 but to understand what underpins people living longer.

Back to the Japanese concept of Ikigai that provides a framework for individuals to find their own purpose in life that enables a sense of wellbeing.

Understanding Ikigai

Ikigai, a Japanese term that roughly translates to "a reason for being" or "a reason to wake up in the morning," is a multifaceted concept that integrates elements of passion, vocation, mission, and profession.

At its core, Ikigai represents the convergence of what you love, what you are good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for.

It's the sweet spot where these four elements intersect, creating a sense of purpose and satisfaction. Having understood this perspective, I use this as a reference point for my own purpose and that of My Life Tonic.

What You Love (Your Passion): This is the first element of Ikigai, encompassing activities and pursuits that bring you joy and fulfillment. It's about identifying what makes you feel content and what you genuinely enjoy doing.
What You Are Good At (Your Vocation): The second element involves recognizing your skills, talents, and areas of expertise. It's about understanding what you excel at and acknowledging the unique strengths you bring to the table.
What the World Needs (Your Mission): Ikigai extends beyond personal fulfillment; it also considers the impact you can have on the world. This element encourages individuals to explore ways their skills and passions can address societal needs and contribute positively.
What You Can Be Paid For (Your Profession): The final element brings a pragmatic aspect to Ikigai, considering the economic aspect of one's pursuits. It involves finding a way to monetize your passions and skills, ensuring financial stability and sustainability.

The intersection of these four elements forms the Ikigai diagram, representing the harmonious balance that leads to a life of purpose, fulfillment, and well-being.

Ikigai And Wellbeing

Purpose and Meaning

Ikigai encourages introspection and self-discovery to identify the activities and pursuits that bring genuine joy and satisfaction. By aligning your passion, vocation, mission, and profession, you can unearth a deeper sense of purpose and meaning in your life.

Balancing Personal Fulfillment and Making a Difference

One of the broader aspects of Ikigai is its emphasis on contributing to the greater good. By identifying how your passions and skills can meet societal needs, you create a sense of purpose that extends beyond personal gratification. This balance between personal fulfillment and sense of wider contribution is integral to holistic wellbeing. In the context of My Life Tonic, the sense of supporting people make changes combines the sense of purpose with also making a difference.

‍Nurturing Yourself

Ikigai recognizes that true well-being is not just about financial success or personal achievements but involves nurturing every aspect of the self. By incorporating passion, vocation, mission, and profession into your daily life, you create a holistic approach to self-care that nourishes your mind, body, and soul.

Embracing Lifelong Learning

Ikigai is an ongoing process that encourages continuous learning and growth. By acknowledging that passions and skills can evolve over time, Ikigai enables us to embrace change, stay curious, and remain open to new possibilities, fostering a mindset of continuous improvement. I keep returning to the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing - of which ongoing learning is one - Keep Learning or Problem Solving.

Cultivating Resilience

Ikigai instills a sense of resilience by encouraging individuals to pursue what they love, even in the face of challenges. This resilience stems from the alignment of personal passions with professional pursuits, creating a buffer against the inevitable hardships of life. Resilience, or Sisu in Finnish, acknowledges how overcoming obstacles has a positive impact on our wellbeing.

Fostering Connection and Community‍

Ikigai acknowledges the importance of relationships and community in the pursuit of wellbeing. By contributing to the needs of the world, individuals create connections and a sense of belonging that enhances their overall happiness and life satisfaction. The first Pillar of Wellbeing, shared previously in a blog post, is focused on Connecting with Others .

Practical Steps To Try Ikigai:

Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your passions, skills, and what brings you joy. Identify activities that make you lose track of time and engage in introspective practices like journaling to uncover patterns.
Explore New Opportunities: Be open to trying new things and exploring areas beyond your comfort zone. Experiment with different activities and pursuits to discover what resonates with you.
Identify Core Values: Understand your core values and beliefs. Aligning your pursuits with your values contributes to a sense of authenticity and purpose.
Seek Feedback: Reach out to friends, family, or mentors for feedback on your skills and strengths. Sometimes, others can provide valuable insights that you might not see in yourself.
Set Small Goals: Break down your Ikigai exploration into small, achievable goals. Celebrate small victories and use them as stepping stones toward a more purposeful life.

From my perspective, Ikigai provides a unique philosophy or framework that helps provides context - purpose, vocation, mission and profession.

As we've also seen several of the elements that underpin the framework are found in other applications of wellbeing. It's this that I find particularly interesting - in that different countries (or cultures) have independently applied the same principles in their pursuit of wellbeing.

What do you think?

SAVOURING AND WELLBEING

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 15:38:34 GMT

Savouring - a way to help your wellbeing

Firstly, the best place to start is probably by understanding what savouring is, and how it ties in with previous posts on wellbeing. I was reminded of the concept of savouring during my recent completion of the Science of Wellbeing run by Yale University. (If you are keen to find out more this free online class is worth your while).

In my mind, savouring, the act of fully immersing ourselves in the present moment to appreciate and enjoy life's positive experiences, holds a unique magic that can elevate our lives in profound ways. With this definition in mind, Savouring falls into the 'Mindful' Pillar of Wellbeing that I have shared previously. In this blog, we'll delve into what savouring is, why it's important, and the array of benefits it brings to our mental and emotional well-being.

Savouring Explained

Savouring isn't merely about consuming food or drink in a leisurely manner. It extends far beyond that, encompassing a mindset and practice that invites us to indulge in the simple pleasures and joys that life offers. It's about pausing, stopping to take some time out to appreciate the beauty of a sunset, a conversation with a friend, or the intricate details of a moment that may go unnoticed.

Savouring encompasses a variety of dimensions, each adding its own nuance to the experience:

Sensory Savouring

Engaging all five senses in the experience amplifies its richness. Whether it's the taste of a sumptuous meal, the touch of a loved one's hand, or the aroma of fresh flowers, sensory engagement deepens our connection to the present moment.

Temporal Savouring

Taking a step back to acknowledge the impermanence of experiences can intensify their value. Realizing that moments are fleeting encourages us to appreciate them more deeply. An obvious example would be a holiday or time with loved ones.

Social Savouring

Sharing positive experiences with others magnifies their impact. Relishing laughter, shared stories, and bonding moments can create lasting memories and strengthen relationships.

Emotional Savouring

Acknowledging and expressing our feelings enhances the experience. Allowing ourselves to feel joy, gratitude, and contentment amplifies the positive emotions associated with the moment.

7 Benefits of Savouring

Having outline what savouring is, it's certainly worth sharing some of the benefits you can experience.

1. Enhanced Positive Emotions

Savouring infuses everyday life with positive emotions, fostering an atmosphere of joy, contentment, and gratitude. By immersing ourselves fully in the positive aspects of our experiences, we can lift our spirits and elevate our overall mood.

2. Reduced Stress and Anxiety

The practice of savouring acts as a respite from the relentless worries of life. Engaging in the present moment can alleviate stress and reduce anxiety, providing a mental oasis of calm.

3. Improved Mental Well-being

Savouring encourages mindfulness, a practice closely linked to improved mental health. As we cultivate mindfulness through savoring, we become more attuned to our emotions, thoughts, and surroundings, promoting greater self-awareness and emotional regulation.

4. Deepened Relationships

Sharing savouring experiences with loved ones enhances our connections. Mutual appreciation and shared joy create bonds that can strengthen relationships and foster a sense of belonging.

4. Boosted Resilience

Engaging in savouring during challenging times can bolster our resilience. By actively seeking out positive experiences and focusing on their positive aspects, we can build a buffer against adversity.

6. Increased Life Satisfaction

Savouring life's treasures adds layers of meaning and satisfaction to our existence. When we take the time to appreciate the beauty in the everyday, we develop a more positive outlook on life.

7. Mindful Living

Savouring encourages us to be present, fully engaged, and attentive to the world around us. This mindful approach to living allows us to extract more value from each moment and creates a sense of connection to the present.

5 Tips To Help You Savour

Savouring is a skill that can be cultivated with practice and intention. Here are a few tips to help you infuse savoring into your daily life:

Slow Down: Resist the urge to rush through experiences. Pause, breathe, and take in the details.
Engage Your Senses: Fully experience the moment by engaging all your senses. What do you see, hear, taste, touch, and smell?
Express Gratitude: Vocalize or write down what you're grateful for in the moment. This deepens your appreciation and magnifies positive feelings.
Capture Memories: Take photos, keep a journal, or simply mentally note the positive experiences you've savored. These mementos can be revisited later for a boost of positivity.
Practice Mindfulness: Incorporate mindfulness techniques into your routine to enhance your ability to savor.

Savouring - A Summary

In a world that frequently propels us forward, savouring calls us to linger in the present, to embrace life's small joys, and to revel in the variety of experiences that shape our existence. By consciously practicing savouring, we open the door to a life that's more vibrant, more meaningful, and more deeply appreciated.

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Other blogs on Wellbeing

To recap you can read our previous blogs

UNWANTING AND WELLBEING

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 15:38:33 GMT

Could Unwanting Help Your Wellbeing

Sometimes the ongoing need for more that will 'make us happy' can feel relentless – more possessions, more achievements, more experiences. Indeed, the list can be endless or never ending and even an elusive endeavor. If the end game is to feel happy then maybe it can feel that the goalposts keep moving when what you thought would bring you happiness no longer does.

In terms of happiness - ultimately, what I am really thinking about is the long term happiness, an ongoing sense of contentment and wellbeing.

Perhaps, the key to true happiness may lie not in accumulating more, but in the art of "unwanting." This is a term I was introduced to whilst taking the Science of Wellbeing course offered by Yale University. It struck a cord as something worth sharing.

Unwanting is a process that challenges us to examine our desires, strip away unnecessary attachments, and embrace the profound contentment that comes from within. In this blog, I've put together my thoughts on unwanting and the ways that it can help us get closer to the elusive goal of happiness.

We all want to be 'happy'

I think that it's fair to say that we all want to be happy. What that means to one person will obviously vary to another, but being happy (in what ever form it takes) is probably something we can all agree on. Being happy or achieving happiness is can be easier said that done. We might seek it in material possessions, career advancements, or even in the approval of others. However, the joy created from these external sources tends to be only short term, potentially leaving us yearning for more.

Accumulating Happiness

In today's society it seems that we have become conditioned to believe that happiness is found in the accumulation of possessions and achievements. This mindset fosters a cycle of perpetual wanting, where each acquisition gives way to the desire for something newer or grander. However, this pursuit can lead to a never-ending chase that distances us from the present moment and the true essence of contentment; feeling like we are on a 'hamster wheel' seems an accurate anology here. Working hard to achieve happiness but not seemingly get there...

The Process of Unwanting

Unwanting is not about renouncing desires altogether, but rather about cultivating discernment and prioritizing what truly matters. It involves shedding attachments that don't align with our core values and focusing on the experiences, relationships, and pursuits that genuinely contribute to our well-being. As a yoga teacher, we sometimes talk about non-attachment. In my mind unwanting is slightly different in that we are deliberating choosing what we do or do not want very consciously.

1. Self-Reflection

The process of unwanting begins with introspection. Take time to reflect on your desires and their origins. Are they driven by societal pressures, comparison, or a genuine alignment with your aspirations?

2. Detachment

Embrace the art of detachment – the ability to let go of attachments that no longer serve your growth or happiness. This might involve decluttering physical spaces, releasing emotional baggage, or reframing your relationship with material possessions.

3. Cultivating Presence

Unwanting encourages us to be present in the here and now. When we're fully engaged in the present moment, we're less consumed by thoughts of what we lack or desire. This particularly ties in nicely with the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing - Being Mindful or present.

4. Gratitude

Practicing gratitude shifts our focus from what's missing to what's abundant in our lives. Regularly acknowledging the blessings we have fosters a sense of contentment that can counteract the relentless pursuit of more. One of the ways we can do this is by regularly Journaling and it's associated benefits of journaling.

5. Embracing Simplicity

Simplifying your life can be a profound step in the process of unwanting. Embrace the beauty of minimalism and prioritize experiences over possessions. I appreciate that this can easier said than done!

6. Prioritizing Relationships

Genuine connections and meaningful relationships are among life's most valuable treasures. Invest your time and energy in nurturing these bonds instead of chasing after material gains. Being part of a community- by connecting with others is another of the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing.

7. Seeking Fulfillment

Redirect your pursuits toward activities that bring you joy, fulfillment, and a sense of purpose. Engage in hobbies, creative pursuits, or acts of service that resonate with your passions. Volunteering, by giving your time, maybe an area you are able to share you knowledge or skill that generates a sense of fulfilment.

Benefits of Unwanting

The process of unwanting is not always easy, but it can have an impact. Perhaps just being aware of unwanting can help change mindsets.

Freedom: Unshackling yourself from the cycle of perpetual wanting liberates you from the burden of constantly striving for more.

Contentment: Embracing the practice of unwanting nurtures a deeper sense of contentment that stems from within, rather than relying on external circumstances.

Clarity: Shedding unnecessary desires creates mental clarity and allows you to focus on what truly aligns with your values and aspirations.

Present-Moment Awareness: Unwanting encourages mindfulness and presence, allowing you to fully engage in each moment without being preoccupied by future desires.

Deeper Connections: Prioritizing relationships and meaningful experiences cultivates deeper connections with others and brings a sense of belonging and fulfillment.

Does unwanting make sense to you?

It maybe that as a new concept, unwanting offers a counterintuitive or potentially different path to happiness. It invites us to shift our gaze from external possessions to internal contentment, from chasing after the next desire to finding fulfillment in the present moment. The process of unwanting is a potential journey that you may or may not feel ready to start now or at some point in the future. If nothing else, I hope it's a concept that may have at least peaked your interest.

Other blogs on Wellbeing

To recap you can read our previous blogs

5 Pillars of Wellbeing
1st Pillar of Wellbeing - Connecting with others
2nd Pillar of Wellbeing - Be Physically Active
3rd Pillar of Wellbeing - Learning
4th Pillar of Wellbeing - Giving
5th Pillar of Wellbeing - Being Mindful

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WELLBEING - A FINNISH TAKE

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 15:38:32 GMT

A Finnish Take on Wellbeing

For 6 consecutive years, Finland has been ranked as the happiest place in the world to live, by the World Happiness Report.

With an increasingly personal interest in what makes us happy, and maintaining a positive mental health and personal wellbeing, I thought it would be interesting to explore a little more about what makes makes the Finnish 'tick' as it were. Obviously there will be many contributing factors but perhaps some of the factors below will help shed some light on the matter.

Also, Sweden and Denmark perhaps have had a higher profile than than Finland with regards to Fika and Hygge, respectively, so is there anything we can learn from Finland?

‍1. Sisu...Or Resilience

Sisu is a term that captures the Finnish spirit of resilience, determination, and courage in the face of adversity. It goes beyond persistence; it's a quality that allows individuals to persevere against all odds, no matter how challenging the circumstances. The situations may be on a personal level requiring determination and persistence or wider social context to when they were occupied in the Second World War.

To me, resilience is one of those terms that really came to the fore over the last few years with all the issues associated with lockdown, isolation and uncertainty; be it from a personal perspective or wider social context.

2. Self-Care: Saunas...And More

Self-care is an integral part of Finnish culture, and the sauna is at the heart of this practice. With over two million saunas in the country, it's safe to say that saunas are more than just a pastime; they are a way of life. (Don't just take my word for it; the Guardian recently published The sauna secret: why Finland is the happiest country in the world.

Saunas provide a space for relaxation, contemplation, and socializing. The heat and steam not only cleanse the body but also have help maintain a positive mental wellbeing. The Finnish sauna experience involves cycles of hot and cold, with individuals taking breaks to cool off, either by plunging into icy lakes or rolling in the snow during winter. This contrast is not just invigorating for the body; it also symbolizes a mental and emotional reset.

In case you are not aware, we run several classes each week combining yoga, cold water and saunas; combining physical movement along with time to focus on our own mental health. Contact us if you'd like to find out more.

3. Nature Enabling Wellbeing

In previous posts I've also called this 'Ecotherapy.' Whatever the term we give 'it' - getting out into nature has a positive affect. With forests, lakes and wide open landscapes to the northern lights the connection to nature is more than recreational; it's a way of life that promotes mental health.

The Finnish concept of "Friluftsliv" embodies the therapeutic benefits of spending time outdoors, regardless of the weather. Whether it's a leisurely stroll through the forest, a peaceful kayak trip on a lake, or simply sitting by a campfire, Finns understand the rejuvenating power of nature.

Research supports the idea that spending time in nature can reduce stress, improve mood, and enhance overall mental well-being. Finland's commitment to maintaining public access to nature through the "everyman's right" ensures that this connection remains accessible to all, further promoting a sense of belonging and harmony with the natural world.

4. Cold Water Therapy: A Brave Plunge

In addition to saunas (or in co-ordination with), another unique aspect of Finnish self-care involves cold water therapy. While it might seem counterintuitive to seek out icy waters for relaxation, the practice has significant physical and mental benefits.

Cold water immersion, often in the form of winter swimming or "avantouinti," is a popular activity in Finland. The shock of cold water triggers the release of endorphins, the body's natural mood enhancers, promoting a sense of positiveness and wellbeing. Regular cold water exposure is believed to boost the immune system, improve circulation, and even alleviate symptoms of conditions like anxiety and depression.

Taking a plunge into cold water is not just about physical health; it's also a test of mental resilience. It requires individuals to embrace discomfort and push beyond their comfort zones, aligning with the spirit of sisu. That's not to say that it's easy every time you do it - I know there are some days that I really struggle to get in the cold shower or tub - but having done it I rarely regret it.

Make sure you do it safely - and if you have any questions do get in touch. We have shared some tips on how to start cold water exposure safely in our blog - How to enjoy cold water safely .

A Finnish Approach to Wellbeing

Finland's cultural emphasis on sisu, self-care through saunas and nature connection, along with the invigorating practice of cold water therapy collectively offers a holistic approach to wellbeing both from a physical and mental health perspective.

As the world grapples with the complexities of modern life, Finland's cultural practices offer valuable insights into nurturing a resilient mindset, embracing self-care, and fostering a deep connection to nature. By incorporating elements of sisu, self-care, and nature appreciation into our lives, we can learn from the Finnish blueprint for well-being and strive towards a more balanced and fulfilling existence.

So it's not just the Danish and Swedish that have found local ways of self-care, but the Finnish have their own take on it too. Maybe cold water and saunas could become a part of your self care regime.

WELLBEING & MENTAL HEALTH

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 18:11:05 GMT

WELLBEING AND MENTAL HEALTH

4 Links Between Mental Health And Wellbeing

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In the pursuit of a fulfilling and meaningful life, the importance of wellbeing and mental health cannot be overstated.

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As we navigate the challenges of our fast-paced modern world, prioritizing our mental and emotional well-being has become essential. In this blog, we will explore the numerous benefits of nurturing our mental health, from enhanced overall wellbeing to improved productivity, stronger relationships, and a greater sense of purpose.

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Having started the year, it maybe that you are thinking of initiatives to kick off the new financial year in April. Whatever your situation, we can discuss the support you are looking for and how we can work with you do deliver it.

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1. Improved Overall Wellbeing

Wellbeing encompasses our physical, emotional, and psychological states. Taking care of our mental health positively impacts all aspects of our lives. By adopting healthy coping mechanisms and self-care practices, we can reduce stress, anxiety, and depression. Engaging in activities such as meditation, exercise, and spending time in nature promotes the release of endorphins, which uplift our mood and improve our overall well-being. A healthy mind promotes better sleep, boosts energy levels, and enhances our ability to manage challenges effectively, leading to an increased quality of life.

2. Increased Productivity and Performance

Mental health plays a pivotal role in our productivity and performance, both in personal and professional domains. When we take the time to care for our mental wellbeing, we experience improved concentration, focus, and cognitive abilities. By managing stress and avoiding burnout, we can maintain higher levels of motivation and creativity. Prioritizing mental health encourages better problem-solving skills and decision-making abilities. Moreover, fostering a positive work environment that values mental health promotes employee satisfaction, engagement, and reduces absenteeism. By investing in our mental health, we can unlock our full potential and achieve greater success in all areas of life.

3. Stronger Relationships and Social Connections

Wellbeing and mental health significantly impact our relationships with others. When we prioritize self-care, we are better equipped to maintain healthy connections and nurture meaningful relationships. By managing our emotions and stress levels effectively, we can communicate more clearly and empathetically, leading to improved interpersonal dynamics. Additionally, a positive mindset and self-confidence attract positive relationships into our lives. When we prioritize our mental health, we are more likely to engage in social activities, form new friendships, and experience a sense of belonging and support. Strong social connections are vital for our emotional well-being and provide a network of individuals to rely on during challenging times.

4. Greater Sense of Purpose and Fulfillment

Nurturing our mental health enables us to explore our inner selves, identify our passions, and discover our purpose in life. When we prioritize our wellbeing, we gain clarity about our values, goals, and aspirations. This self-awareness allows us to align our actions with our authentic selves, leading to a greater sense of purpose and fulfillment. Mental well-being empowers us to set meaningful goals and work towards them, fostering personal growth and a sense of achievement. By cultivating a positive mindset and managing negative thoughts, we can overcome obstacles, embrace challenges, and build resilience. This journey towards self-discovery and self-actualization is essential for leading a purpose-driven life.

In Summary

In an increasingly demanding and fast-paced world, prioritizing wellbeing and mental health is crucial for personal growth and overall happiness. The benefits are far-reaching, impacting our well-being, productivity, relationships, and sense of purpose. By investing time and effort into self-care practices, fostering healthy coping mechanisms, and seeking professional support when needed, we can nurture our inner strength and create a life filled with joy, resilience, and fulfillment.

BENEFITS OF 20 MINS EXERCISE

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:31:01 GMT

Do you have a spare 20 minutes in your day?

Did you know that just 20 minutes of exercise per day can benefit your physical and mental wellbeing?

In my mind, it's great knowing that being active for 20 minutes can have such a broad range of benefits. And exercise need not mean heading to the gym or going for an epic bike ride. Being active could mean walking a bit further on your daily commute to walking to the shops. You also needn't have to do it all in 'one block' but try throughout the day as and when you have a moment.

Some of the tips above may seem pretty obvious or simple, however, in our busy lives it may feel hard to carve out the time to dedicate to being active. The point is, if you are able to integrate your activity into your daily routine then you are are more likely to be able to make it an ongoing long term habit .

8 Benefits Of 20 Minutes of Exercise

Boosted Mood and Energy Levels

20 minutes of physical activity releases endorphins, the feel-good hormones, leaving you with a positive outlook and increased energy to conquer your day.

Improved Cardiovascular Health

A short daily workout significantly contributes to a healthier heart. It strengthens your cardiovascular system, lowers blood pressure, and enhances overall circulation, reducing the risk of heart disease.

Enhanced Cognitive Function

Regular physical activity has been linked to improved cognitive function, sharper memory, and increased creativity. So, a workout is great for both your body and your brain.

Better Sleep Quality

Sleep has featured several times in our posts...it's important! A regular (short - 20 mins) exercise routine can be enable a more restful night with better sleep.

Stress Reduction

Exercise acts as a powerful stress reliever, reducing cortisol levels and promoting a sense of calm, offering you an escape from your daily responsibilities.

Weight Management

Whether your goal is shedding a few pounds or simply staying fit, dedicating 20 minutes a day makes a significant impact over time. At MyLifeTonic we look at weight loss more as an added benefit of adopting new habits rather than the goal; however, we are all motivated by different things.

Increased Productivity

Regular exercise has been linked to heightened productivity and improved concentration, helping you get on top of your daily responsibilities.

Long-Term Health Benefits

Establishing a regular exercise routine (or habit) really contributes to overall health, reducing the risk of chronic conditions like diabetes, osteoporosis, and certain cancers.

Finding The Time To Exercise

20 minutes may seem a lot at this point - however, a few simple tips can make it seem more achievable

1. Do it with a friend (to offer support and motivation - when you need it)

2. Do something you enjoy - it will be easier....

3. Find a regular time to do it - maybe a lunchtime walk, walk to work as part of your commute

4. 'Get it out of the way' - I do most of my exercise in the morning for this every reason!Let us know now you get on and hopefully you'll be able to find a regular routine that works for you

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At My Life Tonic we aim to support both the mental and physical health of our clients with a selection of

Weekly live online yoga classes

Over 400 on demand classes

Yoga - vinyasa flow, yin, power and strength classes
Meditation
Breathwork
HIIT & Tone Up sessions

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WELLBEING AND GOING DUTCH

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:24:11 GMT

Going Dutch and Doing Nothing

Hold on...surely this sounds wrong. Can doing nothing be good for our mental health? My Life Tonics are about making changes that will help make us feel better? Can I achieve this by doing nothing?

Life Tonics take all sorts of forms from physical activity to learning new habits. So perhaps learning to nothing can actually be time well spent.

Do 'Niksen'

The Dutch concept of niksen offers a refreshing perspective on mental health and well-being. Niksen, which translates to "doing nothing" or "idleness," encourages us to embrace moments of deliberate inactivity, allowing the mind to wander freely without the pressure of achieving specific goals.

This in turn can have a positive impact on our happiness and contentment.

Understanding Niksen

Niksen is not about laziness or wasting time; rather, it's a deliberate practice of relaxation and letting go of the constant need to be productive. It involves stepping back from the demands of daily life, taking a break from screens and distractions, and simply being present in the moment. Niksen allows the mind to unwind, creating a sense of calm and tranquility.

"Niksen is Niks"

The expression "niksen is niks" captures the essence of niksen – the idea that doing nothing is not only acceptable but also beneficial for mental health. In a society that values productivity and achievement, this concept challenges the notion that constant busyness equates to success or fulfillment. Instead, it encourages individuals to prioritize rest, relaxation, and self-care as essential components of a balanced and healthy lifestyle.

Examples of Niksen in Real Life

Niksen can take many forms, ranging from simple activities to more structured practices. Here are a few examples of how people incorporate niksen into their lives:

Staring out the Window: Taking a few moments to gaze out the window and let your mind wander can be a form of niksen. Observing the world around you without any particular purpose or agenda allows for relaxation and mental rejuvenation.
Sitting in Silence: Finding a quiet space to sit and be present with your thoughts can be a powerful form of niksen. Whether it's in a cozy corner of your home or a peaceful spot in nature, taking time to sit in silence can promote introspection and inner calm.
Mindful Walking: Going for a leisurely stroll without a specific destination in mind can be a form of niksen. Paying attention to the sensations of walking – the feeling of the ground beneath your feet, the rhythm of your breath – can help quiet the mind and promote relaxation.
Engaging in Simple Tasks: Performing mundane tasks like folding laundry, washing dishes, or gardening can also be forms of niksen. By focusing on the present moment and the sensory experience of the task at hand, you can create a sense of mindfulness and relaxation.

Benefits of Niksen for Mental Health

Stress Reduction: Niksen allows the mind to unwind and let go of stressors, promoting relaxation and reducing anxiety.
Increased Creativity: Giving the mind space to wander can stimulate creativity and problem-solving abilities, leading to fresh insights and ideas.
Improved Focus: Taking breaks for niksen can help improve concentration and focus by allowing the brain to recharge and reset.
Enhanced Well-Being: Embracing moments of idleness and relaxation promotes overall well-being by fostering a sense of calm, contentment, and balance.

Niksen offers a valuable antidote to the constant busyness and pressure of our daily routines. By embracing moments of purposeful inactivity, individuals can promote mental health and well-being, fostering a greater sense of peace, creativity, and contentment. Whether it's staring out the window, sitting in silence, or engaging in simple tasks, incorporating niksen into daily life can lead to a happier and more fulfilling existence. As the Dutch say, "niksen is niks" – doing nothing is something when it comes to nurturing our mental health and finding moments of peace in a busy world.

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WELLBEING AND STRESS

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:24:10 GMT

Wellbeing: Managing Stress for a Happier Life

The Impact of Stress on Wellbeing

Stress, if left unaddressed, can have detrimental effects on our physical and mental health.

Chronic stress can lead to conditions such as anxiety disorders, depression, cardiovascular diseases, and weakened immune systems.

According to the American Institute of Stress:

About 77% of people regularly experience physical symptoms caused by stress,

73% report experiencing psychological symptoms.

Prioritizing Wellbeing for Stress Management

Wellbeing practices play a crucial role in managing and mitigating the impact of stress.

Engaging in regular physical exercise, such as walking or yoga, can reduce stress hormones and release endorphins, which boost mood and promote relaxation.

Additionally, practicing mindfulness and meditation has been proven effective in reducing stress levels and improving overall mental health.

In fact, a study published in JAMA Internal Medicine found that mindfulness meditation programs can reduce anxiety and depression by 38%.

The Benefits of Social Support

According to a study conducted by Carnegie Mellon University, social support can reduce the impact of stress on individuals and enhance their resilience.

People with strong social ties are found to have a 50% higher chance of survival during stressful circumstances compared to those who are socially isolated.

Workplace Wellbeing Initiatives

The workplace is a significant source of stress for many individuals. However, organizations that prioritize employee wellbeing can create a healthier and more productive work environment.

According to a survey by the American Psychological Association,

91% of employees in companies that support well-being initiatives feel motivated to do their best work. (increased productivity, reduced presenteeism and absenteeism)
81% reported being more likely to recommend their organization as a good place to work. (Reduced recruitment costs)

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Inspired and want to find out more?

Why not contact us to find out how we can support your colleagues with year round wellbeing initiatives to support colleague mental health and physical wellbeing.

To recap you can read our previous blogs about wellbeing

5 Pillars of Wellbeing
1st Pillar of Wellbeing - Connecting with others
2nd Pillar of Wellbeing - Be Physically Active
3rd Pillar of Wellbeing - Learning
4th Pillar of Wellbeing - Giving
5th Pillar of Wellbeing - Mindful
Why people do yoga
Atomic Habits post

CORTISOL AND STRESS

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:12:11 GMT

Understanding Stress and Cortisol Levels

We hear a lot about stress and the potentially harmful impact it can have on both our mental and physical wellbeing. Cortisol, often referred to the "stress hormone," plays a central role in the body's response to stress.

What is cortisol, and how can we keep its levels in check to promote overall well-being? In this blog I'll share some insights into cortisol whilst exploring ways to lower its levels, and uncover the benefits individuals can experience by managing stress effectively.

What is Cortisol?

Cortisol is a steroid hormone produced by the adrenal glands, located atop the kidneys. It is released in response to stress, whether physical or psychological, to help the body cope with challenging situations. Cortisol influences various physiological processes, including metabolism, immune function, blood pressure regulation, and inflammation response. While cortisol serves as a vital component of the body's stress response system, chronic elevation of cortisol levels can have detrimental effects on health and well-being.

Our health can be significantly, negatively, affected if we have extended periods of raise cortisol levels due to the stressful situations at work or home or at both. From an evolutionary perspective, cortisol levels were a response to a real level of danger. In contrast to our lives in the modern world, raised levels of stress are created not from a physical threat but by 'life' at work or at home.

6 Strategies to Lower Cortisol Levels:

1. Stress Management Techniques

Adopting stress-reduction techniques such as mindfulness meditation, deep breathing exercises, yoga, and progressive muscle relaxation can help lower cortisol levels. These practices promote relaxation, activate the body's natural relaxation response, and mitigate the physiological effects of stress. Um - as yoga teachers these resonate with us!

2. Regular Exercise

Engaging in regular physical activity is an effective way to reduce cortisol levels. Exercise helps dissipate pent-up tension, improves mood, and promotes the release of endorphins, the body's natural stress relievers. Aim for a combination of cardiovascular exercise, strength training, and flexibility exercises for comprehensive stress management. This has always been a way that I have used to help manage stress - however, the 5 Pillars of Wellbeing as also been a great way for me to mix things up a bit and manage my own stress levels. ‍

3. Quality Sleep‍

Prioritizing adequate sleep is crucial for cortisol regulation. Establish a consistent sleep schedule, create a relaxing bedtime routine, and optimize your sleep environment to promote restful sleep. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night to support cortisol balance and overall well-being. You may find our blog- Tips To Get Enough Sleep of interest is sleep is something you struggle with.

4. Healthy Nutrition‍

Consuming a balanced diet rich in whole foods, including fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and healthy fats, can help regulate cortisol levels. Avoid excessive consumption of caffeine, refined sugars, and processed foods, as these can exacerbate stress and cortisol production. Opt for nourishing, nutrient-dense meals to support adrenal health and cortisol balance. Our blog on Healthy Eating Tips is a great place to start if you are looking for some guidance.

5. Mindful Breathing‍

Practicing mindful breathing exercises, such as diaphragmatic breathing or box breathing, can quickly lower cortisol levels and induce relaxation. Simply taking a few deep, slow breaths can activate the body's parasympathetic nervous system, counteracting the effects of stress and cortisol. Breathwork can be relatively easily integrated into our daily routine and help manage our stress levels. You can find out more about the benefits of regular breathwork in our blog - Mental Health Benefits of Breathwork.

6. Social Support‍

Cultivating strong social connections and seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist can help buffer the effects of stress and lower cortisol levels. Sharing concerns, seeking advice, or simply spending quality time with loved ones can promote emotional well-being and resilience in the face of stressors. Every year in February the 'Time To Talk' campaign encourage us to talk about our concerns. Importantly, we need to be able to talk throughout the year...having the conversation is so important and something that has really helped me in the past. In previous posts I've shared how the Swedish Fika provides a way to gather and create a sense of community. Many society's have established ways to encourage a sense of community and way to provide social support.

5 Benefits of Lowering Cortisol Levels

So these reasons or the 'Why' we need to manage our stress levels. 1 in 4 of us experience mental health issues each year - with stress being one of the primary causes. For this reason alone we need to appreciate why it's important to manage our cortisol levels.

1. Reduced Stress and Anxiety‍

Lowering cortisol levels can alleviate feelings of stress, anxiety, and overwhelm. By managing stress effectively, individuals experience greater emotional resilience and a sense of calmness.

2. Improved Sleep Quality‍

Balancing cortisol levels promotes better sleep quality and enhances overall sleep patterns. Individuals experience deeper, more restorative sleep, leading to improved energy levels and cognitive function during the day.

3. Enhanced Immune Function‍

Chronic elevation of cortisol levels can suppress immune function, making individuals more susceptible to infections and illnesses. By lowering cortisol levels, the immune system functions optimally, reducing the risk of illness and promoting overall health.

4. Better Mood and Mental Health‍

Cortisol imbalances are often associated with mood disorders such as depression and anxiety. By managing cortisol levels, individuals experience improved mood, emotional well-being, and mental clarity.

5. Balanced Metabolism and Weight Management

Elevated cortisol levels are linked to increased appetite, cravings for unhealthy foods, and weight gain, particularly around the abdomen. Lowering cortisol levels supports metabolic balance, appetite regulation, and healthy weight management.

And finally...

So, hopefully we have a better understanding that cortisol plays a pivotal role in the body's stress response system, but also that chronic elevation of cortisol levels can have adverse effects on health and well-being. By adopting stress management techniques, prioritizing sleep, engaging in regular exercise, maintaining a healthy diet, practicing mindful breathing, and seeking social support, individuals can lower cortisol levels and reap a myriad of benefits, including reduced stress, improved sleep, enhanced immune function, better mood, and balanced metabolism. Embracing these strategies empowers individuals to cultivate resilience, promote well-being, and thrive in the face of life's challenges.

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10 BENEFITS OF COLD WATER EXPOSURE

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:04:58 GMT

Cold Water - More Than A Fad

Over the last few years, more and more people have been 'doing' cold water exposure; to the point that there have even been celebrity TV shows about it.

Shannon and I first came across 'cold water' when training for triathlons in our wetsuits. Though technically not cold and we were in our wetsuit it certainly was a change from following a black line at the bottom of a heated pool in London's Zone 2.

It's only really been since 2016 when our regular open water swimming season started to stretch earlier, and then later, into the season that we really started to appreciate the benefit of cold water. It's also worth noting that as we got into the water earlier and later in the season, time time spent in the water got shorter.

Ways to 'Get' Cold Water

Cold water therapy can take several different forms depending on what you have access to. If you don't live near the sea or have a cold water tank nearby you can still get the benefits of cold water exposure at home.

If you regularly follow My Life Tonic on social media or read our blogs you'll see that we like to offer ways, or small changes, that are accessible to all that can change the way we feel. Ultimately, by changing the way we feel and help us feel more on top of things, productive or in a better space.

Ultimately - cold water is still cold water.

Shower
Cold Bath
Sea
River or Lake
Ice bath or Tub

From a safety perspective, wherever you are able to get your cold water fix - please do be safe. Certainly when you are starting out, do make sure someone is there to help or supervise you. If you are going outside, finding locations where there are life guards on hand to watch and support you makes the most sensible option.

Start by being in the cold water for about 30 seconds. Build up the length of time you spend in the cold water, over time. As with any new habit - start small and build up gradually.

Spending up to 11 minutes in cold water a week can lead to the benefits listed below.

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10 benefits of cold water therapy (or exposure)

Improved Circulation: Cold water causes blood vessels to constrict, which helps improve overall blood flow and circulation once the body warms up again.
Reduced Muscle Soreness: Cold water immersion helps reduce inflammation and muscle soreness after intense physical activity, promoting faster recovery.
Boosted Immune Function: Exposure to cold water can increase the production of white blood cells and boost the immune system, helping the body fight off infections more effectively.
Enhanced Mental Clarity: Cold water stimulates the release of norepinephrine, a hormone and neurotransmitter that improves focus and mental clarity.
Increased Energy Levels: The invigorating effect of cold water can provide a natural energy boost and reduce feelings of fatigue.
Improved Mood: Cold water exposure triggers the release of endorphins, which are natural mood enhancers that can help reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety.
Enhanced Skin and Hair Health: Cold water helps to close pores and tighten the skin, reducing the appearance of pores and giving skin a smoother look. It also strengthens hair follicles, resulting in shinier and healthier hair.
Stress Reduction: Cold water immersion activates the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting relaxation and reducing stress levels.
Weight Loss and Metabolism Boost: Cold water exposure stimulates brown fat activity, which burns calories to generate heat, potentially aiding in weight loss and increasing metabolism.
Pain Relief: Cold water acts as a natural analgesic, numbing nerve endings and providing relief from pain and inflammation.

Whatever your motivation, I'd like to think that at least one of the above may resonate with you.

When running our Yoga + Cold Water + Sauna sessions below, it is perhaps the cold water element where people get the most immediate buzz or feedback. It maybe this initial buzz that gives students the feedback mechanism they need to come back week after week.

Over time, the buzz continues and people may recognise some of the other benefits too - whilst also becoming more atuned with a regular yoga practice and the benefits that also brings.

Yoga + Cold Water + Sauna sessions

You can either join a class or we can find a time for a private 121 session. If you'd prefer a private session with a group of friends then we can find a time that works for you.

Each of the sessions are 60 minutes long and includes, Breathwork and yoga for the first 30 minutes followed by 2 rounds of cold water and a a sauna. Each class has a maximum of 6 people.

Tuesday afternoon @ 12 noon
Thursday Mornings @ 0830
Friday afternoon @ 12 noon

I've found that offering both yoga + cold water + sauna session have proven popular with a wide range of people. In some cases, people come for the sauna and cold water but then also get to experience the benefits of regular yoga an stretching. Sometimes it can take time to feel the rewards of a regular yoga practice, whilst students immediately experience the benefit of a cold water dip and sauna.

Ultimately, whatever the motivation of a student, the mixed sessions offer multiple ways for an individual to feel 'better'.

If you'd like to find out more, please do get in touch.

To find out more why not read some of our previous blogs

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TEENAGERS HOLIDAY IN MOROCCO

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:04:57 GMT

An Active Family Holiday in Morocco

What a trip for the extended family!

Often, it's hard enough to find dates that work for everyone - let alone find a trip that appeals to 3 generations of a family. I think we managed it this time...so thought I'd share in case you are looking for some inspiration.

If, like our wider family, you have 4 teenagers to think about when planning a holiday, then a tour specifically for them may be something to consider. In July we visited Morocco on an 8 day tour with my mum (aged 78), my brother and his 3 teenage kids and partner along with the 3 of us.

For those of you that know us, none of us, including my mum, are very good at sitting around.

Despite initial, and unfounded, concerns that it may be too hot in July, our 8 day trip to Marrakech and the Sahara was perfect; we got to see a fair amount of the country - both a major city and lots of different landscapes.

Having spent some time in countries like India, Venezuela, Tanzania, Egypt over the years, one of main things that struck me was how relatively safe I felt travelling as group in both the local villages and the center of Marrakech; even when we got lost (see more below).

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Activities in Morocco For Teenagers

Each day the duration of our private bus journey varied, but it meant that we were able to visit somewhere new each day. If we didn't want to do any of the extra activities, there was always a pool for us to hang out in, recharge or just read a book.

We have a wonderful guide that gave us plenty of information about our destinations and what is going on within the country itself. One thing that struck me was the various languages used throughout the country- depending on where you are; from English, French, Spanish, Arabic to Berber.

At each location there were opportunities to purchase local souvenirs - though at the end of the trip there are plenty of opportunities to find a momento for your trip.

Some Highlights from our tour

Atlas Film Studio, Ouarzazate where block busters like Gladiator and Games of Thrones was filmed
Quad Biking over rough terrain along with getting up close to some of the bigger film sets (think fortes featured in Game of Thrones)
Camel safari and camping in a Berber camp in the Sahara Desert in Merzouga
Surfing the Sahara - a few attempts on boarding down the dunes - certainly something i want to do again!
Visiting Todra Gorge and exploring the local village
Visiting 'Kasbah' Amridil - local forts (trying reading Kasbah without starting to sing the song)
Exploring UNESCO World Heritage site Ait Bebgaddou - of both Game of Thrones and Gladiator fame (the small stadium where Maximus started his gladiatorial fighting)
Taking a hot air balloon to see the sun rise over the Atlas Mountains
Getting lost and exploring Marrakech and medina

Getting Lost in Marrakech

On our first evening back in Marrakech we found a Bendir Roof Top Terrace online. Taking a taxi we unfortunately were not aware that there was no way they could drop us off at the entrance. 600 m away from the final destination, without any clear directions we were let loose by our drivers. What could possibly go wrong?

Yes, there were some nerves and maybe some cross words as group were herded to the restaurant. It really was the blind leading the blind. For me this was probably one of the most worthwhile experiences of the trip. The activities were great - but it was good for the teenagers to really push their comfort zone.

Yes - we were in a strange place and

Yes - we were certainly lost

Yes - it was starting to get dark

But what I think it really did was to show them that there is nothing wrong with getting a bit lost (and the phones didn't work and couldn't help us). In fact, the whole occasion made the arrival to the roof top bar all the more special.

I loved it and think the experience will be one that will stand them in good stead for future travels in unfamiliar surroundings. Personally, I think it was the fear of the unknown creates fear. Fortunately the back streets of Marrakech's medina feels a pretty safe place to get lost.

Travelling to Morocco

Despite our bags not arriving in Marrakech until after we had left, this one bump certainly didn't spoil our holiday. We were able to buy the bare essentials for the trip; which in fact showed how you travel on the bare minimum. (Wish us luck for trying to claim back the expenses for the clothes from the Airline). One thing I would suggest is flying direct rather than having a change over (this was not our preferred choice but BA cancelled our outbound flights from LHR at short notice leaving us little choice).

Morocco - A Great Place To Explore

In summary - yet it was hot in the middle of July, but we spent probably the hottest part of the day travelling in the bus, so that when we got to our next location it was more comfortable to explore.

Both the location and the activities available were highlights - as was the chance to do new things with the family. My mum became slightly obsessed with finding ATM's to withdraw money, whilst we were also constantly on the hunt for a pharmacy; both of which were accommodated by our understanding guide...

Thanks to Nomadic Tours for organising such a great trip - we all loved the experience and the time to hang out as an extended family - not something we get the opportunity to do all that often.

Certainly both a tour and a location to consider if you are wanting to explore somewhere new combined with plenty of things to do.

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10 BENEFITS OF SAUNAS

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:04:55 GMT

The Positive Affect of Saunas

If you are anything like me, saunas used to be something I would do on holiday, on a weekend away, as and when there was one available close by. However, over the last 12 months or so, it certainly seems that the health and wellbeing benefits are being more widely acknowledged.

As you may know, we now have a sauna at home and are regular enjoyers of a saunas. We tend to take saunas along with a cold water dip- however, in this post, I'm only going to focus on the benefits of saunas. In a previous post, I've outlined the Finish take on wellbeing . Taking saunas are an integral element to how the Finish maintain a positive wellbeing, in spite of the longer, darker winters. Finland is also regularly featured in top 5 of the happiest places to live. Perhaps they've been onto something for a while and the wider world is slowly catching on.

If you are interested to join one of our yoga / cold water / sauna sessions please do get in touch or see our schedule below.

10 Benefits of Saunas

Saunas offer a wide range of health benefits, both immediate and long-term, which help contribute to a person's overall well-being.

Improved Circulation: Sauna heat causes blood vessels to dilate, increasing blood flow and improving circulation throughout the body.
Muscle Relaxation: Heat from the sauna helps relax muscles and relieve tension, reducing muscle soreness and promoting faster recovery after exercise.
Detoxification: Sweating in the sauna aids in flushing out toxins and impurities from the body through the skin, supporting overall detoxification.
Stress Relief: The heat and relaxation in a sauna promote the release of endorphins, which are natural mood lifters, reducing stress and promoting relaxation.
Skin Cleansing: Saunas help cleanse the skin by opening pores and flushing out dirt, oils, and dead skin cells, resulting in improved skin tone and texture.
Enhanced Immune System: Regular sauna use can stimulate the production of white blood cells, enhancing immune response and helping the body fight off infections.
Cardiovascular Benefits: Sauna sessions can improve cardiovascular health by increasing heart rate and improving circulation, which can help lower blood pressure over time.
Improved Respiratory Function: The heat and steam in saunas can open up airways, ease breathing, and provide relief for respiratory conditions like asthma and bronchitis.
Pain Relief: Sauna heat can alleviate joint pain and arthritis symptoms by increasing blood flow to affected areas and promoting relaxation of muscles and joints.
Better Sleep: The relaxation and stress reduction induced by sauna sessions can help improve sleep quality and promote deeper, more restful sleep patterns.

Incorporating sauna sessions into your wellness routine can provide a wide range of health benefits, from physical relaxation and detoxification to improved cardiovascular health and enhanced overall well-being. As individuals, our experiences will be unique; however, you are likely to experience several of the above benefits following a sauna.

If the only benefit was to help improve your sleep, then surely that must be a good thing with all the associated benefits of getting enough sleep .

Yoga + Cold Water + Sauna sessions

You can either join a class or we can find a time for a private 121 session. If you'd prefer a private session with a group of friends then we can find a time that works for you.

Each of the sessions are 60 minutes long and includes, Breathwork and yoga for the first 30 minutes followed by 2 rounds of cold water and a a sauna. Each class has a maximum of 6 people.

Thursday Mornings @ 0830
Friday afternoon @ 12 noon
Friday afternoon @ 1330

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Ultimately, whatever the motivation of a student, the mixed sessions offer multiple ways for an individual to feel 'better'.

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If you'd like to find out more, please do get in touch.

LOVE TRAILS

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:04:54 GMT

More than a festival...

In summary - What an epic weekend!

We've not been to too many festivals; partly because we like to be active and hadn't found something that excited us. When we came across Love Trails , everything about it seemed to tick all boxes. Most people seemed to go to the festival because they like running (or walking) various distances. However, like everyone - we (runners) also have plenty of other interests too!

Running, Yoga, Inspirational Talks, Workshops, Breathwork (and a lot more) along with live music each night and plenty of different food options all set in the beautiful surroundings of the Gower Peninsular at Weobley Castle .

What really struck me was how well the organisers used the landscape to really fit in all the different activities without it feeling too spread out or overwhelming (particularly for a new festival goer).

Needless to say it didn't disappoint, we had a fantastic long weekend

Unsurprisingly, if camping isn't your thing then you can glamp, bring a campervan or stay in a local B&B.

So much to do...how to fit it all in?

Some of the activities below were additional costs to the entry ticket as you may expect. However, there were plenty of free yoga, meditation and breathwork sessions you could simply drop into. If the tent was full, people simply spilled outside. Everyone seemed to be genuinely interested to give things a go, try something new or just enjoy being outside doing something they love.

As an example of the wide range of people that we came across - our son met one of his school teachers, young couples to adult families taking time to share their passion of being outside.

With so much going on, it takes a bit of planning to make sure you don't miss out - but it's certainly worth getting your head around what is going on. With so many of the activities free to drop into, as and when you want, if planning isn't yoru thing and you like to play it by ear - then that's also fine. That's what we did and i don't feel we missed out on anything.

Things you can do at Love Trails

Coastering with savage.adventures
Dance Music into the early hours
Guided runs with various running clubs throughout the day
Yoga at sunrise and through the day
Breathwork and meditation sessions
Talks from experts sharing their experiences, insights and being open with any advice
Selection of 'races' from 5km to half marathons and more
Paddleboarding and surfing
Plenty of craft beer
Yoga for runners (as you'd expect)
Live Music each night
World Championship Beer Mile Relay - now that was a great fun to watch!
Sauna & Cold baths

Unsurprisingly, we've already booked for next year. Hopefully we'll be able to get a group together to share such an awesome weekend.

Fingers crossed we are as fortunate with the weather again - however, I have no doubt we'll have a great time sun, wind or rain.

Who knows- this may be the start of our festival experiences; if they are anything like Love Trails, I don't why it won't be the start of something new for us to do in the summer.

WHY KINDNESS MATTERS

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:04:52 GMT

How Kindness Boosts Happiness

Acts of kindness have the real power to transform not only the lives of those on the receiving end but also the individuals who perform them. The simple act of being kind can have a significant impact on our own happiness, overall wellbeing and broader sense of positivity.

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4 Types of Acts of Kindness

Kindness comes in various forms, and each type has unique benefits for both the giver and the recipient:

Random Acts of Kindness

These are spontaneous acts of generosity and kindness performed without any specific reason. Examples include paying for a stranger's coffee, leaving an uplifting note for someone, or helping a neighbor with their groceries.

Altruistic Acts

Altruistic kindness involves selfless giving, expecting nothing in return. Donating to a charity, volunteering your time, or helping someone in need without any ulterior motive are all examples of altruistic kindness.

Small Daily Acts

Everyday kindness involves incorporating small acts of kindness into your daily routine. Complimenting a colleague, holding the door open for someone, or listening attentively to a friend's concerns all fall into this category.

Empathetic Acts

These acts involve showing empathy and understanding toward someone who may be going through a difficult time. Offering a shoulder to cry on, providing emotional support, or simply lending a listening ear are empathetic acts of kindness.

8 Benefits of Acts of Kindness

Acts of kindness, regardless of their type, offer a wealth of benefits for both the giver and the recipient:

1. Enhanced Emotional Wellbeing

Kindness triggers the release of "feel-good" hormones like oxytocin and endorphins in the brain, leading to an immediate boost in mood. Engaging in acts of kindness can reduce stress, anxiety, and symptoms of depression.

2. Increased Life Satisfaction

Acts of kindness are closely linked to higher levels of life satisfaction and overall happiness. Knowing that you've made a positive impact on someone's life can be deeply fulfilling.

3. Improved Relationships

Kindness fosters stronger interpersonal connections. When you're consistently kind to others, it creates a cycle of positivity that can lead to more meaningful and lasting relationships.

4. Reduced Negative Emotions

Kindness helps mitigate negative emotions like anger, envy, and resentment. When you focus on helping others, it becomes harder to dwell on negativity.

5. Greater Empathy

Performing acts of kindness can enhance your capacity for empathy. It allows you to better understand and relate to the emotions and experiences of others.

6. Enhanced Self-Esteem

Acts of kindness can boost your self-esteem and self-worth. Seeing the positive impact you have on others reinforces a sense of competence and self-value.

7. Increased Resilience

Kindness can contribute to greater resilience in the face of adversity. When you practice kindness regularly, you develop a more positive outlook, which can help you bounce back from setbacks more easily.

8. Sense of Purpose

Acts of kindness provide a sense of purpose and meaning. Knowing that you're contributing to the greater good can add depth and fulfillment to your life.

Ways to Incorporate Kindness into Your Life

Start Small

Begin with small acts of kindness in your daily life. Smile at strangers, hold the door open, or compliment a colleague. These simple gestures can have a significant impact.

Volunteer

Dedicate some of your time to volunteer work or charitable organizations. Giving back to your community or a cause you care about can be profoundly rewarding.

Practice Active Listening

Be a compassionate listener when friends or family members need someone to talk to. Sometimes, lending an empathetic ear is the most meaningful form of kindness.

Random Acts

Surprise someone with a random act of kindness, like leaving an anonymous note of encouragement or paying for a stranger's meal.

Express Gratitude

Show gratitude to those who have been kind to you. A simple thank-you note or message can go a long way in acknowledging others' kindness.

Empathize

Put yourself in someone else's shoes and try to understand their perspective. Offering support and empathy to someone in need is a powerful act of kindness.

Set Kindness Goals

Challenge yourself to perform a certain number of acts of kindness each week. Setting goals can help you make kindness a consistent part of your life.

Being Kind

Acts of kindness are not only gestures of goodwill; they are powerful tools for boosting happiness and overall wellbeing. Whether they're random, altruistic, small daily acts, or empathetic gestures, kindness has the potential to create a ripple effect of positivity that extends to both the giver and the recipient.

By incorporating kindness into your daily life, you can experience the profound joy and fulfillment that comes from making a positive impact on the world around you. Remember, kindness is contagious, and every small act has the potential to create a brighter, more compassionate world for us all.

ARE YOU GETTING ENOUGH DOPAMINE?

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:04:51 GMT

Dopamine Hits - Are You Getting Enough?

Dopamine is known as the "reward neurotransmitter," and it plays a crucial role in motivation, pleasure, and our overall well-being. Like Serotonin, we've heard about it, but may not fully understand the role it plays in our day to day lives and sense of wellbeing. Hopefully this blog will help shed some light on the subject. Also - as with all the Life Tonics we like to share - small changes can make a difference, which need not take up a lot of time or money - for that matter.

In my mind, more often that not, we 'know' what we could or should be doing but without knowing why. By understanding the 'why' it may help to make the small changes, longer lasting that establish a habit.

So, what exactly is dopamine, and how can we maximise its potential in our lives?

What is Dopamine?

Dopamine is a chemical messenger that facilitates communication between neurons in the brain. It's involved in various physiological processes, including movement, emotion, cognition, motivation, and reward perception. We can stimulate dopamine in a range of ways - listed below. Personally, I love the idea of seeking novel experiences as it means that as a family, couple and an individual we are doing new things. It can take some organisation but it's soooo worth it.

6 Ways to Boost Dopamine Levels

1. Healthy Diet‍

Consuming foods rich in tyrosine can provide the building blocks for dopamine synthesis. Incorporate sources such as eggs, dairy products, lean meats, fish, nuts, seeds, and legumes into your diet. Additionally, foods high in antioxidants, such as fruits and vegetables, support overall brain health and dopamine function. I find this one harder than perhaps I should as I do have a bit of a sweet tooth but do feel the difference if I over indulge.

2. Regular Exercise‍

Physical activity is a powerful way to increase dopamine levels naturally. Both aerobic exercises like jogging and resistance training activities like weightlifting have been shown to enhance dopamine release. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate to vigorous exercise most days of the week to reap the benefits. Exercise has been a staple for me throughout my life, but realise that it's good to mix things up to maintain dopamine levels.

3. Set and Achieve Goals‍

Dopamine is closely linked to motivation and goal-directed behavior. Setting realistic and meaningful goals activates the brain's reward system, leading to dopamine release upon accomplishment. Break down larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks, and celebrate each milestone to sustain motivation and dopamine production. In my mind - think lasting habits....link above.

4. Practice Mindfulness‍

Mindfulness meditation and other relaxation techniques can modulate dopamine levels. These practices reduce stress, promote emotional well-being, and enhance dopamine receptor sensitivity. Incorporate mindfulness into your daily routine through guided meditation, deep breathing exercises, or yoga. I spend 5 minutes a day meditating; most recently ensuring I list 3 gratitudes on each inhale and exhale.

5. Get Sufficient Sleep

Quality sleep is essential for dopamine regulation and overall brain function. Establish a consistent sleep schedule, create a relaxing bedtime routine, and optimize your sleep environment to ensure restorative rest. Aim for 7-9 hours of uninterrupted sleep each night to support optimal dopamine levels. As an early riser this often means I am first to bed in the house...but lack of sleep has been a challenge in the past so I manage my sleep carefully.

6. Seek Novel Experiences‍

Novelty and exploration stimulate dopamine release in the brain. Engage in new activities, hobbies, or adventures to activate your brain's reward system. Whether it's trying a new recipe, exploring a new hiking trail, or learning a new skill, embrace novelty to boost dopamine levels and ignite your sense of curiosity. Travel and exercise are two of our passions - as you may have guessed; time away really helps me to reset and keep a level of perspective.

5 Benefits of Enhanced Dopamine Levels

Having outlined how to boost our dopamine levels, it's important to understand what the impact can be - after all, to help make long lasting changes we need to feel the reward or benefit of our actions!

1. Increased Motivation‍

Dopamine plays a central role in motivation and goal pursuit. By elevating dopamine levels, we can experience heightened drive, focus, and determination to pursue their aspirations. As a morning person, a good night sleep helps me take on the day from the off - this is particularly important as I often have early morning classes. ‍

2. Enhanced Mood and Pleasure‍

Dopamine is often referred to as the "feel-good" neurotransmitter due to its role in pleasure and reward. Optimal dopamine levels are associated with feelings of happiness, satisfaction, and enjoyment. Don't we all want this?

3. Improved Cognitive Function‍

Dopamine influences cognitive processes such as attention, memory, and decision-making. By optimizing dopamine levels, individuals may experience improved concentration, mental clarity, and problem-solving abilities.

4. Better Stress Management‍

Dopamine has stress-buffering effects, helping individuals cope with adversity more effectively. Enhanced dopamine levels promote resilience and emotional well-being in the face of challenges.

5. Enhanced Learning and Creativity

Dopamine facilitates synaptic plasticity, the brain's ability to adapt and learn. By boosting dopamine levels, individuals may experience enhanced learning, creativity, and innovation. Learning is the 3rd of 5 Pillars of Wellbeing that I often refer, and return too.

So what can dopamine make a difference?

Dopamine can can help our levels of motivation, pleasure, and cognitive function. By being aware of, and making small adjustments to our routine that supports dopamine production, such as a healthy diet, regular exercise, goal setting, mindfulness, sufficient sleep, and seeking novelty, we can unlock a broad range of benefits, including increased motivation, enhanced mood, improved cognitive function, better stress management, and heightened creativity.

At My Life Tonic, we refer to them as Life Tonics - small changes that can make a difference. What we like to emphasise is that we are all different and different Life Tonics may suit you at different times or stages of your life. Being aware of what small changes you could do is the most important factor. By understanding the 'Why' of these changes can support you being able to make the changes in your routine.

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WELLBEING AND PETS

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:04:50 GMT

A Celebration of Life - Missy

Apologies if the title sounds a bit OTT - it's not meant to be...but for anyone that has had a pet, you will know what it's like to lose a close member of your family. For anyone that knows us, followed us on the socials, or watched our on demand videos; Missy has played a cameo role in some way or another. I'm not Missy contributed particularly to the guided meditation, some of the kids yoga sessions or by her general positioning on a mat mid way through a live streamed class as we tried a downward dog.

For those that have come to the studio or deck, Missy was generally on hand to leave some fur on an item of clothing as part of the complete experience.

Anyway, in late August we had to say good bye to Missy. For a Lab not to get up to greet us in the morning, usher us to the bowl for breakfast or patrol the garden; it was clear that all was not right. (She had been on various medication for a while, so we suspected the time would come sooner or later). Fortunately, our local vet was available and relatively short notice to ensure that Missy did not have to suffer too much pain or discomfort for too long.

As a family we spent the last few hours comforting her and sharing some our memories.

On reflection, it's been a positive experience to appreciate the impact Missy, and pets in a broader perspective, can have on our overall wellbeing. Hence, the reason for the blog.

Why Pets are Positive for Our Wellbeing

It really doesn't matter what your pet is; from the 'needy' dog to an independent cat, to birds, rabbits, and even reptiles pets provide companionship, joy, and numerous health benefits. Having grown up with pets, I perhaps appreciate this more as an adult, from offering emotional support and the physical rewards associated with having a pet.

Emotional and Psychological Benefits

One of the most significant benefits of having a pet is the emotional support they provide. Without wanting to be too cliched pets are known to reduce stress, anxiety, and depression. We are still in the stage of expecting an enthusiastic welcome home from Missy when the front door opens. I think it may well take a bit of getting used to. The simple act of petting a dog or cat can release oxytocin, a hormone associated with bonding and relaxation, and lower cortisol levels, which are linked to stress. The unconditional love that pets offer can be a comforting presence, especially in times of emotional turmoil. I am also reminded of the expression, 'Be the person your dog thinks you are,' such is their unconditional love.

Pets also provide a sense of purpose and routine. Taking care of an animal requires a certain level of responsibility, from feeding and grooming to exercise and health care. This routine can be especially beneficial for people struggling with depression or anxiety, as it gives a reason to get out of bed and stay active. I've found you also get fewer strange looks if you are talking to a dog whilst on a walk than talking to yourself. Talking through your thoughts verbally can be one way to process and order both thoughts and emotions.

Physical Health Benefits

Beyond emotional well-being, pets also contribute to our physical health. Dog owners, in particular, often lead more active lifestyles due to the necessity of walking and playing with their dogs. Regular physical activity is also associated with lower blood pressure, improved cardiovascular health, and better weight management. Even the act of playing with a pet indoors can be a source of exercise and movement.

If having a pet means that you have to get outside for at least 20 minutes or get some exercise for 20 minutes ; then you are also adding your own wellbeing. Similarly, the companionship of a pet can help combat feelings of loneliness and isolation, offering constant, non-judgmental presence.

Social Benefits

Though I don't have the research or science to prove it; having a pet can also improve your social life. Having a pet makes you more approachable - certainly if you are walking with a dog, rather than alone, you are more likely to generate a social interaction with someone along the way. With loneliness becoming an increasing issue in the UK for all generations, if a pet can enable a conversation or interaction then it has to be positive. (That is assuming that the pet is obedient...I'm thinking Fenton Dog here - have a look on youtube if you are not familiar with it).

Learning Responsibility and Empathy

For us, Missy also offered our son the change to learn invaluable lessons such as; caring, taking on responsibility, empathy, and compassion. They learn to understand the needs of another living thing, fostering a sense of nurturing and care. Certainly the bond between a person (not just a child) and a pet can be a source of comfort, learning, and personal growth. As you can see below - Missy also had our back...

Coping with the Loss of a Pet

Despite the many joys that pets bring into our lives, as we have found out only too well this summer, the reality is that our pets lifespans are much shorter than ours. The loss of a pet can be an emotionally hard experience. However, over th recent weeks it's been helpful to share the following tips with our son (and remind us as adults).

Acknowledging the Grief

The first step in coping with the loss of a pet is knowing that it’s okay to mourn the loss of your pet; to shed a tear and feel sadness. We consciously giving ourselves permission to feel the pain and sadness that comes with the loss of Missy. These feelings are natural and part of the healing process; fortunately for our son I think this is the first time he is really old enough to emotionally absorb the loss of a loved one.

Keeping the Memories Alive

You can do this in a multiple of ways; from creating a photo album, a special piece of jewelry with their name, or even planting a tree in their memory. As a family, we are constantly bringing Missy up in our conversation and sharing memories of her. Friends have also been kind enough to share photos, videos and memories of her too.

Moving Forward

We're not sure what will be next, at this time we're enjoying the memories of Missy. Whilst our studio classes and deck yoga sessions will feel a bit different, we have plenty of her antics captured in our day life whilst she was with us.

Conclusion

It's been a strange few weeks since we lost Missy; she undoubtedly brought a lot of happiness and amusement that we'll cherish forever. It felt only right, and appropriate, that we share the loss of our beloved member of the family. And without wanting to turn our lives into a case study, our personal reflection of having a pet has undoubtedly contributed to our overall wellbeing. Afterall, as My Life Tonic our focus is to share ways that can improve our overall wellbeing. Having a pet isn't something to be taken lightly, but if you are able to find a pet that fits in with your circumstances then it's worth thinking about.

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A WEEKEND IN COPENHAGEN

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 17:04:46 GMT

A visit to Copenhagen - It was Only a Matter of Time

Having thoroughly enjoyed the book 'A year of living Danishly' and looked into the Danish concept of Hygge in relation to maintaining a positive wellbeing and mental health - it was only a matter of time until I finally visited Copenhagen.

And what a pleasure it was; a city break with history, a bit of culture, cold water, exercise and time with friends and family.

We stayed north the city center in Ordrup (on the orange line) - which proved to be a perfect base and only 20 odd minutes away from the town center. Like the rest of the city there was plenty of good food places, coffee shops to experience. Ordrup was also great place to explore by foot; including the grounds at Bernstorff Slot and the park land at Rode Port - both places to get enjoy getting lost in.

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7 Things to do in Copenhagen

1. Bike hire to explore the Copenhagen

It's such a great city to cycle round with plenty of cycle routes to follow. Various pay as you go electric bikes and scooter are available. We spent a good few hours getting lost in the city and in the surrounding neighbourhoods. Maybe do the canal tour first so you get a good idea of what is where. Just a note of warning - our bikes were halted randomly so we had not choice but to walk back on foot. No great deal and I guess these things happen

2. Canal Tour

Touristy, but gives you a good idea of where things are and what you may want to visit for longer later on you stay. Having previously been sceptical of hop on hop off buses, the canal tour was a great way to learn a bit more about the city, get our bearings for the days ahead. Certainly worth doing! You can get a river view of Hans Christian Andersen's Little Mermaid - though it has to be said seeing the queues of people waiting to 'get their shot' did rather diminish the experience. We did also see some people exploring the waterways by SUP and Kayak - something that maybe fun in our next visit.

3. Nyhavn Waterfront

The water front with the iconic multi coloured buildings - lots of bars, restaurants, hotels and ice cream shops. This is place to get comfortable and people watch. Over the pedestrian bridge is a more chilled area of outdoor street food (also a good place to pick up a bike to rent). A place you really need to go when in Copenhagen - even if it is a bit touristy -but we tourists aren't we...

4. Museums & Places of Interest

We visited the Museum of Copenhagen to understand how the city has evolved. I'm more interested in more recent history so the insights into how homes have changed and how liberal communities have forged their own areas within the city. With Max, we have agreed on a limit of museum visits to ensure we are able to maintain his levels of interest. The National Museum of Denmark opposite also looked interesting but we weren't able to negotiate with our teenager to break our self imposed limit...

5. Tivoli Gardens

An amusement park in the middle of the city. Once you've paid a nominal fee to get in there are plenty of bars and restaurants and open spaces to hang out in. Roller coaster and fair ground rides were also available for people of all ages. A touristy thing to do but fun none the less. Keep an eye out for any concerts that are on in the central park area.

6. Kronborg Castle

The castle in Helsinger, an hour north of the city and reachable by train, is where Shakespear based Hamlet. Great to visit to see a bit of coastline as well and see Sweden from the rampart views from the UNESCO World Heritage site. I gather the area was previously important as a narrow point out of the Baltic Seas to the North Sea and Atlantic. By charging a toll to pass through generated significant wealth (and power) for the Danes.

7. Cold Water, Sauna's and hot tubs

We couldn't come to Denmark and not get our fix of cold water.

Urban 'drop in spots' - there were multiple free spots you could drop in around the harbour that were fenced in for safety. We did see several people swimming in some of the small less busy canals...they were probably locals.

Beaches to the North- Klampenborg Beach - at the end of the orange line to the north (about 20 minutes from the town center stop of Norreport) - open beach with ladders into the sectioned off sea

Beaches to the South - Greve Beach - on the purple and blue lines to the south - lovely open, long beaches...there is a metro stop there but you'd have to check access locally. This was more rugged beach area.

Search sauna's Copehagen and there are plenty of options to try out...something for next time I think.

If we had more time...

Opera House, Church of Our Saviour, National Museum of Denmark, Kastellet Fort and Park will all be visited but there is only so much you can do without rushing around too much...and there's always the chance there will be more cold water and sauna's to really get into the city vibe. Perhaps a winter visit should be next...

FEEL GOOD NATURALLY

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 15:56:56 GMT

...WITH ENDORPHINS

The Natural Feel Good Happiness and Wellbeing Chemical

We all want to feel good don't we?

As with my previous posts sharing insights into Serotonin , Dopamine and Cortisol , Endorphins are another naturally created chemical that can really affect our mood and overall wellbeing. Also referred to as the body's natural "feel-good" chemicals, endorphins play an important role in regulating emotions, reducing pain, and promoting an overall sense of happiness and contentment.

Understanding what endorphins are, how to boost their levels, and the benefits they offer support the ongoing aim of enhancing our overall wellbeing.

As with previous posts, by understanding the impact small changes, or My Life Tonics, can have, will help to maintain and establish longer lasting habits when perhaps motivation levels are low.

What Are Endorphins?

Endorphins are neurotransmitters produced by the central nervous system. They belong to a class of chemicals known as endogenous opioids, which are substances produced within the body that act similarly to opioids such as morphine or codeine. However, unlike external opioids, endorphins are naturally created by the body and play a crucial role in maintaining various physiological processes.

The primary function of endorphins is to inhibit the transmission of pain signals and promote feelings of happiness and pleasure. Essentially endorphins block the perception of pain and induce a sense of well-being. Beyond pain relief, endorphins also play a role in regulating stress, enhancing immune function, and promoting better sleep.

5 Ways to Raise Endorphin Levels

Fortunately, there are several ways to stimulate the release of endorphins naturally, allowing individuals to experience more joy and happiness:

Exercise : Physical activity is perhaps the most potent way to boost endorphin levels. Engaging in cardiovascular exercises like running, swimming, or cycling stimulates the release of endorphins, often leading to what's commonly known as a "runner's high." Even moderate exercise, such as brisk walking or yoga, can stimulate endorphin production and elevate mood.
Laughing and Smiling : Laughter truly is the best medicine when it comes to endorphin release. Watching a comedy show, spending time with friends who make you laugh, or simply smiling can trigger the release of these feel-good chemicals. In my mind, it's a simple formula - hang out with people that make you feel good...
Music and Dance : Listening to uplifting music or dancing along to your favorite tunes can also stimulate endorphin release. Music has a profound effect on our emotions, and rhythmic movement activates the brain's reward system, leading to a surge in endorphins. Music hasn't tended to play a big part in my life, however, we enjoy supporting local artists and use it as an excuse to get together with friends.
Meditation and Mindfulness : Practices like meditation and mindfulness have been shown to increase endorphin levels while reducing stress and anxiety. By focusing on the present moment and cultivating a sense of inner peace, individuals can enhance their overall well-being. You can use the meditation to repeat gratitudes or find a sense of calmness before you return to your daily responsibilities.
Spicy Foods : Consuming spicy foods containing capsaicin, such as chili peppers, can trigger the release of endorphins. The sensation of heat from spicy foods stimulates the body's pain receptors, prompting the release of endorphins to alleviate discomfort.

5 Benefits of Endorphins

Elevating endorphin levels can yield a multitude of benefits for both physical and mental health:

Pain Relief : Endorphins act as natural painkillers, providing relief from discomfort and reducing the perception of pain. For me, the sense of pain relief is unique to the benefits of endorphins in comparison to the importance of serotonin, dopamine for example.
Mood Enhancement : Increased endorphin levels are associated with feelings of happiness, euphoria, and general well-being, helping to alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety.
Stress Reduction : Endorphins help to combat stress by promoting relaxation and dampening the body's stress response, leading to a greater sense of calm and resilience.
Improved Immune Function : Endorphins have been shown to enhance immune function, potentially reducing the risk of illness and promoting faster recovery from infections.
Better Sleep : The relaxation induced by endorphins can contribute to improved sleep quality, leading to more restful and rejuvenating nights.

In conclusion, endorphins are a powerful ally in the pursuit of happiness and well-being. By incorporating activities that stimulate endorphin release into our daily lives, such as exercise, laughter, and mindfulness, we can harness the natural mechanisms of our bodies to enhance our mood, alleviate pain, and promote overall health. So go ahead, embrace the power of endorphins, and experience the joy of living life to the fullest.

SWIMRUNS 2024

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 15:56:54 GMT

Our 2024 Swimrun Events

Earlier in the year (2024) we, Shannon and I, decided we wanted to enter races this summer - so we signed up to a few Swimruns in the UK.

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Over the last few years we've done several other events in Wales, Germany, Croatia, Spain and Sweden. In contrast to triathlons they are easier to travel to (and train for) as you only have 2 sports (swim and run, without the cycling you have in triathlons).

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There is some specialist kit you may need, such as a swimrun wetsuit (zip at the front), swimming paddles, pool buoy and lightweight shoes to swim in - but nothing too extravagant (like a bike!).

This year was about getting back into the swing of things. Hopefully in 2025 we'll be able to do some more events both in the UK and further afield.

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Although I've used the term races, for us, they really are events.....the point being it provides a focus for training, tt's a chance to get away and visit somewhere new and we are not going to trouble the podium - hence the 'events'...We enjoy them!

What are Swimruns?

For those not familiar with Swimruns, they are events where you Run in your swimming kit, swim in your running kit....and repeat various numbers of times. It does mean you get a few quizzical looks when you are seen running in wetsuits with swim hat and goggles on but once you've got over that it really is a fun 'new' sport.

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With the above in mind, every course is different both in the number of swim and runs you do but also the distances. So, ultimately, it's almost impossible to compare the times across different events. Runs can be partially on road, paths, in forests, along beaches or across hills and mountains. Similarly the swims can be in lakes, rivers or seas.

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For most events (races) you can race either by yourself or as a pair. If you choose to do an event with someone else, it is worth trying to find someone that is relatively similar to you or you have different strengths so you can go at each others pace.
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As with other events, you can do various distances based on your fitness, time available to train or your inclination. Longer SwimRuns tend to be around a total of 8km of swimming with maybe 38 km of running. Shorter SwimRuns, that we have done this summer are around 3km swimming with anything between 16-21km running.

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What strikes me is that the feel of the events is pretty welcoming and friendly as the sport is still pretty new. Hopefully the number of events will continue to grow as more people get to know about the sport.

Our 2024 Swimrun Events

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Nene Valley Swimrun - Near Peterborough - June
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A lovely flat course that weaves along the Nene Valley. Lovely fresh river water, with relatively flat countryside to run across. Lots of fun with a very local feel to it. As Keen As Mustard Events organise multiple events through the summer in the broader Peterborough region.

Swimrun Stuldand - Dorset - June

Even having taken out some of the swims, due to poor conditions, this was a tough event with sea swims and hilly coastline running. That's not to say it wasn't fun - it certainly was, and it was set in stunning surroundings - starting and finishing at the National Trust Studland Bay Beach

Oxford Swimrun - September

This was our local event; in that it was only an hour (rather than 3 hours away). 3 swims and 3 runs in the countryside just to the north west of Oxford with 16km running and 3.6km of swimming. Running along the Thames and in the Oxford University Forest was lovely. I can't not mention the plethora of cakes at the end - I tried my best to try them all and was not disappointed.

I'd highly recommend all of the events we've done this year for sure. As a growing sport, both the events and the people doing them are really friendly and welcoming.

You can of course race these events, or like us, enjoy the experience and the chance to explore different areas in the UK. I'm sure we'll do more next year both in the UK and hopefully further afield.

If you have any questions about swimruns please do get in touch; we'd be happy to share any experiences we've had.
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YIN YOGA

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 15:56:52 GMT

An Introduction to Yin Yoga

There are so many different types of yoga that it’s hard to keep up with the different styles; all of which stretch the body and engage the muscles in their own way.

Yin yoga is different because the focus is on the deeper tissues such as bones and fascia.

When studying yoga, you learn that there are mostly references to Indian philosophy. Some of the Indian religions (such as Hinduism) come from the same roots as yoga. Yoga poses have bewildering names in Sanskrit, an ancient Indian language. There are also strong ties with Ayurveda, Indian medicine.

The concept of Yin yoga comes from Eastern philosophy, mainly traditional Chinese medicine. The idea that our body is filled with energy “chi” and runs along pathways called meridians. If you have ever had acupuncture, the needles are placed on meridian points to help with healing. Yin yoga does the same thing, but with yoga stretches (a little less scary).

An Introduction Yin Yoga

A yin yoga sequence will typically start as other classes, sitting quietly with eyes closed and grounding ourselves. Then you head straight into a strong sitting pose, doing a “cold stretch”. The muscles need to be cold to allow for gentle stretching or compression of the ligaments, tendons and fascia. The latter is more rigid than muscles so it takes longer to stretch.

Most poses are done seated or on the floor. There are no specific “yin yoga poses”; they are similar to other dynamic yoga poses but held for longer periods of time. For example, in Vinyasa Flow or Ashtanga yoga, a person typically holds a pose for 5 breaths, so maybe 30 seconds. In Yin yoga, poses are held for 2-5 minutes and can therefore feel like a more meditative practice. If you have a busy mind, that can seem like a long time!

So, many think that Yin yoga is better to start off because it’s slower. However, it can be a lot harder than a dynamic vinyasa flow class.

If you have an injury, I would advise speaking to a health professional before doing yin yoga practice. The poses when held for a long time can be intense.

Though the class seems slower, Yin yoga is not the same as Restorative yoga. Some of the classes do have restorative poses, but many of the yoga poses are meant to gently compress or twist the tissue surrounding your joints or your fascia (the tissue that holds your muscles and organs in place). Often coming out of a pose in Yin yoga, you will feel a strong sensation as the body rebounds. Restorative is more passive and relaxing.

Think of the yin yang symbol: Yin is slower, calmer, quieter. Yang is fast, productive and busy. Many people with “Yang” personalities (myself included) tend to gravitate towards the more dynamic, . But the body might appreciate time to slow down, allowing the deep tissue to stretch. But it’s hard at first. Yin yoga poses allow time for meditation. And it takes practice.

I was surprised to hear some of my London triathlete friends say how much they love Yin yoga! The benefits of yin yoga for runners can be evident in the joints. Joints can get a lot of wear and tear from high impact activity such as running. The yoga poses put gentle pressure on the joints producing more synovial fluid and hydrating the joints, which is critical to healthy joints.

Yin yoga benefits

Stabilises the joints by strengthening the more rigid soft tissue
Hydrates the joints, leading to less wear and tear
Increases mobility and improving range of motion throughout the body
Though the muscles aren’t the target, they ultimately get a deeper stretch
Improve overall health by clearing energy blockages in the body (like acupuncture)
Gives the mind time for meditation during the longer holds

Yin Yoga Classes

Following on demand yoga videos online is a great way to start yin yoga classes in the comfort of your home. At My Life Tonic we have created a selection of options for your yoga practice at home.

Yin classes are included in both the monthly subscription packages below. Each week there is 1 live streamed yin yoga class, from our yoga studio in Cookham, whilst there are a wide range filmed videos to watch whenever you want.

VITAMAIN SEA

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 15:56:51 GMT

Taking A Break

Over the last May Bank Holiday I think we had a bit of everything - sun, wind and rain but it really didn't matter what the weather was on our recent trip to Camber Sands and Rye.

Nothing like getting windswept on an empty beach to really appreciate the elements and switching off.

In other works - taking a break - taking advantage of the fact that we don't offer classes over the holiday period so we can spend time as a family.

It was lovely to have a change of scene as a family; just hanging out taking in somewhere new together. If nothing else - getting away, exploring somewhere new, means that we don't feel obliged to do any of the house hold chores that inevitably need to be done.

Camber Sands

Having not visited the area before there was an element of the unknown - despite online searches being able to tell you pretty much all you may think you need to know. I'm a believer that researching is good and certainly useful but I also like exploring and seeing where it takes us.

Not setting the alarm and waking up naturally!
Chucking the rugby ball around in the waves
Exploring on E-bikes to find the Rye Fort and the Winchelsea Nature Reserve
Getting lost in the sand dunes
Ice cream
Playing with Missy in the waves
Artisan beers and coffee at Camber Lounge (great vibe to just hang out)
Savouring the sunsets
Exercising along the beach
Training for our swimrun (the water wasn't very deep which made it a bit tricky)
Visiting the lighthouse

If you are interested in learning how to kite surf then the long, and wide sandy beaches look ideal and there were plenty of people giving it a go.

One of the reasons we chose Camber Sands was that it had large areas of the beach, and sand dunes that were dog friendly. Over the years Missy has always enjoyed playing around in the sea. As she gets odler and less mobile, she seemed to enjoy playing about in the sea with Max and a rugby ball. (It's the simple things).

There are a selection of shops and cafes to get food and stuff on near the beach, as you'd expect at any seaside location in the UK.

Rye

Hiring the e-bikes meant we could easily get to Rye along the foot / cycle path and then onwards to Winchelsea.

Unsurprisingly this historic town has lots of boutique shops to explore and independent coffee shops to stop and watch the world go by. (Not meaning to be too cliched but that's what we did). Heading out of Rye towards the Quay and on to Winchelsea was gorgeous. Green fields with lambs and cows grazing lead us to Rye Fort before heading towards the coast.

This was where we stumbled across a group of Morris Dancers outside the William the Conqueror pub. It took me back to my primary school days when I did a bit of Morris Dancing myself!

We had planned to head towards Dungeness on the ebikes but were a little saddle sore so headed back to the beach at Camber Sands. Having driven there later in the day, the ride would have certainly been less scenic for us - so we probably made the right decision.

I'd like to think we try to practice what like to share with our Life Tonics; many of which were included over the weekend

Having long lie ins - reaping the benefit of plenty of sleep
Digital Detox - it's hard to be on the phone in water
Spending 20 minutes outside every day
Physical benefits of cold water
Exercising for at least 20 minutes
The benefits of savouring
Mental health benefits of cold water
Keep learning (or exploring) - one of the pillars of wellbeing

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BREATHWORK - MAKE THE MOST OF IT

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 15:56:50 GMT

6 Benefits of Breathwork

We all have to do it, but are we making the most of it's potential.

For me, I think of breathwork as very similar to making sure we spend enough time outside. In our every day lives we are likely at some point to find ourselves outside. The trick is to take a moment to appreciate that time and try to soak in the goodness it offers (fresh air, vitamin D, taking in what's around us).

Focusing on our breathwork is pretty similar- though we may need to spend a little bit of time consciously focusing on how we breath. In our day to day routine we seem to be increasingly going from one place or project to another. It's more than likely that we are breathing shallowly and not spending time thinking of how we breath.

Breathwork - it needn't be hard

Why not give a simple breathwork technique a go. It will only take a few minutes and you can do it anywhere and anytime.

A great starting point is to;

Notice how you feel before you start
Sit or stand comfortably
Close your eyes if it feels OK (or you can focus on a single point)
Focus on breathing through your nose
Try to do 20 rounds of breathing (using your fingers to keep count)
Inhale to count of 4
Exhale to the count of 4
It' will only take around 3-4 minutes
Notice how you feel at the end - has anything changed?

You may want to try the first few times in a quite location that is free from distractions and potentially in a private place.

As you feel more comfortable you could always try it on your daily commute on the train / bus / underground, in between meetings, when put your phone down for a moment or just before you go to bed.

Benefits of Breathwork

Stress Reduction and Relaxation

Breathwork promotes relaxation by activating the parasympathetic nervous system, bringing a sense of calm and tranquility to your daily life.

Mental Clarity

By focusing on intentional breathing patterns, you can sharpen your concentration, improve cognitive function, and gain a clearer perspective on life's challenges.

Emotional Release and Healing

Engaging in breathwork allows you to let go of pent-up emotions, creating space for healing and self-discovery; give it a go and see what comes up.

Increased Energy Levels

Oxygen can act as a fuel for life, and through conscious breathing, you can enhance your energy levels, promoting a vibrant and revitalized state of being.

Improved Sleep Quality

incorporating breathwork into your bedtime routine can help calm the mind, release tension, and pave the way for a restful and rejuvenating sleep.

Heightened Self-Awareness

Breathwork can act as a powerful introspective tool, fostering self-awareness and a deeper connection with your self.

You can read about some of the benefits of breathwork in one of our blogs.

We also have a selection of breathing techniques available in our on-demand library .

‍ We'd love to hear your thoughts or feedback - have you been able to add Breathwork into your daily habit. Remember; starting small can help ingrain the activity into your routine so that it becomes a long lasting habit in your live.

CONTRAST THERAPY

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 15:56:48 GMT

10 BENEFITS OF CONTRAST THERAPY

Contrast Therapy - Combing Hot and Cold Together

In previous blogs, I've shared the benefits of both cold water exposure (or therapy) and also taking regular saunas. The blogs were largely focused on the impact of doing either in isolation.

What, if any, are the benefits of coming the two activities in a combined session. (One after the other as part of a regular routine).

Contrast therapy involves alternating between hot and cold water exposure.

It may sound counter intuitive, but by putting the body (and mind for that matter) into controlled situations where it experiences 'micro shocks' it can have a positive impact on both our physical wellbeing and mental health.

As with all things, it's important to do this safely, so we'd recommend building up either time in the sauna and the cold water gradually over time.

Contrast Therapy - Safety Tips

As well as the tips below - you can see links to how to enjoy open water swimming and cold water safely in the links to previous blog posts at the bottom of the page.

Start small - build up time in the cold water gradually. Start with 30 seconds and build up towards 3 minutes
Don't overheat - get accustomed to the heat in the sauna over time
Do it with others so you can check you are both OK
Control your breathing - control your breathing so that you aim to maintain slow and steady breathing through your nose so that you inhale to count of 4, exhale to the count of 6

10 benefits of contrast therapy:

Improved Circulation: Alternating between hot and cold water helps stimulate blood flow. Hot water causes vasodilation (widening of blood vessels), while cold water causes vasoconstriction (narrowing of blood vessels), enhancing overall circulation.
Reduced Muscle Soreness: Contrast therapy helps reduce muscle soreness and stiffness by flushing out metabolic waste products like lactic acid and decreasing inflammation.
Enhanced Recovery: Athletes and fitness enthusiasts use contrast therapy to accelerate recovery from intense workouts, as it reduces muscle fatigue and speeds up healing processes.
Pain Relief: The combination of heat and cold can alleviate chronic pain and discomfort by reducing inflammation and numbing pain receptors.
Detoxification: Hot water opens up pores and promotes sweating, which helps release toxins from the body, while cold water helps close the pores and reduces inflammation.
Boosted Immune System: Regular use of contrast therapy can enhance immune function by stimulating the lymphatic system and increasing the production of white blood cells.
Improved Skin Health: Alternating temperatures improve skin tone and texture by tightening pores and increasing blood flow to the skin, which enhances nutrient delivery and waste removal.
Stress Reduction: Contrast therapy promotes relaxation by reducing stress hormones like cortisol and stimulating the release of endorphins, leading to improved mood and overall mental well-being.
Enhanced Flexibility: The heat component of contrast therapy helps to relax muscles and increase flexibility, making it easier to perform stretching exercises.
Better Sleep Quality: By promoting relaxation and reducing muscle tension, contrast therapy can improve sleep quality and help with insomnia or other sleep disorders.

Incorporating contrast therapy into your wellness routine can provide a comprehensive approach to improving both physical and mental health, making it a beneficial practice for overall well-being.

Yoga + Cold Water + Sauna sessions

You can either join a class or we can find a time for a private 121 session.

If you'd prefer a private session with a group of friends then we can find a time that works for you.

Each of the sessions are 60 minutes long and includes, Breathwork and yoga for the first 30 minutes followed by 2 rounds of cold water and a a sauna.

Each class has a maximum of 6 people.

Tuesday afternoon @ 12 noon
Thursday mornings @ 0830
Friday afternoon @ 12 noon

Other classes are available on a private basis, either one to one or groups of friends!

Ultimately, whatever the motivation of a student, the mixed sessions offer multiple ways for an individual to feel 'better'.

If you'd like to find out more, please do get in touch. Contact us here!

To find out more why not read some of our previous blogs

Benefits of Cold Water Exposure
Benefits of Saunas
‍Enjoying Cold Water Safely‍
Mental Health Benefits of Cold Water‍
Physical Benefits of Cold Water

MENTAL HEALTH AT WORK

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 15:59:47 GMT

Mental Health Issues at Work

Colleagues struggling with mental health issues is a real thing in today's work place - and something that really can not be ignored; for the sake of individuals and the ongoing health of the business.

In previous posts I've highlighted the impact of Presenteeism and Absenteeism .

Should a colleague be struggling with their mental health, then both issues may also need addressing.

You may also find the scale of the issues surprising.

Mental Health Illness at Work

19% of women in full time employment experience mental health issues each year.

I think that it's certainly worth taking a moment to absorb this stat - almost 1 in 5 females working full time struggle with there mental health each year.

To put this in context, this rate is double the rate of men - so 10%. Whilst men suffer less with mental health issues in the work place - even that seems a high percentage don't you think.

The only conclusion that can be taken by the stats is that mental health is a real issue within the work place that needs to be addressed.

When you add in the fact that mental health issues are the cause of 12% of work absences it makes the case for organisation wellness programs all the more compelling for all employees.

Wellbeing Programs at Work

Mental health is not a gender-specific challenge; it affects everyone, regardless of gender. However, the statistics reveal that women often bear a heavier burden. Knowing the impact of mental health issues in the work place it becomes more obvious that there is a clear need for workplaces to offer mental health and wellbeing support that cater to the unique needs of all employees.

Workplace wellness programs play a pivotal role in creating an environment where mental health is a priority. Perhaps one of the challenges is that within most (if not all) workplaces there is a diverse range of people from sex, gender and age - to name a but a few differences. Ideally, any wellness programs need to offer a diverse range of options for colleagues to access from;

Physical activity - such as yoga, HIIT, Tone Up Sessions
Education and support - Mental Health First Aid awareness or Lunch and Learn Sessions
Mental health initiatives - such as workshops to encourage breathwork, meditation for example
Establish a sense of community - to encourage open conversations

In our previous blog, we've outlined the 5 Benefits of Wellbeing for Mental Health

It's not just about acknowledging the statistics but taking concrete steps to take that first step and change. If you have any questions about setting up a program to support colleagues of your organisation please do get in touch

Keep in touch with site visitors and boost loyalty

duda@arketa.com — Tue, 10 Dec 2024 08:51:16 GMT

There are so many good reasons to communicate with site visitors. Tell them about sales and new products or update them with tips and information.

Here are some reasons to make blogging part of your regular routine.

Blogging is an easy way to engage with site visitors

Writing a blog post is easy once you get the hang of it. Posts don’t need to be long or complicated. Just write about what you know, and do your best to write well.

Show customers your personality

When you write a blog post, you can really let your personality shine through. This can be a great tool for showing your distinct personality.

Blogging is a terrific form of communication

Blogs are a great communication tool. They tend to be longer than social media posts, which gives you plenty of space for sharing insights, handy tips and more.

It’s a great way to support and boost SEO

Search engines like sites that regularly post fresh content, and a blog is a great way of doing this. With relevant metadata for every post so search engines can find your content.

Drive traffic to your site

Every time you add a new post, people who have subscribed to it will have a reason to come back to your site. If the post is a good read, they’ll share it with others, bringing even more traffic!

Blogging is free

Maintaining a blog on your site is absolutely free. You can hire bloggers if you like or assign regularly blogging tasks to everyone in your company.

A natural way to build your brand

A blog is a wonderful way to build your brand’s distinct voice. Write about issues that are related to your industry and your customers.

Tips for writing great posts that increase your site traffic

duda@arketa.com — Tue, 10 Dec 2024 08:51:16 GMT

Write about something you know. If you don’t know much about a specific topic that will interest your readers, invite an expert to write about it.

Speak to your audience

You know your audience better than anyone else, so keep them in mind as you write your blog posts. Write about things they care about. If you have a company Facebook page, look here to find topics to write about

Take a few moments to plan your post

Once you have a great idea for a post, write the first draft. Some people like to start with the title and then work on the paragraphs. Other people like to start with subtitles and go from there. Choose the method that works for you.

Don’t forget to add images

Be sure to include a few high-quality images in your blog. Images break up the text and make it more readable. They can also convey emotions or ideas that are hard to put into words.

Edit carefully before posting

Once you’re happy with the text, put it aside for a day or two, and then re-read it. You’ll probably find a few things you want to add, and a couple more that you want to remove. Have a friend or colleague look it over to make sure there are no mistakes. When your post is error-free, set it up in your blog and publish.

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